it all comes down to authenticity. i feel hot and confident when i’m my most authentic self. if you are your most authentic self in uncomfortable heels, fancy clothes, and straight hair, then that’s you.
2025-06-12 02:42:08
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Shekinah.jpg :
The dressy clothes is so real. The way I don’t even own a pair of jeans. 😭😭
2025-06-12 14:59:54
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Miss Dorsey 🍎 :
Dang, I thought you were about to share financial advice. 😭
2025-06-12 13:55:46
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whyknock4u :
if only women would stop making their own lives a prison
2025-06-12 02:11:54
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audrey johnson :
Heels are the way to go
2025-06-12 01:23:24
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Fai’ La Vie!💋 :
Yes on the casual clothes. I don’t have any (got rid of em at 18) and 5 yrs later, I can’t remember the last time I felt grumpy while out.
2025-06-12 11:35:03
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carterblu :
I believe high maintenance isn’t about the heels girl,,
2025-06-12 09:56:46
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ok :
How about we just live for ourselves and be authentic as much as possible 😊
2025-06-13 22:24:34
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🥐 :
Heels all the time are so not worth future back problems !!
2025-06-12 11:11:13
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LuluOOTD20 :
YES NO CASUAL CLOTHES. I did not buy any t shirts or graphic tees for YEARS. I will NEVER wear sweats in public as well.
2026-04-28 12:08:19
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Just Michon :
Friend shaming should be a thing. Because they’re doing that in your case based on what you say you want. They’re holding you to it. That’s love
2025-06-13 21:01:26
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leah :
a jean and heel combo tho🫣🙌🏽
2025-06-13 15:58:24
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Clarissa🩷 :
This is a genuine friendship. A lot of girls are competing with their friends and always want to be the best dressed and won't tell you if you look bad.
2025-06-12 07:01:15
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paris’alicia🖤 :
just be yourself girl
2025-07-23 00:05:37
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☆JENNY☆ :
Work slacks and trousers are literally leggings but elevated. They’re comfortable, they look BOMB, and you don’t even have to try. I think I am that friend
2025-06-13 16:08:34
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Andrea Tendilla | NYC Content :
I have walked miles in heels before I admitted it hurts. People have literally told me they get dressed up when meeting up with me because they don’t want to feel less than
2025-06-12 15:57:27
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Tenyia :
I own more heels than sneakers now it’s crazy! 😩
2025-06-14 06:27:24
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Sofí🇨🇴 :
As someone who always overdresses I can 1000% confirm, the treatment and compliments I receive are always because of the way I present myself. It’s truly the best thing you can do
2025-06-14 00:09:34
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Tyra Mayes :
My aunt taught me if you’re going to wear heels you WEAR THEM, I wasn’t aloud to bring a change of shoes and now I bring a pair of heels as my backup if my first pair of heels hurt 😂
2025-06-12 15:17:06
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Iceyy🩵 :
Heels. Heels. Heels.
2025-06-14 03:53:52
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Ashantii :
my bestie said dress for the life you want, not the life you have👏🏾👏🏾✨ I’m working on it now.
2025-06-14 10:08:58
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Peanutbutter :
Heavy on the no casual clothes. Getting dressed well for the day will subconciously tell your brain its time to accomplish things. Plus, your non-casual clothes BECOME your casual clothes, so even when you have to get dressed up you're confident and comfy! Plus it boosts self esteem 😌
2025-06-12 21:01:23
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makeupwitlex :
manifesting this energy
2025-06-15 08:19:54
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terrinxo :
This is so true. Especially about the casual clothes! 😩
2025-06-12 03:01:38
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