Annalisa Bahadur
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CEO of NOT GIVING A F*CK🇹🇹 :
avoidants are jus plain toxic and need to heal. they be ruining good people. cant change my mind on that
2025-06-14 09:05:48
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⭐Little Sparks⭐ :
avoidants dont deserve anything ✌️they are all immature people that will refuse to talk things out, no exceptions
2025-06-14 13:06:39
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Tattooed rat :
its not my fault I don't like touch as much as the average person or clingy people, we have our trauma and I communicate all the time to give me space. If you can't give me space, then that's on you. Leave then. She communicated what she needed, he refused to listen. So not respecting boundaries is okay?
2025-06-14 17:03:33
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Dominiquelaurence :
the "anxious" is just a normal loving person wth
2025-06-14 00:00:08
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_Julz⚜️ :
Fr like why be in a relationship if you’re an avoidant. Take all ur space and time alone don’t stress me out.
2025-06-13 16:36:01
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CamyJournal :
she doesn't like him
2025-06-13 20:43:12
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" ️" :
I am an anxious one, but also i’m the type that don’t chase, i get attached easy and be sad when got ignored, but i always end up mirroring what they do. Don’t want/like me? Fine! And then i cry in silent until i became completely cold.
2025-06-13 20:09:14
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probinsyana girl :
relate. team avoidant🙋🥺🥺🥺
2025-06-13 10:21:19
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JohnnyBOI :
I don’t give avoidants the time of day. I’m gone at the first sign of red flags. Lol that’s a no for me dawg
2025-06-14 01:27:48
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ꕥ gi ꕥ gi ꕥ :
Team avoidant ❤️we don’t mean to we’re just struggling with rejection
2025-06-14 00:49:54
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sarahcupples82 :
I used to be anxious now I’m avoidant 😩
2025-06-14 12:36:39
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jehobaswitness1 :
The anxious type entitlement for people to heal on their time is obnoxious they will lie about being love bombed and all this stuff when I’m really they can’t sit with feelings and demand that everyone ignore their needs co-regulate them.
2025-06-17 14:44:37
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Jané01 :
No. Not timing. If there is no PROPER communication from both sides and the willingness to listen to eachother and to understand (at least trying to), THAT is the problem.
2025-06-15 16:44:10
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DavidC🇨🇦 :
There exists « healthy dependence » that can be beneficient for both types, but anyone with an avoidant attachment type will always struggle with growing relationships because they require vulnerability, comfort in intimacy, transparent communication and trust — behaviours they struggle with. They can greatly benefit from EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy).
2025-06-16 21:07:43
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MRK :
It's happening to me... right now. 🥺
2025-06-13 23:26:36
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khan1054 :
I was avoidant and he was also avoidant so we left each other 😂
2025-06-14 01:15:54
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Zoe :
anxious one is on point, because if u r dating then obviously u have to give time n respect, if avoidant have time for others but not for u, it's like end so y in a relationship then
2025-06-13 23:05:45
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JonMarc :
I ended it. I'm the anxious one
2025-06-14 19:54:20
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alvin67812 :
No. Timing isn't the problem. Avoidant always pleasant at the beginning, but always ends up with the same exit formula. Patterns don't lie. Statistics are what made probability and life as it is.
2025-06-15 09:11:40
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user5499095041074 :
Ugh my solitude, I have to have it why can't anxious people understand that?
2025-06-14 06:23:24
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Leeyah :
Team anxious in an 8 years relationship and now a big red flag for being an avoidant
2025-06-13 14:39:03
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ArEp.PiNo🌸 :
if you have Avoidant in yourself... don't friend with someone.... just alone at yourself.... so you not hurt anybody with your avoidant....
2025-06-15 05:00:24
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Sara⊹ᰔ :
Can they ever work out. I’m in this position but I’m anxious he is avoidant and I feel like he doesn’t care 😔
2025-07-04 19:39:29
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nrlsyh :
avoidant is the real problem...
2025-08-03 17:06:17
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agrimuppet :
Avoidant chases hard when anxious calls time, promises to communicate rather than ghost, then reverts to breadcrumbing to keep anxious interested. Avoidant establishes boundaries but disrespects anxious boundaries, anxious aware that challenging this will scare away avoidant. Anxious will drop everything to help avoidant, this is never reciprocated. I used to be anxious, now I have studied and understand the process, I have adapted, I like the challenge, it takes a lot of patience and effort. The trick is to mirror the avoidant…
2025-07-05 04:55:37
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