Shirley Jasmin :
We had no arguments for 5 years together, just minor disagreements, we have an honest beautiful friendship without judgment, until marriage. After marriage, we had much trials in the physical and spiritual, housing, family, money, etc. We noticed increased stress, fear, anxiety and anger, we had our first real argument, we didn't yell, we spoke calmly, but we hurt each other with a few words, something we hadn't done before. I started to have negative thoughts of him, that he can't provide for me; he started to have thoughts of me looking down at him, that he shouldn't live because he is useless. I felt like judging him, something I know I shouldn't be doing. I kept praying every day, little did I know he was praying every day too. I fasted too. By the grace of God, we spoke to each other with love and understanding, we apologized to each other and came up with a resolution to avoid this again. We agreed to pray together instead of separately whenever we are together. We both agreed this wasn't us, it was the enemy. He remembered my words before marriage, I told him we would be attacked more since the devil hates Godly covenants. But stronger is He that is in me than he that is in the world!. We are back to our loving selves. The devil won't have us.
2025-07-23 17:06:21