@mackenzieherman: One month later and they’re finally starting to feel something, they might not know what yet. The space they created is getting loud. Here’s what’s really happening in the mind of your avoidant ex. #breakup #avoidantattachment #avoidantex #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #toxicex #emotionaldetachment #mentalhealthtok #datingtips #attachmenttrauma #breakuphealing #relationshipcoach #avoidantpartner #emotionalintelligence #mindgames #healingafterbreakup #avoidantissues #datingavoidant #selfworthjourney #emotionalgrowth #datingawareness #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidant #attachmenthelp #attachmenttheorytok
She’s w a rebound 2 weeks later after 4 years together
2025-06-13 21:40:00
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Big_Bankhead :
May she miss me forever, Amen.
2025-06-14 03:50:14
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mariah :
im so confused if the guy i like is an avoidant. one of the first times we hung out, he got vulnerable and even cried a bit in front of me bc he got deep with me. this is absolutely no problem to me bc i want them to feel safe enough to be vulnerable with me, but they were making jokes that i wasnt gonna stay or that i was weirded out bc he cried, which wasnt true. but the more im learning about avoidant attachment, im starting to see the signs in him. im just confused bc ik that avoidants lack vulnerability, so thats the opposite of what happened. recently, it seems like hes been trying to pull away more and more, so i suspect but am not sure if its avoidant attachment. someone pls help me!!
2025-06-14 20:50:38
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Mic🩷 :
It’s been 3 months. Truly don’t believe he’s coming back. I don’t really want him too, it just hurts I was so disposable so fast
2025-07-25 21:36:44
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jessieescobedo7 :
What if the avoidant got another partner right after the breakup
2025-06-13 15:06:08
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Düşlem Fushiguro 🇹🇷 :
Nah they will be talking to someone else
2025-06-14 05:51:40
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V🎀 :
I used to be very anxious and beg, but for some reason I really wasn’t w my avoidant partner. During the breakup yes I pleaded to work it out but after that I didn’t really reach out. Been almost 2 months now and I feel some peace after that first month I stopped crying or thinking about him as much and now I throughly enjoy the peace from being alone. I wonder if I actually processed the breakup or am I suppressing it or is this me becoming more secure I wish I had fund to go to therapy
2025-06-13 15:05:32
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Jules MacKenzie Rosa :
He doesn’t have social media but all he has is LinkedIn. today he removed me from his connections and I am absolutely devastated. It’s almost been 3 months of no contact and 4 full months since the breakup. 😭
2025-06-13 18:09:01
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mtink420 :
what bout month 2? I'm like 2.5 months no contact
2025-06-13 15:36:33
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User :
I need him back 💔 it’s been a month since the discard but not a month of silence… do I need to wait until it’s a month of silence?
2025-06-13 15:05:34
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user3447683844310 :
Does this work when they went to another supply?
2025-06-13 15:01:25
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Lover Girl 🖤🥀 :
I’m only a week in 😭
2025-06-14 23:13:31
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Garath :
And then they get with someone else
2025-06-13 20:38:16
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Jacopo Giuliani :
Even if it was just an intense 2 months situationship?
2025-06-13 15:48:54
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♡𝘒𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘭⁺໒꒱ིྀ༝ :
i hope he misses me.. i really pray..
2025-06-14 04:17:01
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Pilatesvegan :
the secure person is over it!
2025-06-13 16:01:05
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Sarah 🤷🏼♀️ :
If I can’t be the love of his life I’ll be the loss of his life.
2025-07-17 04:57:07
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L.D. :
What about when they distract themselves with a new person…?
2025-06-28 14:19:26
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nycinkmaster :
My avoidance is unblocking me every 3 days sending me memes and blocking me again. I can’t stand it .
2025-06-14 14:34:12
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vic .•* :
said we would still be friends afterwards, he unfollowed me
2025-06-14 23:12:09
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santijj :
so i’m the problem
2025-06-13 22:33:12
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Μαργαρίτα 🦋 :
He has been breadcramping me for a year and this time he responded to my story and I didn’t respond and after 4 days he deleted. What’s going on?
2025-06-13 22:30:57
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