@darealllrissa: The reality of motherhood—this is what it really looks like. Sometimes, I let him cry. Not because I don’t care, but because I’m tired, and crying won’t hurt him. Having a newborn and a toddler is a lot. I’m constantly trying to split my love, time, and energy between them both. It gets overwhelming, and sometimes I feel guilty—especially when I can’t give my toddler the attention he’s used to. So yes, if my baby is fed, changed, and safe, I might let him cry for a moment while I catch my breath. This is motherhood. It’s not always perfect, but it’s always filled with love.(I WAS TRYUNG TO RECORD MYSELF GLUE PICTURE ON BOARDS AND CAUGHT THIS MOMENT! WHY NOT ? SHARE THE REAL LIFE IF BEING A MOTHER #RealMotherhood #MomLifeUnfiltered #MomGuiltIsReal #thisismotherhood
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Friday 13 June 2025 21:48:24 GMT
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CleoDrea :
Letting him cry like that is actually a good thing. It's OK.
2025-06-14 10:32:07
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waitheraleah4 :
it happens mostly at night 😫😫 she's fed, she's warm what else does she want 🤨 I feel like going mad 😩😩
2025-07-29 16:57:40
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💖✝️km_81_🇻🇦✝️💖 :
Aint nothing wrong with this. Everyone saying “I never!!” Yeah? You were never going to the bathroom and they woke up crying and you had to let them cry for a bit? What’s the difference here? Crying doesn’t hurt a baby. As mothers we know they feel safe on us it’s their instinct against danger. But sometimes they cry!!! He aint in danger. So it’s okay to let them cry for just a bit. You’re a good mom. It is hard. Don’t let these comments get to you. People think life is only black and white and theres never any gray areas 🙄
2025-06-15 05:40:31
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Bl@ckest :
Mina it’s breastfeeding guys, it’s so depressing. The pain💔
2025-07-28 19:08:17
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It’sTina93 :
It’s okay to let them cry sometimes at least your not hurting him.
2025-06-14 13:59:55
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Nijha Jeter :
Letting him cry is okay ! His lungs will be strong as ever 😂don’t let another mother put you down .. you gotta make sure YOUR mental is okay in order to get the baby together
2025-06-14 20:39:23
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mimi newberry :
It’s perfect ok to not be ok at times ❤️
2025-06-14 03:09:35
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lyn luhya girl :
I also do this yoooh motherhood is tough 😜
2025-07-28 16:48:16
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Ra Ra :
Sometimes you have to just let them cry.
2025-06-27 22:11:27
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CandyCoated5664 :
The days are long but, the years are short. 🙏
2025-06-14 12:25:53
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maphakishablackgold🧿 :
I thought I was the only one 😭😭😭😢sometimes I just get tired 😢
2025-07-28 19:55:38
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🥝𝒦𝒾𝓌𝒾🥝 :
And soon as you picked him up he instantly hushed . 😭😂
2025-06-15 18:55:44
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Khrystal-Claire Wright :
I'm so guilty of this...but I feel bad after, but I tell myself she has to cry sometimes
2025-07-23 02:35:34
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CMJ :
...go ahead momma take your time to gather yourself mentally...🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️...I applaud you 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
2025-06-21 10:56:26
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Prinnyy🦋 :
Me too but then I feel so heart broken and take him up 😭😭😭
2025-07-28 19:32:27
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Natalie :
A little crying is actually good for a baby🥰
2025-07-30 00:32:38
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Queen of peace ✌️ ♥️ :
then you feel guilty you pick him up🤣🤣🤣this is me right now and there's nothing you can do
2025-08-21 11:53:40
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WhoShe🩵 :
You got this mommy🥰
2025-06-14 14:34:51
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Neekz💖 :
I feel your pain. Going through the same right now
2025-07-28 13:53:36
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tonyamayo581 :
honey you ok & its ok to let them cry for a little while your doing a good job. Just breathe sometimes yes it'll get easier & better
2025-06-14 10:27:41
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Rixakaza :
You said you want kids don’t bore us
2025-07-26 19:32:44
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Chomy :
This happens to me and I always find my self crying too
2025-07-29 05:05:53
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never giveup :
Many people would have there own options but in reality do you no how hard is it to take care of 2 kids without any help from anyone .Mom you are strong and you will get through this I promise ❤️
2025-06-16 01:55:55
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Samariah🦋 :
I felt this mama it’ll get better 🥺 you got this !!!
2025-06-13 22:17:41
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💜⁷ :
Man bro you blink and they graduating. 🥲
2025-06-14 14:45:48
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