@drjulie: 👉 A woman’s mental health is never more vulnerable than in the first year after she has given birth. If you have noticed your wellbeing fluctuating since having a baby, I have a message for you. It’s not your fault. Having a baby has never been easy but our modern world, with all of it’s advantages that make life easier, seems to get this one so wrong. And both Mothers, Fathers and babies pay the price. The reason that mental health is so at risk during this time is because the core pillars of defense are all knocked out from beneath you. Some of those we can’t control, like sleep. Others we could use to help ourselves stay well, like social connection, nutrition and movement. But for anyone living in a place where community no longer exists, and Surestart centres or groups have been shut down, trying to look after your mental health alone, at the time when you need support more than ever, can feel overwhelming. We must do better for families. Feel free to share this message / video ❤️ 👉 For anyone who needs a helping hand through those often dark and lonely moments check out my New York Times / Sunday Times bestselling book ‘Open When...’ it is finally out now worldwide (link in bio) Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Both are available across the world in over 35 languages x

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blarebb
Blare J :
Add finding out your partner is a cheater.
2025-06-15 00:36:27
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kindness.in.action
Olóige 💛 :
And we are physically bleeding, leaking from everywhere, in pain, organs trying to go back in place…all while trying to keep smiling and calm, cook dinners, clean, do laundry etc.
2025-06-15 17:06:46
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drveronicaeyo
Dr. Veronica Eyo :
I agree. This time changes so much of a person
2026-06-09 01:13:45
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theliving.dead1
Living Dead :
And no one helps you and mil destroys your mental health
2025-06-15 07:59:01
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gold_enchild
Icon :
3 months in I had postpartum psychosis
2025-06-15 18:17:53
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miss_aisling
Ash :
Its sad because i can not remember the first half of my childrens first year after birth. I feel so robbed, all because of how much mental load i had.
2025-06-15 20:37:52
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narrative_medicine
noire_99 :
It’s capitalism. Capitalism only values you if you are ‘productive’ and function independently.
2025-06-16 10:56:46
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jesstruchon
Jess Truchon ⊹܀˙ :
And they say 6 weeks is time enough for us to be back to who we were and be 100% mentally sane and ready to work
2025-06-16 19:58:42
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muselianna
Lianna :
And during pregnancy!
2025-06-16 09:47:58
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kellypeters.6
Kelly :
Try adding your Dad dying 7 weeks after your first baby was born. I almost didn’t make it out of that
2025-06-17 02:42:55
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leeo24ad
Leo :
the lack of sleep destroyed me. I would cry, just wanting anyone to watch my baby so I could sleep 😭😭 .
2025-06-16 02:20:42
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morry974
Morry :
lack of sleep destroyed me,I lost my spark..
2025-06-17 13:25:45
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cco61017k16
cco61017k16 :
no one cares unfortunately. ur husband expect you to take care of them,inlaws stress you and gossip about you with ur husband. ur expected to put the house in order and pick after him.u need to be in shape Asap
2025-06-16 06:42:48
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milatarotforyou
Міла Таро :
This should be taught at hospitals when a woman registers her pregnancy
2025-06-16 14:31:56
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gr2012mj0409
Wynnie :
yup my narcissistic ex thrived on my vulnerability
2025-06-16 08:14:16
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anupamabhattarai5
Anupama :
Still recalling how hard is postpartum and how much vulnerable i was😭😭
2025-06-15 09:00:36
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sirep58
Sire 🇨🇦🇺🇾 :
Society and politics are ending Family, on purpose of course. It takes a village is not just a saying, it is the truth and our ancestors knew this. You are never alone if you have family, no matter how imperfect it is
2025-06-15 13:22:55
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juliegallagher811
Julie Gallagher811 :
I always wondered, how when my post natal depression was bad and I really struggled, looking after my son was not a problem just every other aspect of life!!! My trauma response looked after us, as women we suffer
2025-06-14 18:19:39
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melissajbyrnex
Melissa Byrne 🐝 :
The number 1 reason why I’ve chosen to not have children of my own. Mentally, I know within myself that I would not be able to cope with it. & I take my hat off to every single woman who is going through this ❤️
2025-06-15 21:34:14
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turquoisebubbles
Turquoise 🫧 :
Be aware of the mother in law (danger)⚠️
2025-06-18 13:02:13
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julzzz666
Jules🩷 :
I’m so depressed but I’m a way I’ve never been before it’s crazy how postpartum does you. It’s so hard . Every day is so hard /
2025-07-13 02:39:01
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possiblylisastiktok
possiblylisastiktok :
Them - If you need help let me know me - “asks for help” Them - I don’t know how to help you 😭😭😭
2025-06-15 22:15:22
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leannebrayfield93
Leanne Brayfield :
and all made worse for me by an emotionally, threatening abusive ex husband. I do feel robbed of my sons 1st year 😞
2025-06-16 06:20:19
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evekingstone
Eve :
Dr. Julie, you're amazing🥰
2025-06-14 18:07:06
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hananmoody
hanansalem :
💯. I had the most monumental life change. still recovering now. my daughter is 15yrs old xx
2025-06-14 19:25:43
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