@travisambrosecoach: I just don’t think I can do this anymore 🫠 Anyone who has been in this vicious cycle knows how confusing and tormenting it is For both the ambivalent person and the receiver Let me tell you, At the root of your relationship ambivalence are unmet needs that you’re probably not even aware of Because you’re likely so out alignment with your core values that your self trust has subtly eroded over time And you’re looking to someone else for the answers to your sense of peace, happiness and fulfillment Instead of looking within at how you’re dishonest and out of integrity with yourself 🫥 So you get stuck in patterns of: Criticism, Defense, Blame Find the bad guy Doubt Anxiety Guilt Regret Push Pull Repeat 🔁 Maybe your relationship is worth staying in and continue building. Maybe not. But this pattern of self doubt likely won’t go away until you start taking radical responsibility for your life and actions. And until you start being radically honest with yourself and those around you. If you’re reading this thinking “fck, that’s me… Am I the problem?” Then join my free 3 day challenge for avoidants to get unstuck and get their relationship sh*t together Link is in bio 🤲 . . . . #avoidantattachment #avoidant #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #secureattachment #codependency #relationshiptok #relationships
He doesn't even admit he needs space he just distances and says everything is great.
2025-06-16 19:39:03
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AvaIanchekt :
You've just gotta leave avoidants be, they're exhausting
2025-06-17 12:35:46
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salma.amoradiary :
As an avoidant, you can’t help unhealed avoidants you won’t understand them and they’ll only hurt you the best thing to do is leave, unless they start healing/therapy
2025-06-17 22:11:23
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Airplane✈️ :
Giving them space until they wanna talk to me again (no contact at all) i have anxious attachment and feel like im dying but did I do it right? It's abt understandi g and giving them space right?
2025-07-31 01:41:33
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I Am Who? :
Rule number 1 : don’t even give them a chance. NO TALK STAY BLOCKED NO ENERGY NO NOTHING no Drama.
2025-06-17 06:44:52
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Zeus :
My ex admitted she needs space she said she feels overwhelmed with everything and her head is a mess so I told her even tho it hurt me I told her how I feel about her and I will give her the space she wants and she knows where I am when she’s ready
2025-06-20 11:16:16
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momo :
You hit the nail on the head!
2025-06-16 19:42:32
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sara. :
idk but for me, avoidant people don't deserve attention or love from anyone. IF YOU NEED A SPACE, DON'T TREAT THAT PERSON LIKE SOMEONE SPECIAL IN A FIRST PLACE!
2025-07-26 17:29:51
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Freddywithay :
DA’s require everything but give nothing and then say you’re the problem. Anyy sign of avoidant behavior ditch them immediately.
2025-06-17 03:10:56
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melissavdheiden :
how do you stop this cycle?
2025-06-17 15:59:10
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lestatpanties :
Honestly, just leave em, it aint worth it
2025-06-17 14:36:06
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Nope :
Two weeks seems short for avoidants though
2025-07-07 21:35:53
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liv ✧˖°.☪︎.𖥔 ݁ ˖ :
Argh I fear this is what’s happened to us except I had hope for him / the second chance and we got married 😭
2025-06-17 14:21:22
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Vatashi_24 :
send this to him pls
2025-07-27 12:04:04
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Mark :
to be fair saying sorry is a big move in itself.
2025-06-20 21:38:40
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༺Shea༻ :
2 weeks is crazy the guy I was dating won’t talk to me after months 😭
2025-06-17 10:17:40
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BuzzyB :
This is exactly what he’s done this morning. No im not annoyed or mad at you. But he’s literally refused to look at me or speak to me for over 4 hours. It feels like gaslighting
2025-06-18 12:32:38
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Zoe Conway :
Yep a 6yr circle. It hurts. I love him and always will but I need to try and love myself more
2025-06-17 16:24:44
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Sevy ^ :
THIS EXACT SITUATION “im not good at relationships” and “i just can’t do this anymore”
2025-07-24 09:23:21
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Geminisoflo :
No thanks never again
2025-06-17 18:24:40
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Hafsy_im :
Omg my situation
2025-06-17 13:07:02
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CasaNoMontinho_Hotel_Alentejo :
Muito bom!!
2025-06-17 10:02:21
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whatsuppag :
Thank you - this is really helpful. What breaks the cycle and allows them to trust you/ the relationship?
2025-06-17 10:32:44
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shay.iamiam :
I'm missing him like crazy but I want him to have time he needs
2025-07-26 20:03:55
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YAHWEH :
I viewed their story did I mess up?
2025-06-17 16:01:22
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