@chris_hatfield: Anxious Attachment: Why You Pedestal When Dating #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #attachmentissues #datingadvice #attachment #pedestal
We kissed twice on the first date and held hands all day, we only started talking a day and a half before. This happened yesterday and she isn’t realy responding to me anymore
2025-06-18 18:20:26
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Lewis :
“the perception that i’m good enough for someone” yup, coz we know we’re not good enough to deserve anyone … it’s all just a perception
2025-06-20 01:00:15
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The millies :
this hit me so hard now.
2025-09-02 07:45:26
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shelly :
this is me
2025-06-29 18:55:48
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Daniel :
Bro. The date is in 30 minutes, chillllll.
2025-07-23 23:04:44
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Stace :
I just did this …
2025-06-20 17:30:49
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GkagkouMariana :
now that makes all Sense
omg i do these my hole life and feel so lonely all the time, thank you it all makes sense now
2025-07-07 21:14:24
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Ghostly Workshop :
Yep that's was me with my ex. sigh
2025-07-23 09:48:06
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LeonaJB :
100% me 😭
2025-07-22 05:28:05
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Jax ❤️ :
This is so me!
2025-07-09 10:03:47
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Tutttti :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-08-11 02:16:24
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real_drod ❌ :
💙
2025-07-29 01:12:58
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Axel Virtala :
😁😁😁
2025-06-23 21:30:54
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@່:່ :
I hear you - and it is relatable and when I think about it, it makes sense. HOWEVER, am I doing this or, is this just what avoidants believe I do? I want the love at first sight experience, the intensity and allow my bubbly, romantic, giving self to be expressed. I feel like I am not authentic when I listen to your advice and contain myself and change my behavior - and start overthinking that I could be labeled as a love bomber, desperate incel. I'm truly just a yearning for a relationship filled with love, I don't really want to act hot and cold and carefully date once a month (my current situation), but I do it because I see a future with this woman and I try to not be too much and I try to match her energy, but I'm really wishing she would match mine or meet in the middle.
2025-06-20 09:12:27
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