Carrie-Couples Nervous System
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Wednesday 18 June 2025 11:45:24 GMT
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Julia Dowling Rutlan :
I get it. It’s often like exercising- happy and glad I did it after!
2025-06-18 21:03:37
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Marie :
Every time I give in I never regret it. My body remembers every time. So worth it.
2025-06-18 17:47:19
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Tara :
responsive desire👌🏼 vs spontaneous desire
2025-06-18 16:26:29
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sharingourlife :
I might not be into it right away.. but I know I’ll be happy after. So it’s always worth it!
2025-06-19 02:12:03
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Marleen :
When I’m not in the mood I️tell him I’m going to need extra finessing because my mind and body are not cooperating and he puts in the work not always in the bed, like he’ll do dishes so I️relax or he’ll take care of something else that’s needed.
2025-06-18 21:35:43
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leahquokka :
Absolutely not. Traumatized myself! so this isn’t for everyone!
2025-06-18 23:53:02
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Ravenpie 🐦⬛ :
Now this is real life, healthy and good advice.
2025-06-18 15:24:27
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marty🕷️🪲 :
if my bf asks and i say i’m not feeling it, he says “could you be convinced?” in a playful tone and 9 times out of 10, i end up in the mood
2025-06-19 17:15:32
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therapist_scientist :
This is a key secret to a healthy marriage. There are so many things we do for each other that we initially don’t want to do. It’s part of the partnership.
2025-06-19 04:06:51
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user4791283247524 :
This is so true, and having a spouse that makes you feel safe to ultimately say no, allow that “desire” to form in the yes moments.
2025-06-19 12:52:07
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Tobe :
this sounds educational, but the way some of yall describe it, is giving reall weird vibes. "I dont want it, but I know i won't regret it, so I do it anyways" sounds REALLY weird.
2025-06-20 07:07:50
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Naomi Doll :
we have open communication and answers for interest in being intimate - Yes! - I'm not in the mood but I can be put in the mood - I'm not in the mood but have no issue helping you out - No.
2025-06-19 22:36:11
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Laura Hite :
There are many other times when we must act our way into feeling instead of feeling our way into acting.
2025-06-18 15:19:04
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abbymarie1913 :
This does not apply when trauma is at play.
2025-06-20 04:13:03
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ChloeLane :
Why can’t it just be a no if you’re not in the mood though?
2025-06-20 00:27:02
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Taylor :
For me, that approach ended up backfiring. I tried engaging even when I wasn’t feeling it, hoping I’d warm up to the moment, but over time it just left me feeling overstimulated and disconnected. It became more like a chore than something that brought us closer, and ultimately it made intimacy feel less appealing overall, not more. I think our bodies and emotional needs respond differently, and that’s okay.
2025-06-19 21:02:12
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Alexis | Interior 🏠 Styling :
This is called responsive desire and should definitely talked about so much more
2025-07-13 22:42:26
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sarah :
as a rape victim I can not
2025-06-19 22:48:57
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Jada BSN, RN :
This was validating. I have ADHD and sometimes I’m just like I’m not not in the mood but I’m not completely turned off at the thought. It really takes a lot sometimes.
2025-06-20 02:26:33
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Alex🔥🪶 :
Okay but if it’s not a safe, supportive or healthy partner than you are forcing yourself and that energy rubs off on you too.
2025-06-19 21:04:30
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Danthenerdman :
I think this is a major defining difference between men and women. this is something that comes natural to men along with our bodies frequent changes into those circumstances.
2025-06-19 03:17:17
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Mrs_S :
mine is hormonal!! he's got about a 2 week window in the monyh where I'm FRIENDLY! It all goes down hill after those 2 weeks. like literally don't wanna be touched! I hate it too.
2025-06-19 16:15:41
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Pluto :
May this love never find me ✨
2025-06-19 19:33:03
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Wysfer :
I heard you out. I disagree wholeheartedly personally, but if it works for others, more power to them.
2025-06-20 00:06:34
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BridgeOverTroubledWater :
We make decisions.
2025-06-18 18:22:10
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