Annalisa Bahadur
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Rayne :
finally, one where the anxious attachment isn’t painted as a victim! & I say this as an anxious attachment!
2025-06-19 06:04:03
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Jess :
anyone ever notice though that an avoidant is always "going through something" that requires them to need space. I'm happy to give space but how long do you give them before you just give up.
2025-06-19 05:51:02
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Cosycosy :
You’re brave for posting this on the anxiously attached’s internet 😂
2025-06-19 16:21:50
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Drew :
this comment section is filled with anxious attachment trying to reframe as the victim geez. both sides are equally bad attachment
2025-06-19 23:04:41
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Katie R :
It’s ok to give them space! Not everything needs to be solved by you. And if they insist on staying miserable then focus on yourself because you will drown with them otherwise.
2025-06-19 09:34:48
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dash16 :
I love how asking for a weekend alone after a super stressful week at work is deemed as avoidant 🙄.
2025-06-19 04:56:02
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scotstaceee :
This was amazing. As someone who is anxiously attached, I found this extremely helpful!
2025-06-18 13:51:05
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Gabrielle :
The crazy thing is that if the avoidant just says “___ happened at work and I just need to have some me time for the weekend, on Monday I’ll take you out for dinner and we’ll have a nice night!” It would be completely solved lmao. Like the lack of communication is what makes both people spiral.
2025-06-20 17:53:18
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m💗ddie :
The thing with my avoidant though, is he would want space from ME not his family, or friends, or even other girls. I would spend the whole weekend alone just to find out he still had plans. That’s why it’s personal
2025-06-19 17:21:24
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Victoria :
Ok I guess I’m avoidant attachment because why is the girl so clingy like damn back off I need space alone it’s not personal
2025-06-19 21:50:13
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Garrielle Sinclair🎀 :
life is better when you’re the avoidant and not the anxious; the admired and not the admirer
2025-06-19 16:40:52
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hannahlr77 :
An anxiously attacked person is my nightmare relationship. If I'm in a bad mood and want to spend the night chilling alone processing and they call me over and over and make it about them.... I'd be out
2025-06-19 17:02:41
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TrashPandasUp :
The most aggravating part is being asked “are you ok” 100 times. I’m fine. I just need to sit in silence for a bit. I’m about to not be ok if you ask me that question again.
2025-06-20 00:27:02
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Mo A :
Both are wrong imo. The anxious should've given him space, and the avoidant should've been more reassuring.
2025-06-20 20:01:12
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emske :
This is so accurate but also kind of frame the anxious attachment as intentionally causing harm and ignoring boundaries. It doesn’t emphasize the deep fears of abandonment and uncertainty that comes with anxious attachment
2025-06-20 16:43:02
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Ainival :
As a former anxious no one is wrong or right, they are just both unbalanced. That's all. I do admit tho that I feel very annoyed by the anxious one, mostly because we get away with being horrible just because we look like the victims. Which we are not.
2025-06-19 09:55:36
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user8326059559796 :
As an avoidant, being with an anxious attacher is my worst nightmare. That’s so suffocating. Leave me alone
2025-06-19 22:57:32
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AzeemahFJ :
Everyone missing the whole point, I like to say that love only counts when it makes the other person FEEL loved. Love on your own terms is love you show to make yourself feel good, it's for you. Real love is tailored to the love language of the loved one.
2025-06-19 19:59:17
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marrygmz :
The real issue here is avoidant inability to speak openly.
2025-06-19 16:08:14
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Beans greens tomatoes :
As an avoidant I'm ngl I find anxious attached people insufferable and annoying
2025-06-20 01:30:51
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lucylou_200 :
It’s literally like being with someone who doesn’t like you
2025-06-19 05:56:36
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Charlie :
I'd be fine w dating an avoidant if they'd maybe tell me when they needed space instead of just silently seething abt it and it being the reason for the breakup
2025-06-19 10:09:08
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Maddie Kae🍓 :
I think that it’s just harder to not be so anxious like this when you have been thrown away so fast before, it’s such a hard thing to not do
2025-06-19 04:32:29
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Blue Sapphire :
Anyone who needs space in a relationship should be left alone forever! Those who suddenly abandon you without realizing how it would impact the other person deserve no sympathy!
2025-06-24 18:00:25
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Catandset :
Yes it’s accurate but the avoidant doesn’t actually say that. He does it but the anxious stresses because they don’t know what’s going on.
2025-06-19 13:03:09
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