@drewwdaniels: How the Male Avoidant Partner holds the keys to Relationship Security with the Anxious Female Partner #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #relationshipadvice #relationshipproblems #attachmentstyles
Unfortunately, I'm the one getting this on my fyp.
2025-06-21 09:01:25
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Amber Butler :
I would send it to him but he wouldn’t even watch it.
2025-06-21 22:27:58
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failureatheart :
The fact that this is a universal problem is concerning and makes me wonder why its so common
2025-06-21 17:10:03
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Alejandra :
he doesnt know it yet.. but we just had our very last conversation.
2025-06-22 00:07:00
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caramelqt🇨🇦 :
I think we need to stay single ladies
2025-06-21 18:01:29
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healingbabescollective :
Therapist here. Sir, this is so articulate and so spot on for so many. This is one of the ONLY posts that actually teaches men how to somatically process and skillfully improve.
2025-06-21 02:42:14
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natalie :
i’m about to have to leave. i’m so in love with him and really truly thought this was my husband, that i’d live the rest of my life with him but i can’t take this dynamic anymore. i don’t know how i’m going to make it through but i can’t feel like this every day anymore. i’ve worked on my communication, my tone, picking very few battles, my approach, feeling secure in myself. none of it matters, i always feel guilty for gently asking for connection. i need to go.
2025-06-21 12:59:52
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sophia garcia :
I’d send this to him but I’m not his therapist and I already tried to hold him accountable to the point of him hating me and telling me to f off lol
2025-06-21 02:12:54
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Maria DeCotis :
Yes because this is abuse. Because he doesn’t see that woman as a person deserving of having her own needs without making it about him.
2025-06-22 15:34:42
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OliveXG :
how many women forwarded this in hope, fearing nothing will change
2025-06-23 07:44:10
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Wisecracking Blonde :
pro tip: you feel shame because some part of you agrees you could or should be better than you are. instead of running away from the shame, improve yourself so that that topic no longer brings you shame.
2025-06-22 21:37:49
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My name is Toyota :
An avoidant would never listen to all this and that’s why it’s on my page 😭
2025-06-22 17:04:43
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Erin MarieMac :
this is exactly my current experience.
2025-06-21 02:29:23
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Sam :
Struggling with this in my relationship. He has become so mean and critical anytime I try to share my feelings. I just don’t want to be around him anymore but somehow can’t bring myself to walk away.
2025-06-21 13:21:31
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Ella Erickson :
But as an anxious female, it’s also important to heal your anxiety and understand when you’re crossing the line
2025-06-22 18:13:28
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Queen Dee :
In the past I would have shared the video but he doesn't care.
2025-06-21 12:07:41
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Nautica Rogers :
“He has no right..he feels he’s a defective shameful human” I mean if the shoe fits 😭
2025-06-22 05:00:32
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Dr. Shola 🇺🇸🇬🇧🇳🇬🇬🇾 :
How come no one talks about the securely attached partner. Many secure partners marry avoidants. And then get labeled “anxious” just for wanting emotional intimacy and connection. 🤔🤔
2025-08-29 14:07:49
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Caroline Holden Boudreau :
I’m so over being the villain. 💀
2025-06-22 14:31:16
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The Sleepless Archivist 👁️📼 :
Yup, I told them "Look I'm telling you this because you will have this issue with other people too. if you think I'm being mean, it's not the proper process" but they couldn't handle it so we broke up 👏👏
2025-06-21 08:26:01
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Halle :
I had awful anxious attachment and relationship anxiety... and then I met someone who actually likes me
2025-06-23 00:32:06
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katielouie72 :
I’m speechless…almost. EXCELLENT EXPLANATION. Like you’re living with me in secret. I’m stunned. Gonna keep working on me, at this point I lose him or I lose me 💛
2025-06-21 12:56:31
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Niles :
Knowing the why sometimes sucks more because you see the solution and it won’t happen.
2025-07-21 17:23:20
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Lisaeesh13 :
We tried therapy years ago, but he sabotaged it, and we never went back. It’s been 11 years, and I have left for good. He is an avoidant narcissist. Breadcrumbing and gaslighting no more.
2025-06-21 06:20:45
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anastasia :
put this on his fyp not mine
2025-08-03 15:50:44
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