as a white lesbian I feel like even when we aren't actively bashing queer poc, we still end up heavily excluding them because we think that our queerness is inherently inclusive without actually doing the work to uplift and invite queer poc
2025-06-22 01:29:03
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bb.enterprises.llc :
And ableist, it’s truly embarrassing. Be better.
2025-06-22 04:51:29
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Angel Turello :
No this is so fr like white gays will immediately toss away queer poc & trans people just to look more “acceptable” to their straight white audience 🤢
2025-06-23 23:00:58
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bram :
white gay men think they can call women bitches cause they’re gay like… you’re still a man.
2025-06-22 02:14:27
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jenna :
as a white queer person I noticed that a lot of the white queer people I know really began clinging to being whatever minority they could (neurodivergent, nb, etc) in 2020 and I feel like a lot of it is a way to feel absolved of white guilt without actively changing in any way
2025-06-23 00:39:49
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Ismael :
Esp if they’re the type to bully women and think it’s okay because “they’re just sassy”
2025-06-22 00:39:24
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Sage Winzer :
*cough* Jeffree Starr
2025-06-23 08:47:34
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🧚🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️ :
asian trans girl here and this is so on point like its so hard being ethnic and queer or people on both sides think that those sides should not mix
2025-06-23 02:19:40
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Lee 🐝 :
as a white bisexual i agree with you whole heartedly i had a friend group when i was younger and they were some of the most hateful people
2025-06-21 21:47:03
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Ambrose Philips :
THIS IS WHAT AZAELIA BANKS HAAAAS BEEN SAYING!!!and they HATE her for calling them out
2025-06-23 04:38:51
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RandomIDoIt_🏳️🌈 :
I had to block old coworkers/friends in my community posting MAGA after the election.
2025-06-23 15:23:35
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Isaiah :
The ending ate. Cuz you did say that and didn’t say a single lie 💖😌
2025-06-22 16:07:22
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yuh :
Queer POC here. Yeah a lot of the things I'm seeing lately make me realize I'm not safe anywhere and I'd rather be alone and mean than deal with whatever is in the water
2025-06-22 21:06:53
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tree fiddy :
ive spent a better part of my life unlearning the racism instilled in me at a young age. we aren't free until BIPOC dolls are free.
2025-06-23 16:07:00
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Evan the confusing :
We hold onto that oppression with a death grip not actually learning anything from it and adding to our empathy for other oppressed groups and we use it as shield.
2025-06-22 16:44:30
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jules calypso :
the difference between when i had a mostly white lgbt friend group vs now having a mostly bipoc lgbt friend group is night and day. i would cry over how isolated i felt but now ive never been happier.
2025-06-23 02:04:02
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Tink le Belle :
Who said that.
2025-06-22 01:31:42
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Emmi 🏳️⚧️ :
We have a problem with this in the ✋🏻🏳️⚧️community because a bunch of us deconstruct our internalized transphobia and then stop there
2025-06-23 05:09:11
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your sleep paralysis demon :3 :
as a white gay I agree. it's also very funny taking into account that the people who bash POC members of our community casually forget who were the ones that began the movement for our rights, yet they will claim that they know a lot about our community.
2025-06-23 12:20:18
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°.•[𝐁𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐞𝐞]•.° :
You know what yeah call that shi out. Also WHITE PEOPLE LISTEN. It’s our JOB in the community to call it out. If you see it call it out. Yes it’s required. We stand together or we die alone.
2025-06-25 01:40:34
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Cassie 🧜♀️✨ :
not a single lie was told
2025-06-22 16:20:02
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SamShergill :
Dating as a gay POC has been so awakening again. Walked out of a date 2 minutes in as someone asked me why I was living in a particular area of London “because there are lots of black people” 😮💨
2025-06-23 07:47:37
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Sawyer :
This year I had to start using a walker for my disability and I was hit with the reality of how ableist our community is and how inaccessible pride events are. If you’re not white, skinny, able body, conventionally attractive, or cis it seems pride was not for you this year
2025-06-23 14:05:54
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Spookyscorner :
YES, I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS!! Sorry you are getting hate queen. I’m a Latina queer bisexual & the best relationships & friendships I’ve found are through my queer poc friend groups!
2025-06-22 16:04:05
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Cahir🤎🤘🏾 :
Transphobic too 😢🤨
2025-06-24 07:56:30
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