@secondhandtherapypod: Most men don’t realize how unsafe dating feels for women. It’s not paranoia — it’s survival. This convo hit hard. #WomensVoices #UnsafeDating #MenListen #ProtectWomen #FYP #SecondhandTherapy #EmotionalSafety #GirlTalk #PodcastTok
Genuinely appreciate the empathy but we don’t just “feel” unsafe. We ARE unsafe and are acting accordingly.
2025-06-24 00:44:37
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Kati Burkhart :
I just had a guy admit to stalking me on other platforms to shoot his shot, after having been politely denied on the app. I deleted them right after this blocked all contact with him but kept the messages just for safety reasons.
2025-06-23 22:58:37
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𝕊 :
We feel unsafe as soon as we step out the house.
2025-08-15 07:33:19
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JellyBellyLover0 :
I love how they focus on the physical differences between us because it makes them feel powerful. Truth is, I havent had a man understand me in decades. It's like talking to toddlers. I'm possible to have a conversation.
2025-06-24 01:35:54
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BarbaraAnn_Little #singer :
My dating strategy: don’t end up in a wood chipper
2025-06-24 00:15:06
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💕👩🏻💻📚☕️🧁💫 Bekita_13 🔥 :
Thank you for your acknowledgement of this. It is definitely risky and we have to use good judgment and practice discernment. So when we ask so many questions, it’s because we are evaluating the risk and trying to reduce it
2025-06-23 18:25:07
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NeurospicyMama :
when the guy is asking "will you meet me in a park" and "do you own a gun"...
2025-06-23 18:47:08
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Kirra :
Its a nightmare these days. Nobody is genuine anymore. They say what you want to hear just to get what they want. When you see their change up and tell them no they get SO MAD. Sir, im not going that far with someone I barely know. Im not looking for a hookup and told you that from the jump. BYE!
2025-06-24 02:45:27
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Angela Esteller :
I did the dating app one month then canceled it. A lot felt unsafe.
2025-08-12 02:29:47
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Monica :
Actual question. How many men share their locations with their friends before meeting up with a woman? I’m not phased anymore when a friend sends me her location before going on a first date- because we have adopted this behavior.
2025-07-24 22:17:40
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🔵🖤😬🫣 :
The majority of the time we share our locations with multiple people while ensuring that we have some sort of weapon on us at all times just to go on a first date
2025-06-25 08:10:18
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M A R Y :
I gave up on ever finding romance. Deleted all the apps because it’s just not worth it anymore. Learning to just be ok with being alone.
2025-06-24 17:56:26
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Twichl :
back when i was dating, I always sent a picture of what i currently looked like to my friends, took a picture of his cars plates if i could, and always let them know when theyd hear from me next or when i got back safely.
2025-06-24 03:36:15
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M☀️🕉🍉 :
❤️appreciate men acknowledging and speaking about this.
2025-06-25 00:20:59
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LT :
Even when they do know and are aware of it, they just don’t care
2025-06-24 06:10:52
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Jess :
this is why I require a picture of their license before I go. it gets sent to trusted people
2025-06-25 00:54:01
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Sin With A Grin :
I absolutely will not do a first meeting outside of a public setting.
2025-06-24 23:09:11
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laura :
doesn't matter if the guy has good intentions or not everything is a risk. and to have to act accordingly and the men take it personally and get offend. like let me go to ur house to say I don't get offended, feelings hurt and chance my safety
2025-07-10 14:35:18
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cassysimmons1996 :
good guys don't know. bad guys don't care.
2025-06-26 00:49:30
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Livs :
The perfect loop tho 😳
2025-06-24 23:47:19
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LeggoMeEggo1805 :
I feel safer with men than I do other women 🤷🏻♀️
2025-06-24 13:45:18
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3LynnD :
🤣🤣🤣🤣 not even happening… none of it.. I’ll be a nun
2025-06-24 19:33:31
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Alexis :
We hear so much about how women get murdered off of these apps. How much we are getting kidnapped at grocery stores and gas stations. We have never been safe.
2025-08-12 01:10:40
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Courtney Thompson :
What Episode is this?
2025-06-25 11:46:22
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hailey :
Had a guy I’d been talking to for weeks cancel our date and ghost me because I didn’t feel comfortable meeting at his house first (he also lived an hour away from me)
2025-06-24 19:08:59
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