🥺omg when i am with him..im in a different world....and he makes plans ....and he financially provides...peace of mind
2026-09-28 13:36:20
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Alex Yokiel :
Our in person connection is great, but he’s hit or miss on the phone. Needed to hear this.
2025-06-23 23:18:48
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It'sMeChadJordan :
Nah. As a man in a relationship, I want to know what's happening in your life on a daily basis. Let's text to connect and plan in person connection too.
2025-07-02 11:35:03
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Highrum :
This is not true for all men.
2025-06-24 03:05:29
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Minu A :
Girlll what about long distance ?
2025-06-24 02:00:45
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✨🔮The Wisdom Seeker🧡💫 :
Ummm no. If a man is truly invested and interested he will contact his woman every day.
2025-08-13 06:49:36
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Joonbug592 :
Everyone, make sure u hear EVERYTHING she is saying. Seeing him consistenly is key, if he isnt making efforts to consistently see you and set up hangouts and he also isnt texting you, he isnt emotionally available!
2025-06-23 22:19:23
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~▪︎☆Th€ssan☆▪︎~ :
Ladies, don't listen! Do you even know what characterizes secure attachment? He is leaning towards avoidant.
"Characteristics of Secure Texting: Consistency and Reliability:
Secure individuals are generally consistent in their communication, responding in a timely manner and maintaining regular contact without being overly demanding or needy"
2025-06-24 13:08:50
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Andrea 🗽🇺🇸 :
Been seeing a guy ~6 weeks. We send a few texts every day, and usually once a week I don’t hear from him for a day, but I’m not waiting on a response for many hours. I know we will talk the next day
2025-06-24 04:22:22
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Drew McDaniel :
man oh man, theres such a fine line between...im person connection and feeling like they aren't really interested. I hate feeling anxious all the time
2025-06-23 20:41:09
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Cerati :
If he does not want to see you in person, he does not like you
2025-06-24 16:28:40
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GMoneyHoney :
I don’t even care anymore. They aren’t worth it.
2025-06-25 06:10:15
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Jeff :
Texting is a crutch
2025-06-23 21:58:45
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Jeremy Jenkins :
1000% I’ve had great text and phone convo’s but knew after the first date it wasn’t going to work. Text and calls are good for gathering intel but does not provide a feeling or connection.
2025-06-24 19:17:44
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Shell :
We definitely live in a day and age where texting takes the place of genuine, in person connection. We start to base our perspectives and emotions on reading texts rather than hearing this persons voice and looking at them while talking. It’s really sad
2025-06-25 22:28:21
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The ADHD Elder Millennial :
You have changed my entire POV. Thank you!
2025-07-06 21:47:37
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Em :
Also helps if the time you do spend together in person is not filled with phone time lol
2025-06-23 23:36:43
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Laura 🦄 :
Now I realize with this, that when we see each other he is so animated and open and talkative but we don’t text that much and I was getting weirded but he is actually consistent cause we go on dates often
2025-07-03 03:36:44
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Vanessamonique :
Needed this 🙏 I’m used to love bombing unhealthy guys and started seeing a guy that’s making plans but not a big texter. Love your content ❤️
2025-06-28 09:36:06
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Jim :
what is your definition of all the time?
2025-06-23 23:00:39
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Deimantė Survilaitė :
Why everything is so complicated 😭😭😭 if he texted me everyday I would think he likes me and wants to talk to me daily. And more videos I watch, less certain I am
2026-08-04 14:15:43
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jeanclairedy :
But what if I text first and he replies warmly. When we’re together we’re so good together. But doesn’t plan when we see each other. We’ve been seeing each other for a month. Help! I’m so confused.
2026-05-18 00:00:19
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Rootsinheaven :
Text msgs are for planning and confirming Dates🥰
2026-09-17 14:27:39
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nurse joanna b. :
How consistent should seeing him consistently be though? 😭
2025-07-03 05:01:27
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