A slow burn is the best. It healed my anxious attachment 🥺
2025-06-26 01:55:22
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Michelle :
Okay mine is definitely a slow burn my issue is ugh how do I stay detached because we are definitely bonding and growing a connection but how do I detach from the thought of this may or may not progressing
2025-06-23 20:44:18
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karsenkilpatrick :
It is soooo hard as an anxious attached girlie to meet pace with the true slow burn
2025-06-29 15:24:09
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janbrown152 :
Going from a love bombed toxic abu sive relationship to a secure slow burn is a mind blowing experience 😭🤯
2025-07-01 00:11:01
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MsRobs :
We are co-workers who are getting to know each other.He doesn't initiate, I do, but he welcomes it 🥺and is 100% there in person.When we work together,he is sweet & always helps me out🥺But I am getting impatient and wish he would make a move,however,he is very shy. I hugged him once and he was beet red🙈
2025-06-26 02:29:43
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TK :
How does this apply to a long distance relationship?
2025-07-03 10:13:01
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Jen :
And if they live a couple hours away?
2025-06-24 05:53:13
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its.mattricia :
Texting everyday should never be a thing . It’s so unhealthy
2025-06-26 02:07:23
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Amy :
So helpful. And calmed me down. Thank you
2025-06-23 22:23:11
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malissaem2 :
Slow burn is soooooo surreal but soooo good! So different than any love bombing which seems so crazy now.
2025-08-06 14:57:49
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Tash :
What if you’re in a slow burn but he’s not asking deeper questions?
2025-07-02 12:24:49
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ashmichpo :
What if it’s been a week since our date and he’s consistent with texting but there’s no follow up for date two? Is that not a slow burn?
2025-06-23 22:33:17
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alisilkot :
How long until he should ask to see you if he’s taking it super slow? When should I cut the texting and phone calls at? Otherwise consistent and shows he’s interested. But no first date
2025-06-24 17:05:26
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Roarzombies :
mine is a slow burn for sure. I saw him days the week before, and then 4 days last week. it's been pretty consistent. We are both super busy, but we still see each other.
2025-06-23 21:18:35
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Sara (2am Edition) :
Very helpful. 🔥 1000% was being breadcrumbed as he was saying we were just “going slow” 😒 but then would ghost for 2 weeks at a time.
2025-06-23 20:44:35
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des :
The slow burn made me so anxious at first after being lovebombed in the past - like I can focus on myself and my goals as well as seeing someone consistently on the weekends? That felt unheard of
2025-07-25 16:09:29
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Living large :
Healthy advice! Ty
2025-06-23 23:48:32
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boulderbarks :
I LOVE this! Currently adding things to my own life to stay in the present. Yoga, got a peloton, hiking, hanging out with gfs more…we see each other about once a week. Fingers crossed things continue to progress.
2025-06-24 19:12:52
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Missy :
Yes! Definitely helpful contrasting the 2 types!
2025-06-23 20:38:25
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Shez | Your Self-Worth Bestie :
We were in this gorgeous secure slow burn, building these moments and experiences - having the most fun together & both agreed we were exclusively dating & both so so happy. 2 weeks later he pulls the rug unexpectedly & tells me he just wants to be friends - I'm absolutely crushed & have no idea what happened. Any insights?
2025-07-02 23:55:55
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AJ Manz :
What if its long distance
2025-08-07 00:03:13
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missnqobilet :
I’m really paying attention to your videos and it’s helping. I am in a slow burn and I’m learning and unlearning a lot
2025-08-16 05:19:02
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Salty_Sea_Dog_Retired (Kriss) :
You may want to address reciprocation, because a woman who waffles back and forth to be chased will not be successful.
2025-07-02 14:30:03
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Jhamaeshiii :
What if we are in a long distance, how to determine if it's slow burn?
2025-06-25 23:23:47
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Christyisvibing :
Thankfully mine is actually busy and he does make time. Good sign I’ll stop over thinking lol it’s so hard dating now. Just match the man’s energy ladies ! Don’t get attached.
2025-06-26 14:51:31
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