@robyn_holdaway: A few of you have asked this, so here is our answer. Calling a nonbinary partner 'wife'. You could also use spouse, beloved, partner - whatever you prefer. #nonbinary #wlw #nblw #queertok #queer #couple #Love
"Because Robyn is OK with it and it helps me" is literally the only reason you need 💜
2025-06-24 06:56:25
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Luke Richters :
Plus the word partner doesn’t indicate marriage, which can be an important aspect in some contexts.
2025-06-24 02:39:07
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user263472 :
Is it that deep
2025-06-24 11:40:43
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Meghan Meredith-Burn :
Thank you for this. My non-binary daughter. Is fine with her close family using the term non-binary daughter/sister/granddaughter/niece when we talk about them to others. Some people have scolded me for using it and said it can’t be what she wants. We are a very open family and they said it feels right because they have always had those “titles” with close family and have always been respectful of them being non-binary.
2025-06-23 23:01:51
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Fraz :
It’s not obvious 👍
2025-06-24 10:36:41
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Altarica7080 :
Oh please
2025-06-25 06:31:54
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fitzbevan :
My non-binary wife? 🤷🏻♂️
2025-08-13 22:53:44
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Snikel Bunny :
Totally not related to the topic, but needs to be said. Robyn has my vote for the next Doctor. #nextdoctorwho
2025-06-24 09:11:23
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HellfireKid :
As long as Robin is comfortable with it, why does it matter? The whole point of nonbinary is it’s outside of gender norms, if every nonbinary person used the same labels and language, it kinda defeats the whole concept of the identity
2025-06-24 11:46:52
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Jess :
As long as it works for you two, it shouldn't matter ❤️
2025-06-24 05:44:20
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BicBic :
Remember the 90s? We worked so hard to remove labels and coexist without judgement.
2025-06-25 05:43:30
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Michelle Achellious :
I suppose they are doing this to make money… go for it girls we all need to hustle
2025-06-24 12:03:30
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Abi Chamberlain :
I’m non binary (AFAB) and I’m fine with the label of girlfriend, like you said I like being able to celebrate my queerness. Every non binary person will feel differently about labels. And not every enby person is agender- which a lot of people think enby is!!!
2025-06-24 04:49:07
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Shitshow_Cole :
My daughter’s girlfriend is genderfluid. When they started dating, they had a discussion about what terms to use. They landed on girlfriend. If that changes at some point, I’ll change my language.
2025-06-26 06:17:36
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Cass :
My daughter's partner is transmasc, but a giant part of my daughter's identity is being a lesbian so they've negotiated how her partner gets gendered and the current safe space comments (which will change when they actually get married) are usually boyfriend in a lesbian way.
2025-06-23 22:03:06
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stace :
Just wanna say it's really cute how Robyn keeps looking at you! Like you are their everything! Enjoy the love you two! x
2025-06-25 12:44:59
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Heather Smith :
👏👏👏👏 me and my non-binary soon to be wife had this conversation a lot. same prior to being engaged, I used the term girlfriend and my partner was happy with it because it allowed me to have my identity too. ❤️❤️
2025-06-24 06:15:48
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Celebrían 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🍉 :
see *this* is the only context I'd be comfortable being referenced as a wife
2025-06-23 21:49:30
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bee :
I love how intelligently you both communicate, with us and each other
2025-06-24 10:06:17
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Moonsandshrooms :
I do genuinely think there’s a difference between an enby wife and an enby husband. It’s to do with the vibes much less than the gender
2025-06-24 15:31:58
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nataliemcf94 :
You're such a beautiful couple, great video as always 😊❤️
2025-06-24 08:34:39
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kymscookingadventures :
I love how your relationship is respectfully and loving
2025-06-24 08:56:03
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TheAcePanda :
it may be worth consider making this one of your pinned videos, it might reduce how often you get this question and if they do ask you (or viewers) could easily direct them to this video.
2025-06-24 08:55:09
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Ian Grindon :
So two married women
2025-06-26 00:32:47
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