This is really helpful. Speaking as someone with AuDHD and PTSD, who frequently gaslights myself into thinking I am a secret narcissist. Like what if I’ve fooled everyone including myself??? 😂
2025-06-25 05:08:58
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aubrey :
Also, emotional immaturity can look like narcissism. We throw the term around but there’s a difference between not being capable of empathy versus not having the skills. It still isn’t your responsibility to stay or fix them tho. Either way.
2025-06-24 20:24:38
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seventyseven :
Also some people have narcissitic traits but they’re not full blown narcissists.
2025-06-25 06:18:57
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Kim :
Narcissism is something that needs taught in schools honestly. Unfortunately there’s always gonna be people who miss the signs because we’re human, but it would be so much more widely known about and prepare so many people
2025-06-24 13:47:23
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Syri Ana :
I think it’s important to note that behaviors of narcissists are a pattern also. We all have bad days and may occasionally get defensive or respond aggressively to something. It’s when that behavior is constant is a red flag. Nowadays everyone is a narcissist 😒
2025-06-24 17:34:59
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Dáire :
this is crucial information because how do you know if you never experience it? thank you ❤️🩹
2025-06-24 12:30:28
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acubitingz :
Their actions match their words, they don’t switch up on you, they’re still kind even when they’re mad, they apologize for EXACTLY what they did and put themselves in your shoes.
2025-06-25 04:03:38
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Cam :
So self-awareness and accountability, pretty much. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
2025-06-24 15:25:09
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Itainteasybeinbreezy :
Also who’s making these narcissist statistics? They ain’t going to therapy lol
2025-06-24 22:30:26
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Gabrielle Tattersall :
Ladies don’t let the narcissist harden your heart ❤️💀 you have a lot of love to give someone. Let what happened with them be your biggest teacher ✨
2025-06-24 12:33:47
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Bushsafe :
Narcs can learn to hype you up when they're in their love bombing phase
2025-06-24 13:48:12
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ℳ. :
Careful because I knew a DIAGNOSED narcissist who asked these questions after going to therapy. 😭 He didn’t improve at all just learned therapy talk and weaponised it. I think a good indicator even in these situations is how they react to criticism (but I’m not a therapist so not 100% sure)
2025-06-25 05:57:36
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S H A H I N A I S L A M :
Emotional intelligence
2025-06-24 22:31:02
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. :
narcissists watching the video be like 😲📝📝📝
2025-06-25 09:21:37
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Talya :
Everyone has a certain level of healthy narcissism which enables us to function as humans but the way society is so quick to label people as narcissists for a single action or behaviour is just statistically improbable. The ability to acknowledge our own narcissism is what separates someone with certain traits and an actual narcissist
2025-06-24 14:47:46
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Anna ✨ :
Answering the question is WILLLLLLLLLD
2025-06-24 23:43:09
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Username :
This is great and I wonder if you could take it a step further and do examples or a role play of how the narcissist reacts to these genuine attempts at repair/understanding/connection because most of the behaviors you just described are not well received by the narc…they are either mocked or criticized or twisted which is so confusing.
2025-06-24 13:04:55
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misaa♡ :
i needed that (i always feel like i might be narcissistic or manipulative but this video reassured me i am not)
2025-06-25 21:14:45
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perlaamedina :
is a narcissist someone who ruins everything but then blames you for it instead?
2025-06-25 03:48:09
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Sweet Strays :
what's the difference between narcissist and emotionally immature people though. that's where I don't know how to differentiate.
2025-06-25 03:48:07
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A nickel for every name :
Thank you for this! This is like a little checkpoint for me in my healing journey so I can know what the skills I’m working towards look like. I get easily scared by anger and then that’s when I turn into someone who isn’t emotionally safe. Thank you for this!
2025-06-24 16:31:49
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ItIsWhatItIs1111 :
y'all must know that there're 2 types of narcissist; overt and covert. the covert ones are pretty much full with understanding and support as long as you fit their needs.. ; like a friend who is always there for you but it's because you always pick up the tab or drive them around. or the mom that always comfort you that because you're their trophy for them to brag around..or your partner who respect and treat you nice but dump you with financial burden etc..
2025-06-25 04:08:31
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Elizabeth 🏴 :
Brooo I spend all day worrying I’m a narcissist 😆 even tho I couldn’t be further from a narcissist
2025-06-24 16:37:28
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