@lolahasanote_: It took me months to understand this part of Islam. Now it makes more sense than anything else. #islamforyou #muslimtok #spiritualjourney #islamicmarriage #obedienceinislam #muslimrevert #marriageinislam #westernmuslim #myislamjourney #deenoverdunya
yes but being obedient here doesn't mean the same way a child obeying their parents.. it's more about the leadership and showing understanding and respect, doesn't mean you have to do everything he wants no
2025-06-24 17:47:07
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Mohamed :
don't forget that it is up to you to decide which one to follow , so if u ever feel that he is making unwise decisions u can just get a divorce
2025-08-22 23:31:46
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Top Shotta :
Doesn’t Islam also tell you to put a hijab on?
2025-06-25 10:23:40
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def. :
in islam do husbands have to obey their wives too?
2025-06-25 04:35:22
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xyzphantomz :
The feminists must be sooo mad😂
2025-06-25 06:16:06
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اللؤلؤ الجميل ☾ :
u have to obey ur husband in terms if the deen i think
2025-08-05 16:18:03
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Quasimodoscott :
Do what your told!
2025-08-14 19:11:40
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Skyz :
People assume it’s total obedience too, it’s only obedience in what’s halal. It’s a huge responsibility to bear and this responsibility is more suited to the nature of man.
2025-06-24 17:46:10
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Nordic :
Slavery can also work if one part agrees to it. Doesn’t mean it’s right does it?
2025-06-25 04:09:14
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Amina :
People using mental gymnastics to justify control and comparing obedience to trust is insaneee
2025-06-25 12:37:37
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abzz :
Obedience means trust. A woman should marry a man she can trust has the qualities of leadership needed to build a strong family
2025-06-24 22:21:30
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˗ˏˋ nidal ´ˎ˗ :
" men are given responsibility not power " ✨
2025-06-25 09:18:07
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mayaekd :
Realll, when I first reverted a lot of thing made me so confused but realising the roles men have and women have are just different and actually make soooo much sense!!
2025-06-24 20:37:48
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tat :
it doesn't make sense. he is still a human. not going to put my life in someone else's hand and trust blindly, bc he will make mistakes and you cannot do anything, bc he is the one controlling everything
2025-06-25 06:11:40
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—ꪆৎ :
no matter how I see it i still can't accept it. i don't believe its the word "obey" that's used. I will not obey a man, the responsabilities he have almost all women have it by now and we are not respected for it. i think obeying a man no matter how good he is will only fuel his ego and he will use it against you.
2025-07-20 12:09:31
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Scrambled Megladon :
So does that mean that men are also obedient to their wives as women have responsibilities too?
2025-06-24 17:18:20
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lolahasanote_ :
Let me know if you want a part 2 on this topic 🩷🩷
2025-06-24 17:00:47
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❤️Fathi❤️ 🍉🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩 :
Being obedient doesn't mean accept abuse.
2025-06-25 08:30:01
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lowkeyhidden:) :
Hi can someone explain? I want to understand
2025-06-24 22:05:56
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fatimah. :
well said sister💕💕
2025-06-24 19:49:39
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Sticker Parlor :
We often overlook the word ‘righteous’ when reading verses like this. A wife is meant to follow a husband who is righteous, not one who asks things out of jealousy, control, or some unreasonable motive. His requests should come from goodwill and genuine care.
2025-06-25 15:18:48
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PITIOBEA :
WHEN A WOMAN IN ISLAM DOES NOT WORK, SHE LIVES A LIFE BETTER THAN A QUEEN. STAY HOME, GO SHOPPING, TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS, ENJOY EVERY MOMENT. WHY HAVE A MISERABLE DAY WAKING UP FOR OTHERS BUSINESS!!!
2025-06-25 20:05:08
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Souleiman Ghali :
It is not true. In the Quran, control is for the person who earns and supports the family. If it is the woman who does the support, then she is the boss. The verse is clear and doesn't use the word Zakar (Male), but the word (rajool) means any person
2025-06-25 09:27:25
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