@afterthequiet.journal: I got ghosted. For the first time. And I didn’t think it would affect me this much, but it did. One day we were talking like normal. Then suddenly, nothing. No goodbye, no explanation, just silence. I kept checking my phone like maybe I missed something. Maybe they’d come back with a reason. But they didn’t. And the worst part is, I started questioning myself. Wondering what I did wrong, or if I said too much, or not enough. But the truth is, people disappear because of them, not because of you. Sometimes they don’t know how to be honest, so they choose silence. It still hurt. But I’m learning not to take it personally. I deserve someone who communicates, not someone who disappears when it gets real. #fyp #fypシ゚ #foryoupage #explorepage #explore #relatable #relatablequotes #unsaidfeelings #unsaidthoughts #unsentmessages #creatorsearchinsights

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coco_wonderlust
Coco :
People will ghost you for a reason and for no reason true. I ghosted mine because I had enough. Enough of no communication, enough of immaturity, enough of no efforts, enough of being left on read etc. So, i decided to simply ghost and remove myself and leave. No need for explanation nothing.
2025-08-19 19:54:52
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aziaxoxoe
lai, SN :
I got ghosted for the second time by the same person. We were doing okay until one day he became distant. His replies were late, and he barely talked to me. If I didn't initiate the conversation, he wouldn't reach out either. I asked him if I had done something wrong, but he said "nothing." If that's the case, then why did he suddenly change?
2025-08-17 14:56:04
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elianna_celestine
EL 👸 :
He delivered my messages for how many days and saw that he was online. I reached out asking if he is okay but got no reply. That was my last straw. No message is a message. We were fine before this so I don’t know what happen 🥺
2025-06-30 19:30:10
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ellenlynette
lynetteeeeee 🧿 :
We all deserve at least a decent goodbye.
2025-07-09 10:23:16
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idtykwiw
🪫 :
At least explain…..
2026-05-12 09:26:18
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llen_tea
llen_tea :
But it left me trauma and trust issues. 🙃
2025-06-25 14:43:40
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acracr0016
ann :
he doesn't offer me real closure, so I'll be the one doing it. It's for my peace of mind. And I'll do it with a lot of love. The message is really reflecting the "good ways for closure". I wish a lot of strength for anyone who has to live that.😔
2025-06-25 23:28:27
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_gnehs
Xueli 🎀✨ :
When I start to feel that he’s getting cold towards me, I don’t say anything I just quietly distance myself so I can walk away first..
2025-07-08 13:04:46
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thraia62
Ms.Mood :
I've been dealing these for the past months. For how many years that I chose to being alone and there's a person that i thought were on the same page so when I chose to let my guard down for him he suddenly distance his self from me. He's the one who initiate and made promises. So i don't know WHY i always end up in this kind of situation. I don't see myself being attached to someone anymore.
2025-07-02 10:31:24
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stacemodontlookformepls
stacemo :
Ghosting is disrespectful...no matter if they don't know what to say, why leave someone u know is hurting to just continue hurting without checking in on them...its a convenient way for them to move on and enjoy their life
2025-07-28 10:46:22
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maggy.lastborn3
Maggy Maggy ❤️ :
this whatever I am going through 😔...it's has left me trauma and trust issues but I Know it shall be well
2025-07-02 12:58:19
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aarujoi
JOII :
after 5months, he reached out and apologized, asking if we could get back together but I’m already happy rn
2025-07-02 15:34:40
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shaks_adams
شاكرة✨ :
💯 that is the point I have reached now
2025-06-25 22:41:57
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13analie
13analie :
Same. He ghosted me during Christmas. After 5 mos he msg and call me. The same day i got my ticket home already to move on. What a coincidence. my decision was final. I did not meet him and say goodbye. Just move forward.
2025-06-27 14:29:19
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ehdiadyla
ehdiadyla :
This sounds like classic love bombing followed by the vanish. They sweep u up, make u feel special, then disappear when it’s time to be real. Pla remember..that’s not a reflection of ur worth, it’s a reflection of their inability to love right. u’re not too much, u’re just too real for someone who only knows how to play. Keep your light..the right person won’t dim it and run..
2025-08-09 04:39:44
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thetattooedlashgirl
🩷 Ronelle | Pink & Ink :
I also got ghosted - 9 days ago! He was the one that got away came back to just break my heart 😔🥺
2025-07-14 13:51:55
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nby.alld
nabby :
bat kaya nila ginagawa yun?
2025-08-17 09:26:41
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virna178
Vir Na :
might at least said a good bye 😔
2025-07-20 17:06:58
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yogurtdump05
RF :
Ang sakiit tlga
2025-07-22 14:39:50
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dajii_ii
dajii_ii :
genuine question guys
2025-08-21 09:50:21
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rottingsoftly12
Love Maria :
I'd rather be honestly confronted that they don't like me and my over dramatic life, than leaving me questioning my worth as a person. They especially left after knowing my messy past.
2025-08-20 03:03:04
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angiestanthony
angie👷‍♀️ :
After being ghosted, I realized later on that his silence is the closest to a closure I could get. The good thing is I learned from that experience.
2025-07-10 02:25:05
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xzhaluna
Xyanie☆ :
I hate that you were afraid of losing me, yet you disappeared silently again. I hate how it ended. But I still don't hate you.
2025-07-23 06:10:33
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tracyanned1
Tracy :
just happened to me after love bombing and telling me he is emotionally available and wants a future with me. No empathy, love bombing etc etc all signs of narcissism. I'll be single forever I don't trust anyone any more
2025-07-30 14:17:42
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