@_amberinamerica: All I wanted from my appointment yesterday was for him to acknowledge that it sounds like there’s been some sort of error in communication and he’ll look into it and let’s work on getting you better and making sure it doesn’t happen again. An ultrasound tech does the imaging, it’s then passed to a radiologist to write a report and then sent to my OB - plenty of chances for something to be misplaced and I made it clear to my Dr that I am entirely understanding of the fact that mistakes happen. Unfortunately although he admitted that it sounded like I passed the pregnancy tissue Thursday night (48 hours after the ultrasound showed it was there but he told me it wasn’t) for some reason in his mind that doesn’t correlate with the fact that a mistake was made - because this radiologist has 40 years of experience so of course it’s not possible that he might have simply mistyped something 🫠 Anyway, I now have to book another ultrasound and see if everything has really gone this time and then hopefully the Dr will run some tests to see if I have some sort of imbalance that might be causing these losses. I’m having a really bad day today as well, continuing on from this appt yesterday, but I’ll try to show up again tomorrow because it does help. Thanks as always for your support. #pregnancyafterloss #miscarriage #miscarriageawareness #ttc #grief #dandc #fertilitytreatment

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littlelindsay6
lck023 :
Please find a new doctor if it’s an option. I’m so sorry ❤️
2025-06-25 15:08:42
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jesseraven_
jesse :
😭 please NEVER go back to this doctor and get out of florida
2025-06-25 15:03:09
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lmthomas0048
LThomas❌ :
I’d find a female doctor. ❤️❤️
2025-06-25 15:03:59
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jenniferklb
Jennifer K L B :
I honestly think he misdiagnosed you because you’re in Florida. In other words, the medication he’d prescibe you if you hadn’t fully passed all the tissue is almost impossible to get in Florida (thanks, GOP!) so he *wanted* you to have fully passed the tissue, and convinced himself you did. I’m so sorry.
2025-06-25 14:52:50
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jgarnobrien
kitten chose violence :
hang in sister! I would recommend a female doctor going forward. sending all the love and good vibes your way..❤🥰🙏❤❤
2025-06-25 14:56:31
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lesliestag
lesliestag :
I’m so sorry about all “this is because you’re in Florida” comments. Miscarrying is so hard. Emotionally, physically and having two back to back is a complete mind game. An RE may be a good next step to get more answers!
2025-06-25 15:37:37
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jobeeez
Jobeez :
Please see a new doctor. Even when my doctor is running behind, they have always let me ask all my questions and never felt rushed. This is completely unacceptable and in your situation it is vital to feel supported and heard from healthcare professionals.
2025-06-25 18:05:49
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pimpmackmomma
♡Mack♡🫶🏼 :
Honey Florida is the worst state for this type of Healthcare. I am so sorry.
2025-06-25 20:19:33
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sdnative1
sdnative1 :
I can’t recommend it enough find a female doctor! When you see your primary doctor ask for recommendations. I would stick with a woman. They are more in tune with your needs. I am sorry this sorry this happened to you.
2025-06-26 05:33:56
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cherihidalgo5
cherihidalgo5 :
Find a woman who understands everything you’re going through cause I’m sure he’s a fine doctor, but he doesn’t understand he doesn’t live it😊
2025-06-26 23:42:27
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rmorgan1977
Rebecca 👩🏼‍⚕️ :
Nurse here….no matter how back logged a doctor is…you have every right to ask your questions and to get answers to those questions. If you continue with this doctor, hold him to the fire and stand your ground. Praying for you.
2025-06-27 14:56:25
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anitafrommn
Anita.Snodgrass :
Ex medical worker: The radiologist made an error in reading the scan (shocked), the md just looked at the report and didn’t look at the scan.
2025-06-26 04:41:20
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jpeoneal
Jennifer O'Neal :
The only way to tell is a blood test that your HCG levels are below 2. It took me about a year with testing every two weeks.
2025-06-25 23:50:54
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dmcdug
Daphne :
Floridians can you ladies offer up the names of some OB/GYN groups you trust so Amber has options. Amber, sending you hugs.
2025-06-25 18:48:40
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cerifromhere
Ceri :
Can you not come back to England for the summer and be with family ?
2025-06-25 15:58:09
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christachambers27
christachambers :
Please mama as a mama who’s lost 3 babies try and find a new doctor!
2025-06-26 02:40:50
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ka_e86
Kate :
I don't know if this is because my partner had a misscarriage recently or because I also have a little boy called Rory ❤️but I felt your pain & that life sometimes is cruel. I hope 1 day soon life starts to feel normal for you again and you can look 2 the future ❤️
2025-06-26 15:03:19
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bluebellsue
Sue :
Oh Amber, your post broke my heart. Thinking of you, sending prayers, love & hugs 💔🤗❤️🇬🇧
2025-06-26 04:47:07
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carrot8theory
Carrot Theory :
It sounds to me like he was doubting and gaslighting you about the radiologist. No matter how long they’ve been doing it, mistakes happen. Honestly, even if you need to write him a letter to get it all out, he needs to be reminded that someone going through trauma should be treated with more respect, and apologies should be the only thing coming from him.
2025-06-25 19:08:45
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bvcna8
BVCna :
I truly feel Ike he wanted you to pass it naturally 😮and not have to do the surgery due to us living here in Fl 😩🙏try Cleveland clinic my daughter has a great older women ob gyn dr up here in WPB and she’s for women’s rights 🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏💗only God knows why keep your faith 🙏one day at a time ☺️
2025-06-25 15:36:33
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k8ty04
Katie :
thank you for sharing... I know its incredibly hard but your journey as horrible as it is is so helpful to others. 💗💗💗
2025-06-26 01:02:03
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mavisthegreat5
mavisthegreat :
I’m so sorry , amber. I wish I had some form of words to make you feel better, I don’t clearly. But I am sitting here with you. If I lived near you you’d have to kick me out. I’d be there to help. I pray that everything is gone so no surgery. Much love and sympathy. 😞❤️
2025-06-26 01:15:45
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judy_1968pj
Judy Pullen-Johnson :
Amber, I’m so sorry you are going through this right now. Please, if possible, have your mum come and stay with you for at least a couple weeks. You need someone to help you while you heal and help with Rory so you can take some time to yourself. 💞💞
2025-06-25 17:15:36
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mrstaracurtis
Tara Curtis :
Please I’m begging you, change providers.
2025-07-01 13:09:07
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gigi12021202
Gigi12021202 :
So so sorry. Hoping that snuggling Rory will help you heal. Hugs!
2025-06-25 17:02:47
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