No it’s not 🤦🏻♀️It’s a trauma response. It’s not manipulation, it’s fear of confrontation.
2025-07-05 04:26:09
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Kiera.Shan :
it’s not minipulation it’s fear? yes it’s not healthy but ur not manipulating someone into liking you. if ur always putting others before urself then ya they’ll like u cuz they know they can get anything out of you, u just might be miserable.
2025-06-28 00:55:02
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alyssa :
it’s not that simple. there’s so many reasons why people are people pleasers. that doesn’t classify all of it as manipulation
2025-06-28 03:39:05
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OldManBrown :
Wait… but that’s good right… we don’t want them to me upset … right?
2025-06-26 10:54:27
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Marijs :
I missed you what took you so long to get on TT??
2025-06-27 21:09:26
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Nedra’s Whimsical Things 💕✨ :
I learned this behavior from my parents. Ive became my own woman to unlearn this behavior and will be moving far far away to force them to schedule their visits. I’m setting boundaries.
2025-06-30 08:04:39
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Pianoing here and there :
It's unsafety where not pleasing may mean death
2025-07-21 20:58:32
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Kizuer🔜ASC :
hm describes an ex 😩 who did 🤔
2025-06-27 09:07:00
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imanygirl :
that's like saying there is no such thing as altruism. it's not so black or white.
2025-06-26 01:24:56
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JESUS HEALS!! :
It’s the end for me😭😩 “people pleasing is manipulation. we’re uncomfortable with them being upset” this right here just made me “snap” out of the “dream” 😩😂
2025-06-25 22:38:25
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Brooke Rapson :
People pleasing is a trauma response
2025-06-29 03:17:34
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Ivana Simoniti :
this absolutely needs to be said louder! also it can violate other peoples boundaries. my dad used to people please everyone at the expense of us (his family)
2025-06-26 16:57:26
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rockland :
Coming from a DBT therapist, I'm surprised you use the term "manipulation". I definitely get what you're saying though and it's helpful
2025-06-30 18:23:00
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Ruben :
I usually agree with you and you know best being professional, but this one feels like a miss to be honest 🤔
2025-07-19 23:06:38
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tinafromde_akfan :
I haven’t sent your videos in a long time!!
2025-06-27 14:18:46
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🍒nette🍒 :
ooo new perspective 👀 thank you.
2025-07-02 23:05:54
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Olga🔥AlchemAzel :
I tried to explain this to my husband but he rolls his eyes. His ppl pleasing stems from his childhood his mom was so controlling and he needs therapy but he says I’m not a Dr. and his sarcasm is so annoying. He has meltdowns, when things don’t go his way😳
2025-07-14 22:44:02
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Z🐜 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-21 08:15:42
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