@hey.shainamarie: Replying to @vix Mcmenamin Check the link in my bio or DM me to book a private hypnosis session to stop the anxiety and become secure as you navigate the slow burn. #datingtips #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #slowburn
I was going to say slow burn actually feels safe to a safe nervous system
2025-07-01 16:09:30
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Michelle :
Your videos help so much! Oooo okay good question slow burn? Do you or should you have a “timeline” in terms of when the relationship should be exclusive in terms of status (boyfriend/girlfriend)
2025-06-25 22:29:50
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Stephanie OHarra350 :
Slow burn or does he have avoidant attachment?! Hard to tell the difference..
2025-07-26 00:18:12
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Sonja Hysmith :
I have to treat him like he’s my best friend. Her and I can go a long while without talking and it doesn’t make me think she hates me and will never talk to me again, just that she’s human and has a life. That’s helped me a lot honestly.
2025-07-21 14:18:25
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Laura Kate 🌻 :
finding calm in the silence has been weirdly healing. Im enjoying it & it allows me to lean into my feminine fill my own cup & he will be back again soon
2025-06-28 02:20:56
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Phylis T :
Thank you for this! I'm trying really hard to be patient and not get triggered whenever things go quiet
2025-06-28 10:40:08
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Tina :
Great Advice! It’s the first relationship I’ve gone slow and not being worried or obsessed about dating and it’s def paying off. They appreciate the space and the independence and you just trust the process and enjoy it. 🥰
2025-06-27 22:20:02
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Mela 🍏 :
DaAaaaaammmnnnnnn I needed that lol I feel so seeeeennnn!!! Thank you!! 💜
2025-06-28 01:04:10
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meredith :
Detach from the outcome and enjoy the moment connecting! Brilliant!
2025-07-14 22:19:15
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Racharoundtheworld :
I HATE the unknowwwnnnnn
2025-07-02 06:56:40
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user4148334159184 :
This is gold for anxious attachment. We need to be talked down from that craziness.
2025-07-19 11:00:11
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Jo W :
Your videos are SO helpful to me right now 😍✨
2025-06-25 22:08:27
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Sheyen :
I am actually glad that before I talked to the man I'm talking with (stoic, reserved, masculine), I already have my own lifestyle and taking care of my own self care because way way before, I was a people pleaser and I am really proud of this journey even though it took me years to regulate my nervous system but it definitely made me have my boundaries and standards with other people, not just in romantic relationships.
2025-07-06 16:44:51
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Snapdragon Stars :
Love the way you explain all this and I've been experiencing the slow burn and it's been a very positive experience.
2025-06-26 04:12:01
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HNNH ✨ :
Didn’t know how much I needed to hear “of course you’re good enough” until you said it 🥺 thank you 🙏🏼
2025-07-20 05:30:07
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Crea :
This was, hands down, the best explanation how to live your best life! ❤️🤩
2025-07-06 18:01:03
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Doritomartz 🤟😎 :
I needed to hear this. thank you so much. my partner is definitely a slow burn and I get anxious sometimes.
2025-07-23 21:04:25
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Lauren Elizabeth Mor :
This was so helpful, thank you❤️
2025-07-06 19:38:15
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unsaid.gangsey :
such calm and reasonable advice but also this shade of purple is LOVELY on u queen 💕
2025-06-30 03:06:24
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MaJo 💥 :
When he’s on vacation am I supposed to not text as much? Just leave him be and wait for when he wants to talk to
2025-07-15 10:55:03
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•Becky• :
This may be the best advice I’ve ever heard. Thank you 100x over
2025-08-05 03:36:32
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Zaisha2025 :
What would you say about workplace relationships and whether it’s slow burn or he’s not interested coz it might affect our careers?
2025-07-03 04:11:42
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avacdikho :
You give the best advice
2025-08-11 21:27:38
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Jennifer T Joy :
Should one date other people in the silent periods of the slow burn
2025-08-18 03:03:03
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faithnpl4qy :
slow burn is teaching me a lot about myself and to feel safe
2025-07-04 23:38:34
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