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Abopabangerandajam :
Gifts are only gifts if they are given without clauses, otherwise they are manipulation
2025-06-25 22:56:53
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Fabiola Thelon :
A say, yes. The final decision, no.
2025-06-26 12:37:47
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Miki :
if they bring up requests/demands the it is transactional not a gift or done out of kindness
2025-06-26 08:08:18
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In Rudy’s World :
We were extremely lucky to have £15k gifted to us for our wedding. My dad’s dealbreaker was that cheese had to available after the meal but other than that he said go for your life! 😂😭
2025-06-26 09:37:34
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theferociousMC :
This is where clear communication helps. Is this a gift or do you want to have a say? Then you decide if you want to accept based off their answer.
2025-06-25 23:01:02
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MarilynSane :
Is it a gift or an investment? Cos there’s a difference.
2025-06-26 09:30:10
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_ali_stair_ :
Nah if they wanna gift money it’s so their child can have a better day, not so they can ensure they get x,y or z. If they don’t wanna give money without demands then the couple should plan a wedding within their budget.
2025-06-26 09:49:26
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Baddie ong :
This is Remi Ashten. You know dam well her parents aren’t paying for jack😭
2025-06-26 12:41:52
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panbckl :
when you offer to pay anything for someone, you shouldn't expect to have a say in it other than how much you're paying. If you pay for someone's dinner, you don't choose their food and expect them to have it even if they don't like it.
2025-06-26 05:33:59
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Alxandria375 :
Jsut cos something is a “cultural thing” still doesn’t mean it’s right
2025-06-26 11:18:06
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(AJAX) TaraGWW :
I think if they’re funding the entire thing then they have a right to have opinions on things where one version costs 3k and the other costs 2k but I don’t think that they get to decide what flavour cake you have or what dress you buy. Financial, but not creative veto. And they can have opinions on the other things, but only in the same way that your friends might.
2025-06-26 01:02:29
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🐸 :
My mom’s only “demand” was that there was a mac and cheese bar during cocktail hour (she paid for it). My dad’s “demand” was that he didn’t have to make a toast. GOATS.
2025-06-26 16:00:47
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Ashley B. :
Nope. It’s a gift. Money given with stipulations is manipulation.
2025-06-26 01:48:15
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chewy :
“Silent investors”. I’d make a contract agreement.
2025-06-25 23:11:54
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Proff :
I would say yes, but any demands they have should be laid out clearly when before anything is paid for. For example yes we’ll pay for your venue but you must have it local and we get x invites for family friends. Goalpost need to be fixed before money is given.
2025-06-26 09:23:10
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ac0lorfulcalm :
It’s either a gift/a kind gesture or it’s not.
2025-06-25 23:31:07
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🏳️⚧️Princess Aoife Thropp :
This is why I wont have anyone helping financially
2025-06-26 02:20:47
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Add your preferred name :
The absolute correct answer is no they should not because if they’re financially contributing, it should be seen as a gift with no strings and if they’re contributing financially because they want to say then they’re doing it for the wrong reason
2025-06-26 12:47:38
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EvilLauraPalmer :
I am too autistic to play these games. A gift is a gift and if you just straight up give me money, then that money is no longer in your control and I can do what i want with it 😅 yes including ‘cultural things’. Sometimes culture is toxic and we’re allowed to break it whenever we want
2025-06-26 09:35:48
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Boxmunk :
My parents said they couldn’t help much, but still wanted a say. “Thanks for sharing, but this is what we’re doing. I hope you can come!” They did.
2025-06-26 01:02:53
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Savana🫧 :
No, parents can have an opinion but the end decision is between bride and groom period.
2025-06-26 16:32:26
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Hayley_B_90 :
I hope to pay for my daughter’s entire wedding, and have no say. I’d love to be involved…. But it’s her wedding
2025-06-26 13:02:21
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Josh :
I do feel bad for a certain generation (in particular women) who got caught between the change over in who plans the wedding. They're old enough that their parents planned their wedding but young enough for their kids to want to plan their own so they don't get either.
2025-06-26 12:52:25
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Christina Knees :
Both sets of parents are funding nearly our whole wedding. outside of a few must haves on the guest list they haven’t had much say. And if we say no to something they suggest it’s the end of it. I’m so greatful I have respectful parents on both sides that told hold the funds they give us over our heads for control
2025-06-26 16:25:36
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chriirtp855🇦🇪 :
clear no it's your wedding if it comes with strings it's not a gift.
2025-07-16 11:18:16
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