Me realizing this man next to me fits the description 🥺
2025-06-26 00:56:50
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KeeKee ✨ :
Literally! You can NOTTTTT teach thoughtfulness or consideration. It has to be in you!
2025-06-26 00:39:33
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Queen Des 💓 :
Light bulb moment! The man who traumatized me lacked empathy and was not romantic unless he was love bombing.
2025-06-26 01:01:40
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️ginny🍁🌿 :
you explained this in the PERFECT way
2025-06-26 00:19:46
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CTRL + ALT + Ciara :
The girls are waking up! 😌😌
2025-06-26 00:48:59
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Eat Shop Do ATL :
Jeremiah wasn't romantic enough for Huda (after only knowing each other a few days) because she was comparing him and their relationship to the other islanders.
2025-06-26 10:20:57
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Jada :
You had me up until Jeremiah and Huda!
2025-06-26 00:56:50
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Germaine✨GigiLux :
This is toooo true! I’m currently living this, but I gotta go ✌🏾
2025-06-26 00:08:22
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Forever Melinda 💜 :
I agree with everything except the Jeremiah part. He mentally checked out and yes he should have checked on her but in that moment-both of them needed something mentally. She needed reassurance and he needed time.
2025-06-26 00:42:11
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December :
Yes. Which is why you should run from emotionally unavailable men. If they are suppressing their own feelings/trauma they will supress you. They cannot see outside of themselves and they barely see that far.
2025-06-26 06:02:36
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GingerMcKween💙🦕 :
By definition Jeremiah doesn’t lack empathy, he has an avoidant attachment style. Very different.
2025-06-26 06:44:59
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Miaya Erin :
THIS is the type of things I feel like black women sometimes learn the hard way because we don’t date enough you are absolutely correct!!!! You can also pick up on empathetic people from picking their brains about world situations in small talk.
2025-06-26 02:35:51
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phardia.xo :
Actually Jeremiah said he knew he should have comforted her but her CHOSE not too. Different than lacking empathy. He said he chose to reflect separately cause he realized that maybe America is seeing the red flags and what he was experiencing with her
2025-06-26 02:12:13
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Tiff 🌻 :
girl you just gave me the perspective i needed to let go of this man
2025-06-26 00:24:12
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Classy_cc :
Living on a cloud… not in a good way 😩
2025-06-26 00:16:00
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فَرَح :
I was with you until you mentioned Jeremiah . He knew the girl a week he didn’t need to do anything. He chose peace .
2025-07-20 14:41:40
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Tara Adams528 :
😳 All I can say, is RUN
2025-06-27 20:07:38
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Simply_Drea :
You really have to think long term when choosing a partner
2025-07-12 03:40:30
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_BreannaBree_ :
I’m so tired of having to analyze these men just leave me alone:
2025-06-27 02:07:15
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angellove@71 :
Kept chosing men who were selfish, lacked empathy and had no desire to bring a smile to my face. 🤔 finally realized I been dating men who mirrored my father! It felt so normal to my unhealed parts. But my healed parts were screaming 🚩🚩
2025-06-26 06:51:15
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Not Tiffany :
Baby, you are SOOOOOOOOOOO wise!!!!!!
2025-06-26 13:21:23
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Jasmine :
Omg Omg !!! I’m super early 😍heyyy friend !!!
2025-06-26 00:06:39
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E :
Oh this is a perfect analysis. I felt the same way about Jeremiah. You can’t teach someone to be compassionate and be thoughtful. Either you have it or you don’t.
2025-06-26 01:39:44
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Jayde✨💖 :
I noticed it with my child’s father. I had a C section, my son was crying to be changed and I couldn’t get up. He looked at me and said I’ll be glad when they come unhook you from your IV because I’m tired!! 🤬🤯 WTF!!
2025-06-26 22:42:28
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Elle_MNOP :
Empathy is like personality in that it cannot change. So if you have a low Empathy quotient it's not going to change... you'd have to fake it to "improve".
2025-06-26 03:27:35
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