@ikerandasmith: Replying to @PrincessMeep if the eldest daughter is the symptom than the family dynamic is the condition #eldestdaughter #innerchildwork #selfworthadvice #innerchild #selflove

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merrilynakano1
🌙 May Lillith 🌙 :
I believe my PCOS was caused by this.
2025-06-26 21:24:16
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rachiecurlz
Rachel’s Recommendations :
My high blood pressure and struggling to lose weight.😔
2025-06-27 04:28:09
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misshollywoodzbmore
MissHollywoodzbmore :
🙋🏾‍♀️Autoimmune gastritis and I carry anxiety in my stomach
2025-06-28 17:17:57
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intimacywkee
intimacywkee :
I have all of those issues . I’m the eldest daughter that had to step in an adult roll at 8yrs old . I’ve never really gotten a Chance to relax
2025-06-26 23:26:34
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user7617536209900
user7617536209900 :
This is actually a veeeeery good point. A lot of the women I know with autoimmune diseases are the oldest. That’s crazy. Or if they aren’t, they are the most responsible of the children.
2025-06-28 15:51:54
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aurumsirius143
Aurum Ola Sirius :
Autoimmune disease and fibromyalgia I’ve healed my PCOS/ fibroids and thyroid issues working on the rest of them.
2025-06-27 03:21:02
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raerae40487
RAeRae :
Thank you for this. I have been searching so much about my position as the eldest. I had a mother that abandoned her duties besides providing shelter. I love your videos and they give my a sense of clarity. I’m currently putting in action to build my community.💚💚💚
2025-06-26 19:12:52
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mamagardens3
Throwbackblooms :
PMDD and late diagnosed ADHD. I've been in therapy for 2 years and everything you say makes so much sense and very much resonates with me. Im learning to set boundaries and love myself. With everything I now know, I feel like Im building a wall and becoming distrusting of everyone. I crave connection and community. How can I attain that if Im in fear of being mishandled again? Thank you for your content ❤️
2025-06-28 14:15:38
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arwyn91
Arwyn 91 :
I have fibro, PCOS, fertility issues...first born, oldest girl on both sides of my family. survivor of childhood sequel abuse and then later sexual assault. I'm holding it together with glue and tape with a child of my own now. It's suffocating because everytime I get above the stress, a big life event happens. Currently dealing with my Aunt's (mom's sister) death. my mom is now the matriarch...but funny how everything has landed on me. I'm tired.
2025-06-28 15:27:30
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bigandtallwomensedition
BigandTallWomensEdition :
ADHD, Lupus/Rheumatoid Arthritis
2025-06-27 00:22:02
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neshiac18
Caneshia :
My mom comes from a family of horrible dysfunction. She had a stroke while pregnant with me and had to deliver me through an emergency c section. I’m the oldest daughter and have endometriosis
2025-06-27 14:04:57
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iamsojones
So So Jones :
Baby pls advise how to permanently expel these unwanted secrets (this eldest daughter here is beyond exhausted)
2025-06-27 11:51:23
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healwithjaime
Jai. :
Had the fibroids and panic attacks. I am indeed rushing. In a year I’ll be doing van life.
2025-06-26 23:23:38
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kamilynmarie
Kamilyn Marie AKA Mama Gio :
Great grandma - eldest. Grandmother - eldest. Mother - eldest. Me - eldest. First born - eldest. I feel horrible for my daughter.
2025-06-27 03:23:26
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feelsonwheelsss
Roxanne Robles :
LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK 👏👏👏
2025-06-27 03:00:58
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a.sugurl.abroad
A Su-Gurl Abroad :
I created my safe environment, married an amazing man who takes care of me, we are financially stable and I keep my toxic family as far as possible, because all they want is “taking” from me
2025-06-29 18:12:04
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mobileuser000392000
Mobileuser000392000 :
I have an older brother I think this might apply to the first born girl even if they have older brother(s) men refuse to meet us here where the hurts are most the time. A good one can sort of show up sometimes. And that’s a good one lol
2025-06-27 21:30:44
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daraq504
Raquel :
I’m the middle daughter but my oldest sister has a few of those health issues. I have been praying for her so much .
2025-06-26 23:08:28
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alliecarterlafitt
Allie Carter Lafitte :
Sometimes I wonder if most of us Millennials struggle so much with infertility!
2025-06-27 19:17:23
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toastytoffee
toastytoffee :
What if the “symptom” that plays out in the eldest millennial daughter is body focused repetitive behavior disorders? Why would it possibly turn her mind and her body into a torture chamber? While still being high functioning. The family sees it but ignores it and continues to siphon from her.
2025-06-26 20:13:39
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intentionallytalia
Forever Autumn :
I have hypothyroidism. Growing up, I was the truth teller but no one listening to me, so I learned to hold it in. I’m healing and speaking by up against injustice 🙌🏼💛
2025-06-28 17:57:48
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beautifulrem
Remy :
You’re literally talking to me.
2025-06-28 10:07:08
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drharmonious4
drharmonious4 :
I’m the eldest daughter of an eldest daughter mother diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis at 40yrs old but was dealing with symptoms since I was 26 years old. No matter what I do, my inflammation makers are high 🤷🏽‍♀️
2025-06-26 23:26:35
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piecesofme724
piecesofme724 :
There’s so much I want to say but can’t quite put it into words. But thank you for saying everything you did and seeing the eldest daughter and how much they carry
2025-06-29 17:25:10
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