I strongly disagree. The idea that someone becomes less interesting once they’re more available is not only cynical it’s deeply flawed. Availability, especially when it’s intentional and rooted in care, is not a weakness. It’s a form of courage. To show up selectively, meaningfully for the things and people that matter is not a lack of mystery, it’s a declaration of values.
2025-06-26 22:50:06
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maddie king :
“You don’t find yourself you create yourself” DAMN 🗣️🗣️🗣️
2025-06-27 20:21:23
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Mimi_steel :
Cartier and Chanel literally pay millions on ads every year
2025-06-29 22:42:30
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comrade_asparagus :
She's preaching toxic manipulation
2025-07-06 23:39:23
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✔️ :
Girl I’m telling you, start a podcast
2025-06-27 04:28:19
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MochaLady :
You don’t find yourself, you create yourself ❤️
2025-06-26 23:30:21
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avery :
i love these videos
2025-06-26 20:04:58
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Cassia :
in addition, you can say you're not available even if your plans don't involve leaving the house or seeing other people. having hobbies or interests that aren't social doesn't mean you have to always be available
2025-06-27 03:04:12
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pSsh :
but i prefer for people to answer my text quickly, so i do that for others out of respect.
2025-06-29 03:25:19
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Caroline Morrish Cal :
7k saves and not many comments. Let me tell YOU. … we appreciate the tips ,thank you.
2025-06-28 13:57:14
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Iceeeeee :
just live
2025-08-14 15:43:54
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Mariamreweny :
Detachment is so hard to do
2025-06-28 13:17:32
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Sammy Joy :
I feel like I owe you therapy cheque for this knowledge
2025-06-29 10:52:09
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Lauren⚡️🖤 :
Hear me out… you need a podcast for the girlies
2025-06-27 15:58:32
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Svanhildur Heiða Snorradóttir :
Absolutely agree
2025-06-28 08:37:39
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🪼 :
Ok Margot Robbie
2025-06-27 23:44:40
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marianna.saver :
I appreciate this but the fact that detachment is being hailed everywhere as a thing to master is really scary: what happened to community and connection?
2025-07-09 21:59:29
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𝕬𝖓𝖌𝖊𝖑𝖆 :
Taking so many notes
2025-07-01 01:01:32
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Krista :
Agree with all of this 🙌❤️
2025-06-27 18:03:32
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Aga ✨ :
For me being available only means that you prioritize somebody over other things, so this is how I show I care and this is how I recognize somebody cares for me 🥰
2025-06-27 16:02:07
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Kirstie Roche Makeup :
Needed this little reminder 👏👏
2025-08-26 12:40:53
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Waiting on a Sloth :
Be super present. Couldn’t agree more. 🥰🔥🥰🔥🥰🔥
2025-09-17 17:25:06
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Empowering Her :
Limiting access to you shows how valuable your time is.. 💎
2025-07-26 16:53:36
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