I’m Swedish and i don’t mind paying all the bills, travel expenses, clothes, hygien etc etc aka protection & providing plus “heavy lifting and fixing” - but then I’m not doing the everyday cooking, cleaning and other normal household chores. I prefer my woman working for our family and raising our children than fighting rain and snow to serve some company till she get fired for being too old
2025-06-29 04:45:54
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therealmaya100 :
I'm swedish and I believe that couples that live together should contribute financially according to their income. So if one person makes alot more money, that person should pay more. For me that is fair.
2025-06-27 06:51:24
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rebeccainsweden :
In a Marriage, I believe in putting all the money in the same account and we pay bills, save money and sharing what’s left equally every month. Paying 50-50 is unfair especially in situation where one person earns more than the other.
2025-06-27 06:57:44
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Ms borah :
I just followed and liked your video cos you spoke my mind. And everything you said is true and the part where they think all Africans are poor is just unfortunate. Am from Nigeria and I lived in the best parts of Abuja. Thanks speaking up sis ❤️
2025-06-27 10:28:01
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Dashy :
Dane here. I would lose self-respect if my husband paid everything in our relationship.
2025-06-27 19:50:28
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Zarih :
Equality 🤷
2025-06-27 12:55:59
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Melanie :
We share everything. The money we make is all our money, not his, not mine, ours. He makes more than me so he pays more from his salary bc otherwise we couldn’t own an apartment. We are a team
2025-06-27 13:39:13
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Emca112 :
I will never do 50/50. There is no equality in that. I would rather live by myself.
2025-06-28 05:19:43
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Beldrama :
Swede here and I totally agree with you.
I earn more money than my wife, sitting infront of a computer from home in my underwear while she earns less taking care of kindergarten children.
I would feel shame if I required her to pay the same.
Since we are married, we throw all money together, pay our bills and whatever is left, we split into 3.
Pocket money for her, pocket money for me and the rest goes to savings for future home
2025-06-28 10:23:16
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Ren :
my husband is swedish and im so thankful he doesnt have this mindset 😭 he's the only one working and supporting both of us currently
2025-06-27 10:33:51
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Linda M. Davenport :
To me 50/50 means that you are roommates sharing the cost of living. If a man can’t or won’t provide for his wife, then is he really a husband or more like a friend with benefits?? 🤔
2025-08-19 22:49:48
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Ljungen :
you dont live in Africa now.
if you live in Sweden....Swedish rules
2025-06-27 17:52:19
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apassediedh :
It's not in Africa. It's Sweden and it's expensive because one salary can't also pay all the bills or buy everything at home. I see that many foreign women especially African women who have difficulty with the culture. 🙏
2025-06-27 14:57:12
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Lillian_Jowi :
So everyone picks on the 50 50 part but not the racism part? That's the most important thing! How you treat another human should be the focus here. Typically people want to ignore the maior issues..
2025-07-04 04:13:34
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Dalmain Berry :
Nothing wrong with that. Why should the woman keep her money and she loving in the home
2025-06-29 12:32:22
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Melinda :
Well.. no, it’s never 50/50 if you earn less than your partner. Atleast it shouldn’t be 😅. If we’re renting an apartment together, then fine, I’ll pay half the rent but he would have to pay more for food and stuff 😅
2025-06-27 06:59:15
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courage Sundberg :
As an African living in Sweden, I deeply value the importance of partnership in a marriage. For me, there’s a sense of pride and joy in being able to support one another. My husband and I share everything including a joint account ,and that has always felt natural to us. When I first came to Sweden, he stood by me wholeheartedly, supporting me while I was still learning the language and adjusting, even when I wasn’t working. He trusted me completely, and I could use his card freely for anything I needed or wanted . Now that I have a stable, well-paid job, it feels only right to continue sharing in the same spirit of love and mutual care. ❤️
2025-06-29 16:41:34
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Booman🇸🇪 :
Jag har aldrig haft 50/50, det finns inte i min värld, är man ett par så självklar att du bara betalar, ska man vara snål mot sin partner som du älskar? Låter helt galet
2025-06-27 13:01:24
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daisy :
I love this ❤️❤️
2025-06-27 15:04:00
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Elite👑 :
It’s the norm but my Swedish guy pays for everything, it’s good to be with someone who shares the same values as yourself
2025-06-27 08:36:43
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Siw 🇧🇻 :
In Norway we don't share 50/50 if the husband earns more than the wife. Then children, housework and cooking must also be shared 50/50. If the wife earns 400,000 and the husband 800,000, then 25/75 is a more likely situation.
2025-06-27 13:37:15
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Lady M :
Na so we see em o🤣🤣🤣🙈you welcome 🤝
2025-06-27 09:43:36
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Ruthie📸 :
So true, the hair part…we just do it, it’s so normal
2025-06-26 20:30:11
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Pweetiewura ⚢ :
You said it!!!!!!
2025-06-26 20:02:27
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