@littlemissamylee: Everything you need to know about that person will be in their response to your boundaries 🤍 #littlemissamylee #boundaries #HealingJourney #Relationship #dating #datingafter40 #selflove
I had a man tell me I was a waste of his time because he wanted to FaceTime me at 9:30pm and I said no thanks because I was watching a movie.
2025-07-27 03:35:56
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2fast4U :
As a single guy…this just tells me we’re not compatible. I have better things to do with my energy and time. I totally respect your alone time because we all need that, however at the very beginning we’re trying to see if we’re compatible at all. So As an example…if at the very beginning you say…I don’t take calls after 9 because that’s your me time…that just tells me I won’t be a part of your “me” time. So we won’t have a long term relationship. That also tells me you’re a very strong and independent woman…which is perfectly fine. Just don’t expect me to share my energy and time when you’re having a terrible day and want to rely on me to be there to listen to you and support you. My time and energy is also a privilege, especially if you play that game with me. Texting during working hours…totally acceptable…everyone has to pay bills. I just don’t get the games, but maybe that’s why I’m single! Lol but I’m an old school type of relationship guy.
2025-06-27 11:47:35
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RobLowe :
This is wild, I just reply when I have time and that saves alot of headaches
2025-06-27 07:09:32
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big sandwich :
4🐝 for me. I'm not wasting any energy on testing dudes for bare minimum adult capabilities.
2025-06-27 01:33:52
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Mydogsnameisdawg :
Just remember, stick to your own boundaries. Don’t tell me don’t text after 9 then you text me sometimes after 9
2025-06-27 02:16:28
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Me :
Sooo let’s put it like this . I just get hired by a company and my manager tells me to never knock on his door if it is closed. Let’s say we work in sales and the biggest contract shows up and asks to speak to the manager. I do exactly as I am told. Should I be fired? Or should I be coached on the rigidity or fluidity of a specific boundary. This is why I think men should respond with the same energy and just leave women alone.
2025-06-27 12:36:06
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Jeff Mitchell293 :
you are not a privilege
2025-08-04 09:16:52
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Michael Mullins :
When I was in the military. During boot camp we were required to fold our shirts a certain way. It was a fairly simple task. Someone asked our TI why we have to fold the shirts a certain way. The TI looked him dead in the eyes and said, "Son if you can't follow simple instructions on folding a shirt, how in the hell am I going to trust you with a fighter jet worth millions of dollars." Lesson learned and still followed. She's not playing games. I know it kind of comes off that way, but the boundary is her real boundary. She doesn't make up a new one for each new date. These type of things need to come up in conversation when on those dates. Then we can make decisions on moving forward or becoming "friends". Be nice, be respectful and be truthful.
2025-08-24 01:15:11
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⭐️ChryzNutzAZ⭐️ :
What he say?
2025-06-26 23:01:02
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Sarcastic Sam :
Crazy!! I just had someone “new” cross my no texting after 8:00 for me time boundary. It’s only beginning texts but still.
2025-06-26 23:33:26
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romeosdelight14 :
Yeah, if we’re taking tests b4 anything is going on, I’m cool moving on.. You’re gonna have a lot of 1st dates in your future..
2025-08-19 21:56:35
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Glamber :
so crazy I've already subconsciously been doing this and boundaries have been broken and I was like if they can't listen to this simple thing this just doesn't work for me!
2025-06-27 00:42:07
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k1_smooth :
I told a woman that rather talk at the end of the day so we have stuff to talk about. And because of my busy days it’s hard to communicate during the work day . She told me if I’m willing to wait all day it shows I can’t communicate and that she wants to feel like she is apart of my day . So it wouldn’t work
2025-08-07 20:58:13
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MyDogMaggs 🖕🧊 :
100% … this is a great strategy!
2025-06-29 19:33:45
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Louie Lucero :
So Start To Get To Know Someone Buy Starting Off Playing Games…
2025-06-27 14:11:54
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francesca5900 :
Never 💯if he’s never made you his special one.. don’t expect much He’ll show you 💯no matter what!
2025-06-27 12:26:02
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GeometryGuy :
Good idea but can you use examples that won’t make you sound like you’re playing games and aren’t ready for a relationship?
2025-06-27 11:25:36
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Hillbilly :
You mean your husband is around these hours. Some people do this
2025-06-27 13:30:28
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rubiks141 :
The one?? May the delusion never find me!
2025-06-27 16:42:32
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Alina Skye :
I used to always say that about no contact after 9pm before I give out my phone #. Guys actually always treated that with respect and got it. I just say I turn off my phone to start getting ready for bed. Perfectly reasonable.
listen this is from a guy my name is Riley I live in fort Worth Texas I definitely do not have a problem with that everybody has their boundaries and whatever yours is just let let us know up front shouldn't be a problem
2025-08-21 18:35:59
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CallMeMaureen :
So true!
2025-07-08 11:26:54
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red_all_the_way_2026 :
Good test !
2025-06-27 12:52:39
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Nobody :
Texting is the worst thing ever invented other than social media.😐
2025-06-27 16:51:40
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