I would just photocopy the gift paperwork and mail it back to her
2025-06-27 15:59:21
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Gina.White :
No more gatekeeping just go and read the book Money Untold Essence by Steve Colt and thank me later for changing your life
2025-06-29 14:16:54
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Janners world :
DON’T PAY BACK ANYTHING!!!
2025-06-27 17:50:34
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NotAmazoo :
Pay her the 9 grand and say GOODBYE FOREVER’. Walk away and GHOST her completely.
2025-06-29 09:36:17
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Drea :
Oh gosh! My MIL would throw in our face that she spent $500 to have 3 rooms painted in our home while I was 8 mos pregnant, on bed rest with kidney stones. NEVER took a penny again & cut that toxicity out ✌🏼
2025-06-27 21:58:09
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WhipgameJoe :
Send a letter back saying how much you appreciated her GIFT and that you think of her everytime you enter the home she helped you get with her GIFT.
2025-06-27 22:26:18
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Ambird :
My father in law did the exact same thing. We had a witness on our side and don’t have the money for repayment but he did tell other family members we weren’t being honest with our “word of repayment”
2025-06-27 20:05:00
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🌻 :
Never take anything from a narcissist. No matter how badly you need it. Always strings and one way or another you will always lose. No such thing as a gift from a narcissist
2025-06-29 16:12:13
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Elizabeth :
You need to set a boundary with her that her behavior is unacceptable. Who cares if she gets mad? She’ll find something else to get mad about anyway. Do not pay her.
2025-06-28 05:14:40
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freespiritwithnature :
Sorry there's so much elder abuse/ lies. If you're telling the truth ,have it in writing always or pay up.
2025-06-28 08:28:18
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Aceamerson1 :
I would just give the money back to the Grandmother.
2025-06-28 03:10:23
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thekatthatgotthecream :
Never expect money off anyone, I have learned the hard way on how people change their minds
2025-06-27 21:11:21
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jessicaevans4705 :
Ghost grandma 👑
2025-06-29 07:32:34
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TheFlexMind ⚡🧠 :
Ah yes, nothing says 'family love' like turning a gift into a high-interest loan. Grandma out here running a payday loan business in disguise...
2025-06-28 15:42:37
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Penny May :
Nope, Do not pay her. Then block your number!
2025-07-01 03:23:33
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chyna_jayde :
Sorry granny but no 🤷🏾♀️
2025-07-01 20:43:39
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user883092364452 :
I’d pay her back her 9000 no interest because that’s taking the biscuit I wouldn’t have anything to do with again after that .
2025-06-30 07:41:01
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KLO :
Just give it back and smile and nod
2025-06-27 22:08:02
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Elizabeth :
she had to have told the mortgage company it was a gift. they want to know where the funds came from and if they have to be paid back
2025-07-03 01:50:37
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THEVIBES :
Please Record it we want to hear the this convo
2025-07-04 00:16:48
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crafting.mum.68 :
sounds like she's gonna find another way to feel angry and used whether they pay or not.
2025-06-28 11:09:12
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42315154djw :
30% interest rate. 😳
2025-07-01 18:30:13
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Tordenbolt :
If they pay. She will never have it. It will be endless conversations where thanks to her you have a house (never saying it was a loan but I'm playing she gave that money)
2025-06-27 16:46:52
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Karma101 :
My father in law did this to me after my husband died. $165,000 for farm improvements and he took it off his taxes with the depreciation. 5 years after the gift he wanted paid back. Even admitted it was a gift.
2025-06-29 02:48:14
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