Steph | Attachment Specialist
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Laurakristin :
He said some extremely awful disrespectful things that can’t be taken back. I know my worth. I’m done abandoning myself. It’s over.
2025-06-28 00:27:15
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Paul :
I am that husband. I did pm you about it…I didnt realize certain things. She is burnt out and I am trying to save it. Even going to therapy. I just fear it’s to late but I am doing what I can through the anxiety of it all
2025-06-27 21:24:33
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🖤🥀brooke🥀🖤 :
I broke up with him for good 2 days ago🥰
2025-06-28 02:48:54
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Kim :
how would you explain this to the other person because I'm honestly just to damn burnt out
2025-06-28 18:08:23
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YoTbone :
Well when I put the attention back on myself I then became the one that was acting weird 😒. Can’t win for losing
2025-06-28 18:57:49
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wickedwren82 :
By the time we got into couples therapy I had already felt so much liberation in no longer pursuing him. I started leaving the relationship emotionally and we have been in therapy over a year and I just now am feeling like I actually want to stay in the marriage but it will never be like it was. I will never be that person again. I will never abandon myself again to pursue him.
2025-06-28 16:30:44
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emminerv :
I asked CHATGPT why I motivate my partner and give my all to them and not myself, even when I get burnt out. It said there’s a wall between my actions and my self motivations.
2025-06-28 03:04:46
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Kara-Lynn :
This is who I was, and I realized it. I realized no amount of effort and care was going to get it back. So I stopped. Completely. And that hasn’t done anything either.
2025-06-28 18:11:11
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Drana :
YUP. I was this person in my marriage. I finally begged for a divorce. It wasn’t until then that he understood what he had done. I was just SO done. My current relationship is the complete opposite
2025-06-28 13:45:50
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zanasasman :
She’s not far off I was exactly like this.
2025-06-27 21:04:34
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Cossete_81 :
I was so burnt out and left the relationship years ago. but now im so scarred to try again. Im scared for myself, that I might be that woman again
2025-06-28 08:51:17
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Stepharoonie :
I want to stay married, but I’m so burnt out and when he try’s I get the ick. He’s said so many things and done unimaginable things.. I just can’t get rid of that in my mind. Anyways I signed up.. what do I do next? I need the course for not abandoning myself anymore 💜💜💜
2025-08-02 03:54:19
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Jasmine Courtney :
I’ve never felt more seen and understood in my life.. thank you so much. Heading over to the link now! Like seriously, you have no idea the switch you just flipped on my brain!
2025-08-27 14:21:07
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hemmaj3 :
I am 100% the burnt out pursuer terrified to end our 33 year marriage and terrified to stay in it fornthe rest of my life. Anxious attachment married a anxious avoidant!
2025-08-08 01:44:42
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Emz ✨ :
I've gotten to this point but I know its not that he doesn't care he just struggles to listen and I have to pick up all the important things and have to be the one to remind him of everything. It's exhausted me but ik he's not doing it on purpose he just struggles but I now have resentment and idk how to fix it
2025-06-28 22:41:04
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Makow080813 :
I was 💯 supposed to see this. girl, you are speaking to my heart 😭💔❤️🩹
2025-06-28 13:45:50
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Nilsa Carroll, MT-BC :
I filed for divorce. Cause once I stopped over functioning they were MAD as heck.
2025-09-12 15:56:48
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wenzie :
I feel like I related to what you were saying when I first followed you, but you trigger how fast and loud my own mom spoke to me. your advice is really an epiphany but triggers😭😭😭
2025-06-27 21:08:52
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josealvarez111111 :
15 years she never said anything no communication now all of sudden Im the bad guy who never saw her hints im a man I dont read people you would have to actually communicate and tell me .
2025-06-29 05:06:08
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urscoobysnack1022🇨🇴 :
This is exactly where I am right now
2025-06-29 11:12:21
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Dae :
This is me in every relationship. I guess I have a type, but it does start to make you wonder if maybe you really are asking too much. My current relationship is much better than past ones, but sometimes he "checks out." He takes care of me but sometimes feels distant. And I don't really feel like there's something wrong unless I'm hormonal which really makes me feel crazy. Yet also I think maybe just the instability of my moods when I'm hormonal amplifies existing problems, so I simultaneously feel like my feelings are valid and invalid. We are both survivors of traumatic relationships with narcissists. I have had some therapy but need more, I don't think he's had any at all but is not opposed to it. Poor guy is "co-parenting" with a narcissist actively.
2025-08-08 13:00:11
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Maria Brantley :
Is there any hope in your marriage if this happened bc the cringe and not wanting it anymore idk how to overcome that
2025-06-30 14:42:02
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Fuego :
what do you do when dealing with a person that expects change but refuses to change themselves?
2025-06-29 05:40:26
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Meatball :
What's crazy is I never realized there was actually terms for all of this. I broke up with my fiancee a year ago, and it was exactly this. A couple month before the breakup I even told him outright I was no longer chasing him. He told me after it ended he didn't think I had been serious. WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?!
2025-07-16 08:55:17
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