@open.heart2023: It’s crazy how in the UK, something as serious and painful as domestic violence is actually used against mothers by social services. You’d think that if a woman finds the strength to escape abuse or even just speaks up, that she’d be protected, supported. But no — instead, she gets questioned: Why didn’t you leave sooner? Why did you stay? Why didn’t you protect your child? And if she does leave? Why did you disrupt your child’s life? It’s like no matter what you do, they twist it. And here’s the worst part — instead of targeting the abuser, they go after the mother. They say the child is “at risk of emotional harm,” not because of the man who caused the harm, but because the mum didn’t somehow magically stop it. So they remove the child… from the safest person they have. It’s not about helping families — it’s about control. And they use domestic violence as a weapon, a loophole, an excuse to remove kids, even from the ones fighting to protect them. Nobody talks about that enough. But it’s real. And it’s happening every day. @Rebecca @rpscripted

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nell_e68
Nell_E68 :
Social services don't care about children, I grew up in the system, they don't help any child 😡
2025-06-28 20:32:10
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broganspencer
Brogan Spencer :
This is not always the case because I am here living this and they don’t just take the children without strong evidence and also they offer support to the mother and look at how they can support the mother. If the mother takes the abuser back then yes the children are at risk and could be taken by social. But I know this is not always the case too every situation is different cxx
2025-06-30 07:17:32
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amylouise2612
amylouise2612 :
This happened to me 💔 I’ve been trying for years to get them home and they say because they have been in the system to long they can’t come home , I have regular contact with my children but breaks my heart
2025-08-26 23:49:50
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xxxxcharleighxxxx
xxxxcharleighxxxx :
this is why many woman don't speak and suffer years of abuse 😭😭😭😭
2025-06-30 07:11:07
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__shiggles
__shiggles :
They tend to only intervene with the children like this if it looks like the abused partner keeps letting the abuser back in the home after documented incidents. It’s not ideal, seeing as it takes folks on average 7 attempts to leave their abusers.
2025-06-30 04:25:10
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jc80456
Jessy :
but they are not safe what if the abuser returns also, even if kids are not in same room whilst DV is present, they can sense it. v sad for the mom though ❤️❤️
2025-06-29 19:06:19
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lisa.marie889
Lisa Marie :
social services are the most corrupt organisation going 🤬🤬
2025-06-30 12:13:19
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tamnova21
tamnova21 :
This happened to me 💔 It's been 3 years since a seen them. Social is corrupt. 😭 We survive We open up then we lose the only reason we was surviving.🙏 DV doesn't make somone a bad mum or dad 😭🙏 F the system!
2025-08-03 11:15:10
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privateuserapple
privateuser :
If a woman puts her children at risk then sw will intervene! Children are impacted psychologically by DV.
2025-06-29 20:25:34
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talula.shoreditch
Talula Shoreditch :
They ignore the ones who have been abused they side with the abuser and take children away from the mother who did everything to protect the child!! The family court system is just as bad as social services.
2025-06-30 06:47:31
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k3survivor
🌳🌸🌻KJ🌻🌸🌳 :
Luckily my experience wasn’t like this they did not take my children they bailed my ex after very serious charges social services has worked with me
2025-06-29 17:36:24
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ddmakingnoise
DDmakingnoise :
Hate disguised as protection
2025-06-28 18:10:04
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deryn_ellen
Deryn_ellen :
Social services are the BIGGEST ABUSERS in England
2025-06-30 12:55:40
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jessjaneperfectk9paws
K9 Perfect Paws Worldwide🌐 🐾 :
social services really helped me my boys dad put a 🔫 to my head in front of the children 4 years on he still keeped on social helped me work with police to get him sent down ,moved ect they never taken my boys
2025-06-29 20:59:20
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notsoperfectsophie
sophiejayne :
social services are corrupted child traffickers. they protect the wrong people and make victims suffer.
2025-07-01 07:30:37
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hayleyselinacox
Hayley Selina Cox :
My advice to anyone going through this. Don’t sign anything they ask you to. Especially signing kids over
2025-06-30 04:36:34
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karinafleming139
karinafleming139 :
I was actually supported by social services and IDVa,it was annoying being under child protection order and going to meetings but they helped me to get out
2025-07-12 20:39:51
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ambermortimer2024
ambermortimer2024 :
They can’t remove your kids without a police protection order or a court order stating removal
2025-07-13 01:00:06
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clairehillhouse
Claire Hillhouse Fra :
this is punishing the victim once again
2025-06-29 22:49:21
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wtfybarnes
Glitch :
Please don't scare people out of reporting. I've been through it twice and SS we're nothing short of amazing when helping me and my daughter. This situation is rare.
2025-06-30 08:57:32
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jesse310793
Jesse :
that's what social services did to me and then gave him the children and said I didn't leave soon enough and my priorities weren't in the right place for the children! then said he has more support from his family because he moved in with his parents
2025-07-15 09:04:09
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christisking0151
Unknown10121 :
This happens to Men on daily throughout the family court SAF
2025-07-19 15:40:56
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sarahsmiles31
sarahj260 :
This wasn’t the case for me they provided me a safe house and rehoused me and my babies and helped me and my baby’s stay safe x
2025-06-30 21:51:56
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kayleighmariex94
KaymarieX :
I feel they genuinely ignore those who need the intervention and target mum’s who genuinely want better for there kids
2025-06-29 08:07:14
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