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Gahgah :
That isn't venting that is emotional dumping.
2025-07-27 03:36:07
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sacredandhearth :
Ended a friendship cuz of this so now she’s doing a smear campaigns on me lol
2025-08-24 01:11:24
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kristia :
that's not true a friend should be there for you even at your lowest but if they get fatigued they can tell you with a nice way that you know I think you're overly dependent on me you should be relying on yourself more because I'm not going to help you but feeling tired and you know thinking that friendship is about having fun no that's very superficial
2025-07-21 00:48:03
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k :
Let your friends talk things out and it should be a two way street. But trauma dumping isn’t a thing for good friendships as good boundaries exist. Let your friends speak if they need to
2025-06-28 20:44:34
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Simran :
The lightbulb moment is when you realize 99% of your friendship is just them venting and trauma dumping
2025-07-25 05:21:49
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Mrs. DD :
its actually exhausting af
2025-06-29 02:01:18
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Tonya48 :
Before I vent to a friend I always ask how their emotional frame of mind is. They may be going through it at that moment. So I always ask permission to vent.
2025-07-20 14:44:33
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strawbiesorbet :
The issue isn’t venting, or “not being there🥺”, you will find out when your entire worth and entire being to someone is based around how you can serve them. Once a friendship doesn’t even feel like two equals, and they instead feel like someone in your care, it goes beyond “being there”.
2026-07-25 03:28:48
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user3337282401144 :
Yes, but you also have to tell your friend that they talk too much about themselves. Just a quick hey I feel like we’ve spent a lot of our time talking about you. Apparently, I was doing this to a friend and she never told me, but she told other people in the friend group and it really hurt.
2025-08-10 23:36:37
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JP :
I had to learn that I can’t always rely on my friends to be my emotional support. Because sometimes they be dealing with they own stuff and you don’t want to add on to there problems. It’s ok to support your friends but there should always be a limit.
2025-07-02 09:08:36
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Noodley Ones :
partly why I don't really vent to anyone not even about my own problem not matter how much they say "I'm here to listen. I'm here for you to talk to"
2025-07-30 14:31:36
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R..🇨🇦 :
so true!! dropped a lot of women because it's my free time too, why would I want to spend my free time on problems? I wanna have fun and laugh
2025-06-28 17:55:35
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spanishfly126 :
this is why I dont even vent any of my problems at all even any disagreements with my husband, nothing
2025-08-09 19:43:28
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𝕽𝖊𝖉 | 🖤🕸️🗡️🎶⚫️ :
I will journal and pray instead of dumping my problems on my friends. Sometimes venting is ok, but it’s definitely shouldn’t be a constant pattern. Cause it does get old fast!
2025-06-28 21:14:49
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janesepenticosoprano :
Is there some tangible advice on how to start not answering the weekly (looong) phone calls? I feel so bad just not answering, but it’s so freaking draining and I dread it every week.
2025-08-10 22:28:09
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da_lasbokmark✨📚🤎⚜️🇺🇸 :
Literally draining 😩…like I don’t even want to pick up the phone for them!
2025-10-15 00:55:03
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camila 🌹 🦢🧜♀️ 🕯 :
This is why I can’t answer calls bc everyday I am surviving and don’t wanna put that onto them.
2025-10-04 03:18:24
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⊹ ݁˖ 𝓈𝒾𝒸𝒾𝓁𝓎͏ 🪷 :
I’m trying to get out of an abusive situation, I am so grateful for them listening and being there for me
2025-06-28 22:42:46
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kalmmosaic :
Ppl think it’s ok if ur a therapist / trained for it :/ but if yo change it with any go professional they’d be seen as users my dad is a plumber if his friends considered him the “plumber friend” he’d feel like shit and not talk to them anymore so why is it expected for psych friends to over extend themselves :/
2025-09-10 14:08:59
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Em :
Is it trauma dumping if I say something and then change the subject z
2025-07-30 10:04:05
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CharChar The Cat :
Fatigued of you! Adopting this! Even my abusive mean family members. I’m fatigued!! I’m no contact
2025-08-17 00:24:58
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_himani.kala_ :
That’s one thing I made a mistake on and I realize that and I wasn’t trying to take advantage of that I was having a difficult time at the time but I didn’t mean to do that like that tbh
2025-08-19 14:15:37
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Sara Byron :
I knew my BPD friend was done with me because she starting only doing this, and then just stopped talking to me. She found a new shiny toy, lol
2025-08-24 13:43:17
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