@tellthebeees: Original video by @Bre DeShon and @Miriam ! #tellthebeees #situationship #dating #nytimes #theatlantic #LoveIsland #materialists #thematerialists #hinge #datingapps #tinder
The language of the show, "You are now single and vulnerable" is so insidious.
2025-06-29 00:22:54
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Jeane’ | Living Well :
She’s right. You could put 10,000 hours into dating and end up worse off by being traumatized. But if you put 10,000 hours into anything else - cooking, reading, school, a career, working out etc. you’ll be better off than when you started.
2025-06-29 04:31:11
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Cayla :
I love applying a sociologist lense towards everything, thank you!!
2025-06-28 20:24:44
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Erica Ifill :
I think dating apps ruined relationships by giving ppl the veneer of continuous options, of being more attractive than they really are, and gamified relationships so they can’t nurture relationships
2025-06-28 22:12:42
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Alyssa :
It’s the PHONES! It’s social media. Even if you aren’t on dating apps, social media has become default dating apps so you’re forced to play a game.
2025-06-28 22:19:31
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Taller_than_thou :
I stopped calling them situationships - it’s a relationship even if it’s a short one. People need to stop letting each other off the hook, with no sense of responsibility.
2025-06-29 03:04:07
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Rachel 🩷 :
The producers of love island came out and said they actually had trouble finding male contestants lol not because men weren’t signing up but because of their behaviours and morals
2025-06-29 15:30:17
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Aurora Whimsy :
I’m white and wealthy. I married a poor man. Took care of him. Paid for everything. He cheated on me with my best friend.
2025-06-29 02:55:18
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Thepeoplesprincess :
For women on dating apps, there isn’t even the illusion of endless options. There are almost no options. When I was on the apps, I could scroll through the entire stack and swipe right on maybe 3 guys. There are no options on apps.
2025-06-28 23:12:55
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💡 :
A lot of the current love island cast are in the age bracket where quarantine would have overlapped with their high school/college developmental years
2025-06-29 00:04:20
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Lopa :
To me reality tv is literally just a sociology study
2025-06-29 05:11:00
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Tony Elek :
It’s that dam phone
2025-06-29 02:58:37
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merry :
what's crazy is that almost none of the islanders have ever had real relationships. most said that they've never really dated or been in love. they have NO experience making deep romantic connections with others
2025-06-28 22:55:45
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🌻 :
It’s not only in America. It’s also here in South Africa. So I will assume we have a dating market crises globally
2025-06-29 08:18:31
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Danimal :
Nonchalant epidemic omg so true
2025-07-01 23:36:38
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Tomiko nais spa :
I need to study sociology 😭 it's fascinating to see social dynamics be broken down in this type of way. For anyone who's done it, is it hard & should I do it
2025-06-29 16:13:11
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joshie :
was the dating scene ever actually GOOD on a macro scale? were men ever emotionally mature, caring partners on a large scale? i don't think the toxicity of the dating world is a new phenomenon
2025-06-30 15:49:49
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jadebanks777 :
Thank youuuuu
2025-06-29 15:05:26
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libby :
YES
2025-07-08 23:07:43
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SpiralTrails :
self optimization
2025-07-08 06:13:04
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Philly :
so true!!!
2025-06-29 14:10:02
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Nick :
I’m trying to learn how to be heartless and nonchalant. Yeah, I’m letting the whole world burn.
2025-06-29 20:19:20
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Ddubbs :
I hate how we always center men in conversations about the loneliness epidemic
2025-06-29 05:16:15
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Shelb :
The UK season is like this too🙄
2025-06-29 17:09:48
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