please don’t stop. you’ve helped me and so many others 🥹🤍
2025-06-30 11:37:10
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c :
you’re so right, why should you choose to let him have access to you when he CHOSE to remove you from his life? He lives everyday making the conscious decision not to reach out so why should you msg him on his special day just to give him that validation and attention he needs!!! You’re so strong 💕
2025-06-30 11:50:52
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Megan :
Please don’t stop sharing, I’m on day 9 after a break up after being together for 5 years. I appreciate your videos, they help me.
2025-07-02 23:38:28
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marinarasaucinnn :
It was his birthday yesterday & this gave me the clarity I was looking for. I also didn’t break no contact. Thank you ❤️
2025-06-30 13:57:13
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kaoswitkim :
my ex bday is in a few days I am saving this video to remind myself to choose me and not text him
2025-06-30 13:53:37
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RubyAna🫧 :
Thank you. I truly feel like I’ve found a friend in you and we have never met. During the hardest times you’ve shown me I can keep moving forward
2025-06-30 14:46:37
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BLANNCH :
thank you! my ex’s birthday will be in 2 weeks… but we won’t be even 2 months into the breakup by then.. I’ve been thinking about if I should text him to wish him HB because I feel if I don’t do it I will feel very miserable… but you’re right! I might regret that decision later 🥲 it’s time to choose myself!
2025-06-30 17:09:15
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Mélissa Caron :
Not me breaking « no contact » everytime… help😢
2025-06-30 11:57:42
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☆SAVANNAH DAWN ☆ :
Proud of you girl ✨
2025-06-30 13:58:36
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Maria starkin :
I’m so proud of you ❤️
2025-06-30 17:05:37
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Sunshine :
One year today I walked away in silence, I so wanted to break no contact today, but I didn't 💞
2025-07-19 03:48:13
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Silvana :
Proud of you
2025-06-30 12:35:29
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nellyel :
I didn't text my ex either on his n i doubt it mattered bucz I don't think it would have made a difference 💔
2025-06-30 12:55:57
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vdf996 :
I did it, and now thinking it wasn’t the best choice…
2025-06-30 12:11:58
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glizz25 :
Proud of you
2025-06-30 21:07:41
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Bianca :
Thank you for choosing you🥹🥰 you’re so strong and I’m very proud of you!
2025-06-30 11:51:34
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A :
Your doing so well girl ❤️
2025-06-30 13:55:06
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Savannahalexius 🪬 :
I really love this. This genuinely inspired me thank you.
2025-06-30 15:07:28
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HB :
Don’t contact them please
2025-07-01 06:10:58
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Tegan Wood :
So so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2025-06-30 19:14:40
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🌹Kathy/Kat🌹 :
Good for you girl! I was experiencing the same and I didn’t do it. I’m so happy with that decision. Good things are coming for us!
2025-06-30 19:46:12
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smilingnits :
You are right. Proud of you. We must never love someone more than we love ourselves. Choose you💯
2025-06-30 12:37:46
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Tash :
You are so strong!
2025-07-07 23:06:59
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Jenn Fluri :
Huge! ❤️Such a big step darling x
2025-07-01 06:48:19
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Ted :
Some people say messaging them will spoil there birthday because avoidant dont want to hear from you lol. Bonus!I’m with you though. No contact gives you personal power and who cares how they feel. I choose me too!
2025-06-30 21:45:34
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