@askvinh: As a man, I’ve been wired to fix. It’s become a reflex: Someone I love is hurting → solve the problem. And half the time? It lands. The other half? It frustrates them… or worse, makes them feel unheard and pissed off 🫣 One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned: Not everything broken needs fixing. Sometimes, the greatest gift isn’t a solution. Its presence. To sit with someone in their pain, without rushing it away. To hold space, not answers. It sounds too simple to matter. Too soft to be powerful. But in practice? It’s changed my relationships. It’s changed me.🥹 I hope this lesson helps you too ❤️ #communicationskills #communicationtips

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contact.adrien.dufour
Adrien Dufour :
the power of listening
2025-07-01 14:16:32
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richardeveritt
Richard Everitt :
Completely agree but how do you know when it’s listening and when it’s fixing without someone being explicit about what they want (they rarely do in the moment).
2025-07-01 17:17:35
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schmerz_jaeger
Stefan Jäger - Schmerzfrei :
I think this is one of the hardest things to do, especially as men. Great message. 👍
2025-07-03 17:18:51
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m8_sammy
M8_Sammy :
how do you know what they need without them explaining?
2025-07-17 22:44:22
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bigcharlie27
BigCharlie27 :
Im at that stage now with my wife.
2025-07-03 10:07:25
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sexy.yaa.papabi
SEXY YAA PAPABI 💓💓💓 :
Very powerful ❤️❤️It’s not all about being positive
2025-12-23 17:47:34
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diwasrai25
Diwas Rai :
damm, hit so hard
2025-09-06 14:36:16
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1nonly.benji
ƸƘッɃɆƝJł 🇱🇰 :
That is really true 🖤
2025-09-24 11:12:08
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chuu.paved
Chuu.paved :
That’s a real man.
2025-08-10 23:51:38
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wenz.salapuddin
Salapuddin wendy :
TAMA 🙏❤️
2025-07-01 23:37:00
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scoapps
scoapps :
The lesson is valid. Practicing it is so hard when most problems can be solved, or mitigated, or just doesn’t matter. Why wallow in the pain and distress when you don’t have to?
2025-08-10 17:09:38
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the.unretired.repo
The Unretired Reporter :
Strong presence… you’re more than enough
2025-08-03 04:44:20
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rocketgurl6
Rocket-Gurl :
Human touch is so healing- don’t mess it up with words. ♥️🙏♥️
2025-07-01 18:55:25
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thebibliophileland
𝐛𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐨𝐩𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐝 :
As a person who doesn't want to talk when I feel down,I'd really appreciate someone doing this to me just sitting next to me,making me feel the warmth of them and reminding me I'm not alone in this..
2025-09-20 11:29:09
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juancarlo.official
JC 🎩🌹 :
How about God?? Does God played a role during that time? or Is it just you? The music does not match. All I'm hearing is the letter "I"
2025-08-16 14:05:49
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hervisionvoicegrace
Bonny Muller :
You are absolutely right, in moment of silence we find one another by being a light for the next person ✨
2025-07-02 13:03:54
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michelles1528
Michelle's :
I came early 🥹
2025-07-01 14:11:23
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kirwinjordaan
kirwin :
🫡
2025-08-30 07:54:27
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sasak2024
MusaKonzani♥️🌹. :
🙏♥️
2025-07-12 20:19:29
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tenamuche375
Tena Muche :
😎
2025-07-06 01:23:29
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ismaster056
Abrar khan :
👌👌👌
2025-08-09 14:58:56
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tobygorniakmbe
Toby Gorniak MBE :
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
2025-07-03 07:21:44
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anzzthemyth
𝙏𝙝e Next :
‼️
2025-07-03 02:45:31
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sofievankrunkelve
Sofie Van Krunkelveldt :
😂
2025-07-02 20:40:20
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rocketgurl6
Rocket-Gurl :
♥️👏♥️
2025-07-01 18:54:21
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