@askvinh: As a man, I’ve been wired to fix. It’s become a reflex: Someone I love is hurting → solve the problem. And half the time? It lands. The other half? It frustrates them… or worse, makes them feel unheard and pissed off 🫣 One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned: Not everything broken needs fixing. Sometimes, the greatest gift isn’t a solution. Its presence. To sit with someone in their pain, without rushing it away. To hold space, not answers. It sounds too simple to matter. Too soft to be powerful. But in practice? It’s changed my relationships. It’s changed me.🥹 I hope this lesson helps you too ❤️ #communicationskills #communicationtips
Completely agree but how do you know when it’s listening and when it’s fixing without someone being explicit about what they want (they rarely do in the moment).
2025-07-01 17:17:35
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Stefan Jäger - Schmerzfrei :
I think this is one of the hardest things to do, especially as men. Great message. 👍
2025-07-03 17:18:51
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M8_Sammy :
how do you know what they need without them explaining?
2025-07-17 22:44:22
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BigCharlie27 :
Im at that stage now with my wife.
2025-07-03 10:07:25
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SEXY YAA PAPABI 💓💓💓 :
Very powerful ❤️❤️It’s not all about being positive
2025-12-23 17:47:34
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Diwas Rai :
damm, hit so hard
2025-09-06 14:36:16
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ƸƘッɃɆƝJł 🇱🇰 :
That is really true 🖤
2025-09-24 11:12:08
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Chuu.paved :
That’s a real man.
2025-08-10 23:51:38
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Salapuddin wendy :
TAMA 🙏❤️
2025-07-01 23:37:00
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scoapps :
The lesson is valid. Practicing it is so hard when most problems can be solved, or mitigated, or just doesn’t matter. Why wallow in the pain and distress when you don’t have to?
2025-08-10 17:09:38
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The Unretired Reporter :
Strong presence… you’re more than enough
2025-08-03 04:44:20
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Rocket-Gurl :
Human touch is so healing- don’t mess it up with words. ♥️🙏♥️
2025-07-01 18:55:25
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𝐛𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐨𝐩𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐝 :
As a person who doesn't want to talk when I feel down,I'd really appreciate someone doing this to me just sitting next to me,making me feel the warmth of them and reminding me I'm not alone in this..
2025-09-20 11:29:09
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JC 🎩🌹 :
How about God?? Does God played a role during that time? or Is it just you? The music does not match. All I'm hearing is the letter "I"
2025-08-16 14:05:49
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Bonny Muller :
You are absolutely right, in moment of silence we find one another by being a light for the next person ✨
2025-07-02 13:03:54
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Michelle's :
I came early 🥹
2025-07-01 14:11:23
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kirwin :
🫡
2025-08-30 07:54:27
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MusaKonzani♥️🌹. :
🙏♥️
2025-07-12 20:19:29
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Tena Muche :
😎
2025-07-06 01:23:29
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Abrar khan :
👌👌👌
2025-08-09 14:58:56
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Toby Gorniak MBE :
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
2025-07-03 07:21:44
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𝙏𝙝e Next :
‼️
2025-07-03 02:45:31
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Sofie Van Krunkelveldt :
😂
2025-07-02 20:40:20
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Rocket-Gurl :
♥️👏♥️
2025-07-01 18:54:21
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