Steph the Attachment Professor
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Thursday 03 July 2025 03:09:43 GMT
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janetolivares300 :
How about being so emotionally exhausted that you just don't want to work on trusting them again. Not necessarily mad just accepting that is how they are and who they are and no longer interested im connection. Is that essentially divorce?
2025-07-03 05:06:39
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doodleskull :
I'm not sure who needs to hear this but someone who recently ended a one-sided 'relationship', the fact that youre on this side of tiktok at all is a sign that your needs aren't being met and haven't been for a while. It's well past time to take control of the situation and move on. especially if the only thing you're losing is a shared history.
2025-07-03 14:34:05
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Just Jax ×͜× :
how about when you bring up the past that caused a lot of the resentment and they say you can't bring that up because it's too long ago?
2025-07-05 07:24:40
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willian :
my wife is in that position. im making noticeable changes and shes being really hot and cold. is there any hope for us?
2025-07-03 04:50:40
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happyphantom242000 :
I’ve been considering leaving my husband or maybe just separate, but I’m worried that my reasons aren’t good enough and I feel like I’m doing something wrong.
2025-07-07 13:52:58
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Lady Fomo :
It feels like it would be so much easier if someone could just tell me what to do tho
2025-07-03 17:24:47
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ChefStephanie :
I had to look... I could've written that 😢
2025-07-03 03:52:13
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Libby Stephens :
Myself is a bitter person who’s just tired of overthinking
2025-07-10 00:29:09
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user3813860309538 :
I’m emotionally exhausted as a burnt out purser. I have constantly been trying to get my husband on the same page for years. However he is also having mental health issues with severe depression and SI where he has been hospitalized for weeks. He says he hates himself and he would feel better about himself if I could work on building trust with him. I have for the past 8years essentially raised our 4 kids under 9 alone, managed all kids activities school and their own health issues two with disabilities on my own while he’s been disconnected. We are stuck. He’s tying his self worth in with my feelings for him/intimacy. I started trying to put myself first but I am burnt out and do not feel any motivation to make our relationship work. Any advice on how to navigate this?
2025-08-18 15:03:02
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Sunnykendra :
Have really like your videos. I can’t tell if I’m the one who made him log off… like how much accountability can I take? Sometimes I feel like I was so anxious I actively pushed him away and it’s my fault.
2025-07-03 03:54:41
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shaunawhitehorse :
everyday
2025-07-05 17:05:03
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Caitieboo :
🥹 thank you. Ending the cycle of self abandonment is exactly where I am at. I think I’m just learning to stand firm in my boundaries. At this point, I really don’t know what I need or want 🥴
2025-07-03 14:51:10
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Antiques and crying :
How long do you wait for a partner who has no capacity to be a partner at the moment to get the capacity? My partner keeps saying she doesn’t have the capacity to be there for me or be a good partner. I am so tired of waiting she thinks I am selfish
2025-07-07 06:41:27
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wildrose_naz :
Went through this too. It hurts every time I go back bc I’m completely disconnected.
2025-07-03 19:45:20
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Dingbat 🇨🇦🦫 :
So what does the avoidant attachment style person feel when the person sealer is burnt out? I had a relationship like this that I walked away from and I’m curious what the other person experienced on their end, because I don’t understand
2025-07-04 21:01:17
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puntific8 :
your passion and nerdiness about connection is so heart warming and relatable 🧡
2025-07-04 14:25:18
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Nonya :
How do you first make sure that you (the pursuer) aren’t just overthinking it or seeing problems where they don’t exist? Id there a way to change how you feel love to match what you’re getting instead of what you think you should have?
2025-08-10 14:22:00
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Trav :
how does one connect and attune to themselves?
2025-07-09 14:46:57
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Tatylin19 :
😭😭😭
2025-08-06 18:10:40
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hernandez_6018 :
😂
2025-07-07 17:54:31
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Chris :
I’m the partner who didn’t meet my wife’s needs for years. She finally said she was done and I’ve been on a real journey since Imperfect but genuine. I know I can’t make her want to try again. All I can do is keep changing stay present and meet her where she’s at. Your content is so validating for her side of this dynamic… But I’d really love to hear more for people in my position the partners who want to break the old pattern without trying to push or force. Is the academy right for me? And would you ever do content about how we can keep showing up respectfully changing for ourselves not just to win them back? Thanks for what you share it helps more than you know. (Now to do more deep dive on your content to see if missed this exact thing)
2025-07-03 21:53:23
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Kirstie :
Going through this now. For 8yrs since the birth of baby #1 my husband has chosen to prioritise work over family. 2yrs ago I tried to end it but gave him another chance. The cycle started again and a couple of months ago I detached. He’s now starting to wake up to change but I feel like I’m passed the point of no return. I know he loves me, but I just can’t seem to reconnect. What do I do? Give another chance or choose myself?! It’s heartbreaking. We have 2 young kids.
2025-07-03 14:34:51
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🧜🏻♀️ ☀️ Tianne ☀️ 🧜🏻♀️ :
I am a teacher, my husband is a nurse. We have been married 22 years. We have an 18 year old son with autiism/adhd/ODD and twin daughters that are 16 and neurotypical. My husband is 7 months out of rehab. Lots of things contributed to his PTSD and addiction. His job, hard parenting. I have supported him through the darkest times. I really want to save our marriage, but I feel like a burnt out pursuer. I’ve been using ChatGPT to help through my trauma. Your page resonates with me. Thank you
2025-07-04 22:20:34
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