Lisa Bunnage - Parenting Coach
Region: CA
Saturday 12 July 2025 13:55:00 GMT
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thought0ftheday :
Any advice for teens who are putting every disagreement into chatgpt which simply validates them (bc chatgpt is a mirror), and gives them a lot of psych speak that they then retort back to me 🙏🏻 i tried showing her how our chatgpts give us diff answers bc theyre both just taking our sides, but she keeps doing it and believing chatgpt sos
2025-07-22 13:33:04
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CE :
My daughter asked for pizza tonight. I said I will get you pizza if you watch a movie with me. She said she will starve tonight instead. I tried to negotiate!
2025-07-15 21:08:44
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LoveWarrior :
I'm in this strange place where I feel so deeply connected to my teenage self. I can remember exactly how I felt in certain moments with my parents, how BADLY I wanted to be heard, not controlled. Now that I’m a parent, I want to do things differently. But then my kids “talk back,”and I get triggered. Even though I KNOW they’re not trying to be rude, my brain still flips into that old programming I was raised with: “I’m the adult, that’s why,” or “Don’t talk back.” It’s frustrating because my heart TRULY understands them, but my nervous system reacts before I can catch myself. I hate that sometimes I end up mimicking my parents, especially knowing how much it hurt me back then. I don’t want to keep repeating that cycle. What are some ways to prevent that and change those aspectsof myself? We have SO little time with them & I want to positively utilize EVERY moment. ❤️
2025-07-14 21:45:08
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Ariel Paull :
I’m 40 and my parents still discuss the bad times
2025-07-14 16:16:48
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tuesdeethomson :
I want your clothes in the hamper from now on, what do you want from me? No im sorry. My 13 yr old knows if the clothes arent in her hamper they don’t get washed that’s what she’s getting from me, im doing the laundry.
2025-07-15 22:04:22
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🌷𝓚𝔂𝓵𝓲𝓮🌷 :
So mines 14 and got caught sneaking out of a friends house. She’s a good kid. This was a first for her. What punishment is best?
2025-07-15 17:46:47
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It’syerboi :
“They are going to make mistakes just like you did, and just like you DO.”
2025-07-13 03:29:43
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partyof8 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 :
I started these methods with my last 2 kids, learned by trial and error. my first 2 were so stressful, lots of fights and power struggles. with my second 2, we're like best friends they are honor roll students, work hard at their jobs, spend all their time with me instead of in their room. we never fight, just mutual respect. it's amazing
2025-07-13 14:00:30
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karengay8 :
My dad used to tell me to keep making mistakes now, because when you get older the stakes will be higher. Learn from your mistakes now.
2025-07-12 23:24:00
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Amy :
I would give everything I own and then some to be back in the sleepless newborn phase or the toddler trenches. I HATE this teenager phase. HATE!!!!
2025-07-15 13:56:45
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Bessi :
so how do I help my partner and daughter [14] they fight constantly and about everything. partner comes home and expodes almost everyday . my daughter cries so much because of him
2025-08-20 18:50:58
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00 :
Uhm.. No negotiations as SOUTH AFRICAN parent we do things differently believe me
2026-08-01 13:53:10
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Brittany Land :
This is refreshing. Also, affirms I. doing things ✨right✨ 💅
2025-07-14 21:42:55
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amberlyfeathers :
I wish my husband would let up on our oldest. He doesn’t see that he is causing the wall. 😢
2025-07-14 22:50:51
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TheBlondeRecluse :
Past is the past, lets move forward!
2025-07-15 06:12:17
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Mrs.Allen :
Anytime my mom brought up something I did as a teenager I felt horrible.
2025-07-19 15:44:18
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Sarah :
My teenager is highly independent but sometimes a level 5 clinger who wants to be to no more than 1 ft away from me a tell me everything. I had a horrible relationship with my mom as a teen so everyday is uncharted territory but I love it!
2025-07-15 06:59:17
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SDC :
ive done this with my kids and weve got a pretty peaceful house and mutual respect but my oldest is so unmotivated. What do you recommend to help him with failure to launch?
2025-07-14 14:47:55
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Sadie :
Solid advice, as always. I really enjoyed the teen years. It was clear they’d be moving on to their adult lives soon & I welcomed the late night conversations.
2025-07-13 04:03:25
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Sarah K :
talk to me about accountability? if we can't bring anything negative up ever, how do they learn to be accountable?
2025-08-31 18:37:55
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bakerrach :
I love your energy however I loathe these years. I am not happy with them at all. This does not bring me joy. Every time we turn around they’re doing some garbage that validates our concerns …I have no trust in these kids. Living with people you don’t trust? Kind of my worst nightmare.
2025-09-28 21:55:19
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Dream Reality :
How about screentime?
2025-08-21 10:38:23
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Christina McIntosh-Sykes :
what do I do when teenager keeps skipping school. he know the rules go to school.
2025-08-19 20:51:23
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Cole :
I have a 13yr old and this is great advice. Im going to use this.
2026-01-16 18:25:52
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