Steph the Attachment Professor
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Mushyroommush :
I am the burnt out pursuer ending the relationship 🙃
2025-07-15 11:51:45
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ColdDrakeQueen :
I don’t trust it. He will backslide as soon as he gets his needs met again. It’s not about me or the relationship at all. It’s all about his comfort. He only noticed a problem when he wasn’t pampered anymore.
2025-07-04 13:47:58
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Emily :
He’s making changes but I am checked out and don’t want it anymore. I don’t know what to do. Give it more time or leave :(
2025-08-30 22:33:25
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JustSandra :
I don’t want him to chase me anymore. I want to be let go.
2025-07-04 06:12:47
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ZoeticKev :
I started doing the work but she wouldn’t stay and fight for us. She left and started dating someone else the same week. I don’t blame her cause I was so dysregulated but she threw away 4 years without us trying together.
2025-07-04 14:29:51
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chainsawpants :
and they are looking this up the night before divorce hearings
2025-07-06 19:12:33
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el :
or you can just say you're done chasing the partner 🙃
2025-07-04 01:36:30
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Jim Buss :
This is exactly what I’m working on now. You are right on the money. Thank you
2025-07-04 03:21:16
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cerelean blue :
So I have one for you. What about the man who will completely ignore you who will literally tell you the neighbors and whoever is more important than you will break his neck to get you whatever it is that you ask for it doesn’t do huggy huggy Kissy Kissy stuff
2025-07-05 22:57:59
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Tinybloomco :
Does it matter if you don’t feel like you love them anymore because it’s so broken/so much resentment and pursuance of an avoidant type eg years? With time and commitment does that come back?
2025-07-04 19:47:21
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Marwan Unsupervised :
“Burnt out pursuer” —- that explains my first marriage. I have heard that phrase before.
2025-07-05 06:08:21
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Your mom 🆘🇺🇸 :
The timing couldn’t be more perfect with this post. Thank you!!
2025-07-03 22:53:43
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LiLuigi :
Honestly, the repairs have been asked for repeatedly. I am planning my escape. But this honestly does provide good advice on what to do even before the ending as well.
2025-07-06 05:39:55
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Litany :
This video is my hail Mary 😥 let's see if it makes it or breaks it
2025-08-16 02:54:35
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Sky_the_dumbass :
I just want to be wanted, I dont feel desired, im always initiating everything, making plans, always asking for attention, im just tired of feeling like a lost dog, and I just want him to understand that if he loves me he has to actually do it, and if he doesnt then dont lie to me over and over
2025-07-28 20:07:16
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Notesbygg :
Oof my “husband” intellectualizes every thing. He’s very good at talking and understanding and saying what needs to be said. In my case, he must act. I’ve told him what I need until I’m hoarse. I’m done. The only possible way back is to do the things I’ve asked. Therapy. Stop the victimhood. Focus on himself. Stop using me as his validation. Stop avoiding and burying his head in the sand. Do SOMETHING.
2025-08-15 23:17:23
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Josie W :
So what if your partner is a burnt out pursuer but they cheated… working through it is feeling twice as difficult because I feel equally as hurt but and need my own repair…
2025-07-22 16:00:41
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Sparkles :
I have 12 days before they move. HELP
2025-07-05 23:33:19
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Den Gard :
“Reality Consensus” interesting terminology. The absence of “empathy in action” is what caused the burn out. There’s no hidden switch to magically flip to trust a partner suddenly willing to connect.
2026-03-23 08:35:55
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Ana Garcia :
Do you already have the video on how to move past and maybe even forgive after the resentment?
2025-07-28 04:07:33
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lablov :
This could take yeeeaaarsss. It yes you’re 100% correct here
2025-07-11 22:58:24
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