@sabidoodl: this made me sad

bripahm :

Talking about sensitive things over text is possibly the most L move a couple could do. There is no nuance when there is no tone. A person on the defensive could easily take it wrong and then twist it on you. Never ever talk about hard things through text. In person or phone call

jakaiy :

One thing that I needed to learn was the persons love language and actually understand it, I used to think people that had a gift giving LL were materialistic and only cared about gifts and it really showed me the wrong perspective but over time it took me a lot of acknowledging and understanding about all the love languages to know how wrong I was. Communication is key but it falls apart if you don’t understand the motive of how they act

Omar Ramos :

Feeling like ur doing ur best and it not being enough always sucks

michelle <3 :

it’s like ure in my notes app + i’ve never had an original thought 😭

🍚 :

“For the most part I feel like less than a friend to you” I do not wish this on my worst enemy

⋆𐙚tinnie :

they don’t always even have to agree with it all but at most, understand it. and even when they do, nothing changes. sigh.

Brian :

The effort you give will be returned.. one day❤️‍🔥

joemomma :

it is what it is

iceuu :

Been there before

sophiaofthevalley :

i’ve literally been in the exact position, sending you love 🫶

JayDadddyyy :

I’ve given myself away so much that I feel like theirs nothing left to give.😔 I’ve just stayed single for the past 5years because I feel like my emotional attachment & chronic depressive episodes are just too much for anyone to have to deal with😔

🤤Dr.Pepper🤤 :

t1kt0kw4tch3r1234 :

Holy shit we are going through the exact same thing, everything you articulated in those texts is exactly how I felt in my recent relationship. I’m so sorry you deserve someone who loves loudly

Lelu Dallas :

walk the Eight Fold path and focus on what is needed, not what is wanted

Brian :

This probably isn’t the correct time, but your black hair is wow 👍 also hope you feel better cuh

🦦Foody🦦 :

U don’t deserve this u deserve a man that treats u how ur intended to be with care and love and given all the love and make u feel special than u already are

DanielRabaca123 :

Oh to still think/love about them, even tho you weren't treated right, the worst feeling, I still went back after 6 months 🫣

TriAce :

suprised that spotify/lyrics sharing is something I like to do too and funny how I yearn to do em in the comments to counter those tunes you post 🤣

Ryan Dang :

you good g?

Randy Phraviseth :

wow

TriAce :

"If You Love Her" - Forest Blakk (if she ever give any1 of yall a chance 😴✌🏽)

mrstealyoho808 :

I don’t show love like the guy she’s referring to I just can’t do it I don’t do cute nick names or songs or cutesy stuff like that is this bad. I had this sane convo happen to me about showing love but it’s not in me to do so I show love through physical actions like dates not little cutesy stuff

☧.Gabriel ✞🇻🇦 :

sadidoodle time guys

calcifer_dev :

All of that for someone to hit you with a K

Jomi :

Self care is the best care