They are testing your “tolerable level of unhappiness”.
2025-07-05 20:28:23
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Cleanslate :
AN APOLGY WITHOUT CHANGED BEHAVIOR IS MANIPULATION.
2025-07-06 19:15:58
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Miranda :
Normalize leaving for a small reason
2025-07-06 15:00:03
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WhatAmIGonnaSay? :
Its not that they dont realize, its that they DO NOT CARE.
2025-07-06 17:52:32
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bread :
The biggest wake up call was realizing that this man is COMFORTABLE with seeing me unhappy and sad. And in fact making active DECISONS to purposely do the things that bothered me to disempower me and keep me down.
2025-07-07 23:04:47
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lejla :
that’s the craziest part is they will apologize a hundred times for the same thing. i told him don’t be sorry, do better. i finally left.
2025-07-06 14:55:56
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Daizy :
let's not pretend they don't understand. give them a accountability.
2025-07-07 17:30:05
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frolowrj :
they understand. they don't care
2025-07-06 16:55:59
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Nahiyan :
If heartbreak is a storm,this book Tracing Back to Myself by Nina Cole is the lighthouse Thank you for writing what so many of us needed!
2025-07-06 08:22:57
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ladylx__ :
That’s why you always Leave the first time
2025-07-07 22:40:07
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Jos452 :
The only correct apology is changed behavior
2025-07-06 19:46:19
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Jessica :
They know they just don’t care.
2025-07-06 21:07:35
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user3621641589825 :
It is disrespecting you and your boundaries. I allowed it for years and became resentful and bitter. Leave at the first occurrence!
2025-07-06 14:53:55
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🖤𝕹𝖎𝖐𝖆⚔️ :
I was stuck in this cycle for so long.
2025-07-07 11:18:54
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kelly_kel_lee :
It’s made me freaking HATE when he says sorry. Because it’s supposed to make ME change but not him.
2025-07-07 15:06:37
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Sm06 :
Their words mean nothing
2025-07-13 05:02:06
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momichii :
i've got so much resentment in my heart because of this particular behavior. it's so stressful
2025-07-18 02:45:57
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lifeinfocuswithsuttida :
And staying = you are enabling their behavior while abandoning yourself
2025-07-13 04:50:41
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Evermore Keepsakes :
They DO know, they DO realise, they just don’t care. Please don’t waste your time thinking “if only I can make him realise” because he already does, but you’re staying so he has no reason to change it.
2025-07-10 12:55:10
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Erica 💗 :
it's a test. they'll keep doing it as long you allow it. the response is you're supposed to leave.
2025-07-06 21:02:01
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Aho 🐦🔥 :
Look at the comment section : it was never you the problem - it’s systemic.
2025-07-10 12:24:56
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Kaitlyn Shrove :
At the end of an 8 cycle of this. It’s tough. Even now I’m like “is this it? Am I really leaving?” But I definitely need to. Nothing changes.
2025-07-06 00:42:38
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skippidy☆sibby :
It's always someone else's fault 😭💀
2025-07-08 11:26:18
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Tammy Meikle :
They understand how unhappy they are making you feel they don’t care.
2025-07-06 20:33:08
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