Katerina
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akolangpows :
how do i know if it's my avoidant attachment or if i just dont like them
2025-07-30 13:52:16
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Athame :
I’m autistic and a fearful avoidant. It’s actually awful.
2025-07-28 01:22:07
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carrrrlz :
i’m completely fine for the first 2-3 months, and then i go lowkey insane but can’t explain or communicate what’s happening because i truly feel like they’re not safe
2025-07-10 05:43:53
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jellyboopc :
I’m unhealed as helllllll LOL
2025-07-11 11:08:03
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katy.lar777 :
I’m a fearful avoidant, and I almost always sabotage relationships once we get close. I told my therapist that as soon as I get attached I feel possessed lol- I feel so triggered, trapped, and unsafe. It sucks!
2025-07-09 03:54:59
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user8076947484295 :
fearful avoidants somehow gain some sympathy from me even after they leave. dismissive avoidants get none.
2025-07-09 08:20:37
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glor._.iouslee :
How do I fix this
2025-07-07 16:59:56
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Analisa :
Is he love bombing or am I just an avoidant?!
2026-04-21 03:37:15
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Tanya 🇫🇮🇺🇦 :
I’ve promised myself to talk it out with my therapist before cutting anyone off because I can’t even keep friends atp
2025-07-14 06:09:11
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AshleyLikeANormalPerson :
This happens to me at 6 weeks and 12 weeks ON. THE. DOT. If I can get past 12 weeks I’m usually ok
2025-07-09 21:56:09
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Nancyyy :
Is this play about me?
2026-05-15 22:58:06
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Tarni Jay :
I think I was an anxious attachment style for a long time, I now feel like it’s turned into fearful avoidance after years of being hurt. Im struggling with it atm, am I just overthinking and self sabotaging something good?? Or is he just going to hurt me like everyone else
2025-07-31 04:46:40
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Meh ^•-•^ :
Me seeing this now and realising that that how I acted with my crushes…
2026-01-09 08:55:02
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The Bearded Womble :
I did this back in May, and she left. Now I'm in therapy trying to work through it. I don't want to do this anymore, it hurts like hell.
2025-07-15 13:06:57
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BidFogz :
Can they be in a relationship while also working on themselves? Mine keeps telling me he can’t cause he’s not happy with himself yet
2025-08-11 16:57:37
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cassie ཐི༏ཋྀ :
can confirm ive done this every single time ive had feelings for someone who also expressed interest in me, without fail
2025-07-09 17:19:23
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syxiinfsh :
My ex of only 3 months is like this. I'm the one who recognises this pattern of his. I'm unsure if he realises it. I try to rationalise his actions + understand it. We broke up, but still in contact as we trying to work it through. I'm someone that's anxious to secure. Most part of me feels calm but another part of me feels like being on rollercoaster when he activates my anxious attachment. His love for me is genuine but, I need advices on how he needs to heal so we can grow as couple
2025-08-13 22:09:26
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malibumocktailonmars :
Why I felt so much in love for 3 months and now that he finally acknowledge his feelings I feel suffocating and numb, lacking affection towards him ?
2025-07-15 06:42:19
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Dreki :
Dated a fearful avoidant last year. Got on so well but she ghosted me and said insecurities got to her bad. Ghosted again after family emergency. 6 months of silence and I think she’s healing? We’re slowly reconnecting and she’s being very cautious.
2025-07-10 02:47:59
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Elaira :
I had someone literally tell me “the vulnerability unearthed some unhealed trauma. I’m sorry.” and then he just still went off to act unhealed and ran. He knew better. It feels even worse than someone who isn’t aware.
2025-07-09 22:43:31
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naradila :
Do fearful avoidants get FOMO? He’s constantly pushing the brake pedal but also always lurking on social media. One time I removed my WhatsApp picture, he thought he was blocked and lost access, and immediately made a grand gesture to lure me back. But once access is re-established and we’re getting intimate, he would be distant and cold again.
2025-07-08 23:53:27
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CLEM 🍊 :
I only trust content from healed/healing fearful avoidants cause theres so much misinformation abt us so thank you for sharing that 🥺💗
2025-07-30 00:10:16
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Lu :
put it on his fyp
2025-07-26 15:24:41
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Elora :
Im my case he has started to be “busy” for me I was his last priority, his feelings started to “fading away” and he said that was the wrong timing for us after a year and the best was break up … when everything was going really nice… so painful
2025-07-21 07:39:52
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