Oh yes. I lost my mom 9 months ago, and I often find myself wishing I could go back to the period of time after it had just happened and I was allowed to sit and be with those feelings— the same ones I feel now— without shame or judgment. If I could go back in time I would have been so much more dramatic about losing my mom. Would’ve quit my job and gone on a solo trip just to be fully encompassed in the emotions without any interruption. Hindsight. Thank you for this. 🤍
2025-07-09 00:43:45
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Katie Cerak :
From very early on, I would tell my therapist that I was terrified of “feeling better”. The deep grief felt tangible, something I could hold on to. I’ve started to have that heaviness lessen and it makes me grieve in a different way. Grief is so odd and so personal. Thank you for sharing.
2025-07-09 04:50:21
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The Outlier :
I’ve just recently found your channel, and now your videos come up on the time on my feed. I just wanted to thank you for posting. I lost my mom a year ago. And every time I watch one of your videos I feel like it’s exactly what I need to hear. Thank you 🙏🏻 💜
2025-07-09 00:26:00
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Taryn 🌷📚 :
I feel this in its entirety, thank you for putting it into words. 10months without my mum, and I’ve never been so heartbroken, but I am scared for the day I won’t feel quite so heartbroken. It makes me feel closer to her, to the time she was alive 💜
2025-07-09 07:06:32
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Jackie DiFlavio :
I just ordered the F**k Death book because of you! I lost my dad and grandma in 2018 but one of my best friends in a car accident 5/5/25. Every video I’ve seen of yours has been so helpful to me ❤️
2025-07-09 00:23:39
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A_denden :
Thank you for all that you share
2025-07-10 04:02:59
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sammyzup :
The deep grief and the feeling of it was the closest I could feel to the love. The pain softens but so does the remembering how it felt to love and be loved by my mom.
2025-07-09 23:41:05
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novelty.goth :
this app makes me feel less alone every day 🥹 thank you so much for sharing
2025-08-03 19:26:13
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rebeccaw99 :
I’ve never understood something as much regarding my own grief as this. Thank you.
2025-07-09 01:35:01
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Erica Crouse :
I get it!
2025-07-09 00:19:50
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rushpark🌛✨ :
Are you Mandy from Shameless?
2025-08-10 13:43:23
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Angela :
Yes!! When you were allowed to let the world stop. And nothing else mattered.
2025-09-03 23:29:25
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g :
I feel this. Coming up 2 years without my mum and the heaviness is less. When you do go back into that grief because of something like a song, picture or smell, my gosh that heaviness comes rushing back and is soul destroying. I feel this is something that will never leave.
2025-07-09 22:24:22
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Aw :
Perfectly said 💜 I lost my mom at 29. You explained this feeling so well. Thank you for your words.
2025-07-10 23:48:22
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Kelly Swanson :
I appreciate everyone of your videos❤️. I lost my mom when I was 23, three weeks after becoming a mom myself. That was 25 years ago. Grief is a roller coaster. I miss her everyday but also know she is with me.
2025-08-05 09:46:28
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Logan Whitfill :
Thank you for this. It’s a year this month without my mom and its a good perspective to soak up even the horribleness of this
2025-07-09 04:19:44
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Ladyalice :
This is the same for me too!
2025-07-09 00:43:55
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Melzie_gibs :
Thank you for your videos, I just lost my mum on March 14 and it helps to know people feel how I do ❤️
2025-07-09 03:20:33
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IamGina5.0 :
I don’t agree. I lost my mom 35 years ago and I was 19. I would never ever want to feel that way. I still stiffer to this day from her loss. But I think about her and what she lost. I don’t agree with your therapist.
2025-07-09 08:35:16
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Denise Marie :
Yes, the grief is always there but as time goes on it becomes lighter and in waves. There are days I cry but also days I smile thinking of my mom 6/22/24 especially when my kids share memories of her 💔
2025-09-02 04:11:48
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user3403694710040 :
Yes I understand exactly!
2025-09-01 02:48:03
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anaelenaher :
I lost my mom in february, thank you for sharing this🤍
2025-07-27 00:12:22
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Wise woman 64 :
I feel like I didn’t grieve for my mom. It’s like she died and the next day life went on. There was so much to do. It seems like now I’m feeling the loss so much more 😢
2025-08-12 03:07:35
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Lou :
ohhh i just came to this realization a few days ago. you GET it. what a profound experience, eh?
2025-07-16 13:56:19
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grieflosslifewithchris :
It doesn’t get easier. Just different. Sending you lots of hugs🥰
2025-07-10 15:29:16
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