@iamalilstitious: As someone who very publicly walked this journey I just want to say if you’re going through it too, it gets better. I was full of anger early in our no contact journey, I was mean when I decided I didn’t want to be the bigger person anymore only to come to realize I will always have to be. Accepting that things will most likely never change has eased my expectations and anxiety #daughterinlaw #marriage #estrangement
Unfortunately my husband doesn’t stand up to them, so I have to and I’m always the bad guy 💀
2025-07-10 20:58:55
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Caylee Harris :
I’m struggling to let myself feel peace, I feel angry for him.
2025-07-10 02:25:35
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Sam✨ :
I feel like my husband would resonate with this so much. He’s always let me handle my family affairs, but as soon as he puts his foot down after years of witnessing what I’ve put up with, he’s all of a sudden a bad guy.. when in reality, he’s one of the only consistent people in my life.
2025-07-09 04:52:46
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The Blended Garsha’s :
This hit HOME. Every. Single. Word. I am finally moving into my peace era where we have moved on and realized this is how it will be and we are ok with that
2025-07-10 02:24:12
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Lexi :
it’s so sad how many of us go through the same things & it’s somehow always our fault. and since they can’t learn to love their child’s spouse they now have to learn to live without him
2025-07-09 23:12:13
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Ashley :
Yes! I will forever feel sorry for my husband that he can’t have the relationship that we have with my parents… my son too. But we didn’t get here over night it was 12 years of witnessing the treatment of us or comments etc.
2025-07-09 16:06:38
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crimson_arc92._ :
We’ve been no contact for almost 10 months now. We both deactivated our social media due to that but we recently talked about how we are tired of having to “hide” & not be able to live our life. Any advice?
2025-07-09 18:46:11
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Riette Smit Sutton 🇿🇦 :
Im full of rage and have never hated as much as I hate my Mil and Sil.
2025-07-22 17:27:34
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jor :
After our wedding it was immediate blocks on everything. She’s a stranger, and that’s okay. I just still grieve the idea of having in-laws who actually want us. Having no parents on either side of the family sucks. We feel so alone some days.
2025-07-10 17:24:01
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Anna🍊 :
MIL told me the “disrespect went both ways” and dismissed the initial disrespect towards me in the first place (insults etc). I don’t tolerate disrespect and I will react to it. It seems as tho she thinks her actions will be tolerated and there won’t be any consequences. PUH-LEASE😒
2025-07-10 02:57:29
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Hannah 💕 :
i’m angry because it’s so obvious that my husband has always been the favorite and my heart aches for my SILs
2025-07-11 02:25:20
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Llanessaa :
This 🤍
2025-07-10 03:59:32
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Kacie Berry :
After so many years of grieving you become indifferent 🫶🏼 And eventually you become too evolved to explain it to them.
2025-07-09 15:29:53
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✨Erica_e13 :
I see I’m getting called out on the internet nice and early today 😅 so glad I’m not the only one in this situation but so sorry there are are so many others who relate to this pain 😔
2025-07-09 11:56:26
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Haley :
We’ve been non contact for over 1 year. The block button is the best invention.
2025-07-11 14:29:46
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lilmsocd :
Thank you for sharing this.
2025-07-09 04:37:50
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han :
Silent repost!!!!!!!!
2025-07-10 15:59:39
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macey r. :
This is the most accurate thing I’ve ever read in my life.
2025-07-10 01:23:47
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calistaa_w_rabonnn :
It didn’t even take me years… I blew up after 6 months 🤭
2025-07-18 06:00:54
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✨ :
Going through it but my husband begs me to be in a relationship with them as heals 😭
2025-07-09 03:44:03
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Shelby Hsiung :
We have the same name and same in law story 😭
2025-07-10 21:47:13
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Kay :
This made me cry, sob if you will. The way this pulled at my heart. I’m traumatized by what they have done to him and us
2025-07-11 21:58:26
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Zoey Gordon :
My husband is no contact and it’s been hard watching him go through the stages of grief with his parents who are alive.
2025-07-11 17:42:27
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user05 :
I wonder if there is any daughter in law who doesn't go through this, I used to think I was an exception, for years, until I saw them for wat they really were. Greed, jealousy, hate, and the constant need to be better than everyone else.
2025-07-14 11:52:29
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