@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: This type of narcissist doesn’t love you – – they recruit you. Why? Because deep down, they think you are the one who’s going to save them from themselves. You’re the emotional life raft they’ve been hunting for. But the second you can’t fix what’s broken in them? You become the villain. And the fantasy turns into punishment. ##narcissisticabuse##fyp##narctok##therapy

Abby Rodman | Psychotherapist
Abby Rodman | Psychotherapist
Open In TikTok:
Region: US
Friday 11 July 2025 01:40:09 GMT
107764
6669
565
819

Music

Download

Comments

ashardeyq
Ashardey :
THIS is scarily accurate.
2025-07-11 13:19:01
444
willowtreewitch_
🌜🌕🌛nicole :
He showed up wounded and self aware telling me all the things he learnt in therapy. My broken self thought oh your broken I’m broken too we can help each other ✨🤭 he kept telling I was the kindest person he had ever met and it was his job to never make me cry. He was the worst person to me 😭
2025-07-11 08:38:10
95
lovantova
lovan :
Yes! Every word, spot on. He even admitted it himself, that he thought that being with me would fix/take away his internal anger and was so clearly dissapointed - at me - when it didnt work. Then he discarded me so hard when i got diagnosed with depression and for the ’first time’ in our relationship needed him to show up for me.
2025-07-11 06:09:56
114
cristina9sina
La_Cri_Me :
it is exactly what happened to me . Thank you so much. your words give me the answers he never never gave me .
2025-07-11 05:02:02
100
issa_fullmoon
_ISSA_ :
absolutely....now I had CPTSD and he is charged for abusing
2025-07-11 21:23:03
46
user05592867
Freemind🔻 :
That was my ex & when it didnt work he kept blaming me for all his problems.
2025-07-11 05:36:42
208
twostepsahead__
Heather / Gen X Healing :
I feel this. He thought we'd love in the happy fairytale make believe land with no problems. But once he noticed I was real, with real flaws the devaluation was brutal.
2025-07-12 22:50:39
31
sj_6813
SJ :
Exactly what happened to me. My ex would drink heavily and ask me to drop everything and drive to him late at night and save him, over and over. It was utterly draining and toxic. If I didn’t drop everything he would send me a horrific message and block me, then unblock me. I’m finally moving on from him, but it’s been horrendous.
2025-07-11 09:44:50
19
nursetonya49
Tonya48 :
This spoke to me. I just left a man who was 100% this!
2025-07-11 02:17:02
33
mariah___caitlin
mariah 🦢 :
This is spot on
2025-07-11 04:29:15
9
ka_yeah
elikayeah :
So true. He said “I just thought you would be with me while i fix myself”. 🚩
2025-07-11 02:29:07
24
joshuafinnical
Josh Finnical :
This is exactly the person I met. My ex fiancé played this role perfectly. She was just a con artist!
2025-07-11 09:57:58
35
despierta2715
despierta :
Oh boy unfortunately it’s true
2025-07-13 14:53:53
24
tamsssx
Tami! :
I.e the covert narcissist or toxic empath
2025-07-11 16:35:26
17
houzofdrakonz
Houzofdrakonz :
Honestly best explanation I’ve seen of a vulnerable narcissist. Thanks pretty much oj point.
2025-07-19 11:14:59
29
kimberly_dreamsdaffodils
Kimberly_🌼 🌷 🌼 :
Mine showed up as broken 😞. Then they made me feel broken.
2025-07-14 04:23:55
10
850justus
Justus :
Yes. EXACTLY this. Insane.
2025-07-14 01:16:08
5
skashax444x
Skashax666x :
Vulnerable narcissists
2025-07-12 21:25:30
6
ny_rican247
ny_rican247 :
Exactly how she entered my life. Crazy I avoided her for over a week before we met in person but she was persistent and i gave in lesson learned!!!
2025-07-12 00:33:48
12
rayraysdays
ray ray :
You just perfectly described the relationship I just got out of. Thank you for making me feel less crazy in an incredibly confusing and painful situation.
2025-07-18 17:02:49
9
neveragain830
Melissa :
That was my narcissist severe accurate
2025-07-12 10:21:44
17
tinalemmyinlili
Tina Lemmyin Lili :
He did omg this is Word to Word
2025-07-11 06:26:10
19
beanajean19
beanajean19 :
This is beyond accurate of my experience, every word. You describe him perfectly!! The discard was sooo incredibly heart wrenching. 😐
2025-07-11 02:13:43
12
joekingaround2
joekingaround1 :
💯 She told me "you couldn’t save me" after she cheated on me for two years with multiple people.
2025-07-11 18:20:30
16
hannahmooney51
Iris Moon 🌝 :
Can they be a mix? I think he hated me because I couldn’t fix his deviances
2025-07-13 07:12:14
20
To see more videos from user @abbyrodmanpsychotherapy, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About