@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: This type of narcissist doesn’t love you – – they recruit you. Why? Because deep down, they think you are the one who’s going to save them from themselves. You’re the emotional life raft they’ve been hunting for. But the second you can’t fix what’s broken in them? You become the villain. And the fantasy turns into punishment. ##narcissisticabuse##fyp##narctok##therapy
He showed up wounded and self aware telling me all the things he learnt in therapy. My broken self thought oh your broken I’m broken too we can help each other ✨🤭 he kept telling I was the kindest person he had ever met and it was his job to never make me cry. He was the worst person to me 😭
2025-07-11 08:38:10
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lovan :
Yes! Every word, spot on. He even admitted it himself, that he thought that being with me would fix/take away his internal anger and was so clearly dissapointed - at me - when it didnt work. Then he discarded me so hard when i got diagnosed with depression and for the ’first time’ in our relationship needed him to show up for me.
2025-07-11 06:09:56
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La_Cri_Me :
it is exactly what happened to me . Thank you so much. your words give me the answers he never never gave me .
2025-07-11 05:02:02
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_ISSA_ :
absolutely....now I had CPTSD and he is charged for abusing
2025-07-11 21:23:03
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Freemind🔻 :
That was my ex & when it didnt work he kept blaming me for all his problems.
2025-07-11 05:36:42
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Heather / Gen X Healing :
I feel this. He thought we'd love in the happy fairytale make believe land with no problems. But once he noticed I was real, with real flaws the devaluation was brutal.
2025-07-12 22:50:39
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SJ :
Exactly what happened to me. My ex would drink heavily and ask me to drop everything and drive to him late at night and save him, over and over. It was utterly draining and toxic. If I didn’t drop everything he would send me a horrific message and block me, then unblock me. I’m finally moving on from him, but it’s been horrendous.
2025-07-11 09:44:50
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Tonya48 :
This spoke to me. I just left a man who was 100% this!
2025-07-11 02:17:02
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mariah 🦢 :
This is spot on
2025-07-11 04:29:15
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elikayeah :
So true. He said “I just thought you would be with me while i fix myself”. 🚩
2025-07-11 02:29:07
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Josh Finnical :
This is exactly the person I met. My ex fiancé played this role perfectly. She was just a con artist!
2025-07-11 09:57:58
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despierta :
Oh boy unfortunately it’s true
2025-07-13 14:53:53
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Tami! :
I.e the covert narcissist or toxic empath
2025-07-11 16:35:26
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Houzofdrakonz :
Honestly best explanation I’ve seen of a vulnerable narcissist. Thanks pretty much oj point.
2025-07-19 11:14:59
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Kimberly_🌼 🌷 🌼 :
Mine showed up as broken 😞. Then they made me feel broken.
2025-07-14 04:23:55
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Justus :
Yes. EXACTLY this. Insane.
2025-07-14 01:16:08
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Skashax666x :
Vulnerable narcissists
2025-07-12 21:25:30
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ny_rican247 :
Exactly how she entered my life. Crazy I avoided her for over a week before we met in person but she was persistent and i gave in lesson learned!!!
2025-07-12 00:33:48
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ray ray :
You just perfectly described the relationship I just got out of. Thank you for making me feel less crazy in an incredibly confusing and painful situation.
2025-07-18 17:02:49
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Melissa :
That was my narcissist severe accurate
2025-07-12 10:21:44
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Tina Lemmyin Lili :
He did omg this is Word to Word
2025-07-11 06:26:10
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beanajean19 :
This is beyond accurate of my experience, every word. You describe him perfectly!! The discard was sooo incredibly heart wrenching. 😐
2025-07-11 02:13:43
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joekingaround1 :
💯 She told me "you couldn’t save me" after she cheated on me for two years with multiple people.
2025-07-11 18:20:30
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Iris Moon 🌝 :
Can they be a mix? I think he hated me because I couldn’t fix his deviances
2025-07-13 07:12:14
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