@daycolemepls: I used to be so insecure about my arms. Meanwhile, my husband is constantly using that lil’ arm squish like a built-in stress ball & often tells me how much he loves my lil’ arm jiggle. 🤣 It took me a minute to stop feeling a visceral response to my husband being obsessed with one of my biggest insecurities. We’ve both had to unlearn what the world told us about our bodies. All of those things didn’t just go away because we found somebody who liked us. Being with someone who loves you out loud, insecurities and all, does something to your confidence. People say marriage drains you, but the right one can fill you up in places you didn’t even know were empty.