@itsasiaelaine: This is a reminder that sometimes you just want to decompress alone and that’s okay too. Needing space doesn’t mean you’re disconnected it just means you’re human. Even in the healthiest marriages, time to yourself is necessary and normal. There are plenty of nights when Eric is ready to wind down with a game after putting the kids to bed, and there are just as many nights when I’m counting down the minutes to get back to whatever book I’m reading once the house finally goes quiet. What we’ve learned is that balance is everything. We have a simple rule: at least a couple nights a week, we intentionally reconnect just the two of us. Healthy relationships leave room for both togetherness and independence. Leaving room to honor your individual peace is one of the best things you can do for your partnership. 🤍 #marriagegoals #marriagelife #marriedlifehumor #marriedcouple #marriedlifebelike
And this is exactly how successful, healthy marriages thrive 👏🏽 been with my husband for 16 years & alone time is just as important as togetherness.
2025-07-12 02:19:03
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KING RAE :
its wats done during the alone time thats the problem...
2025-08-02 08:41:02
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saintsonrayeart :
I was thinking about this this morning, cause I’m a newlywed and wanted to know if doing like a vacation together but getting joint rooms to enjoy our individual space is that good or too far? I enjoy space and each others space
2025-07-12 17:25:53
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_lisztohunni :
A healthy marriage is just a happy couple that acknowledges each others needs 💕 whatever that looks like!! I love this!!
2025-10-29 11:55:45
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antonique marie. :
I have to work on this bad. if my man isnt being clingy or however I prefer him to be, I feel disconnected. but there are also days we are cuddled up and such.
2025-07-12 05:14:59
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shanxturner :
Yes!!!! 👏👏👏 Let’s please start normalizing this!
2025-07-12 20:47:00
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kowleynakol :
Yes!! Some days in literally in my husband's skin. Other days I give him a kiss and walk away. He head upstairs and he goes to the basement. We still love each other. Its all good
2025-07-13 02:08:24
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honey&hotsauce :
Thank you! Alone time is important in any relationship! I’ll remind myself when I miss my wife though 😭🖤✨
2025-09-04 06:09:06
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Craig Moore :
yep I agree I got my man cave to garden and watch sports while she in the room reading or watching murder she wrote. going on thirty years married
2025-07-12 20:38:35
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Chic Shades Hair Salon :
Loveeee my alone time☺️
2025-07-13 03:59:27
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tomisha_c :
Absolutely! Almost 25 years. Personal space is key!
2025-07-12 23:41:36
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All Things Ivey 💕 :
Is that Nineteen Minutes you’re reading?? I love that book!
2025-07-12 12:49:07
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Kia🌻 :
yes! and I loved that book. Jodi Picoult is one of my favorite writers 💯
2025-07-13 00:25:02
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Ny 🩺📚✈️ :
i try to tell my husband this . i want to be around you but i don't want to get tired of you. been with you for 12 years and married for 9. i'll tear somebody up bout you but i be needing time too
2025-08-19 19:26:09
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Naomi :
Can I get the coffee table details please
2025-08-16 17:06:13
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LoBarker :
Well done 👌🏿
2025-07-12 22:08:55
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joo2j :
Facts
2025-07-12 10:57:14
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WhitneyAquaQ♒️ :
Tell them 💯. Me time is essential in a marriage
2025-07-12 22:45:09
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Deonya F 🔝 :
Facts!!!!! Let’s talk about it
2025-10-02 16:48:57
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DeAngela B. :
Can’t wait to be a wife 🥰
2025-07-13 23:44:52
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AJ :
That is my wife and I. She was in living room watching her awful British TV shows, while I am in bed watching TikTok
2025-07-12 13:08:38
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Nay_23 :
me and my husband! cuddle time, then there's the time we need healthy space
2025-08-28 01:43:20
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JJ :
ummmm, there's something missing?!
2025-07-13 03:58:08
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Gold Flowers :
Yessss💜💜
2025-07-12 02:30:58
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Kenny Eubanks :
Completely agree!
2025-07-13 02:15:22
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