@colleenkochannek: Reason #3 I will never marry again... No men are 'safe' in my lived experience. I don't trust myself (still trauma healing) to spot red flags. My safety and peace are everything now ... and the men in my life have never been safe even though I was told they 'were supposed to be'. Men do not feel safe to me. #genx #widow #nevermarry #singleforever #single
Awesome for sharing. Being with a controlling person ! Never again. Peace first
2025-07-12 22:05:41
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Joanne :
I made a list. Every single one abusive in some way. Every single one. Never again. I’m at peace and happy 💖
2025-07-13 16:17:21
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1706jeffwint :
Ask ChatGPT what percent of 58 year old widows get remarried. Very very few. You’re in good company 😀
2025-07-12 22:21:17
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Nicola Johnson :
I get you i was with a narcissist..I will never date again
2025-07-13 15:04:51
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WendySue2U :
100% I don’t trust MYSELF! I know myself and my track record is I will try to place all of my focus on making the man happy at the expense of losing myself!!
2025-07-12 23:16:59
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heathergoesrogue :
It’s waaayyyyyy too much work.
2025-07-12 23:26:10
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Kar-Lee319 :
Same girl. I’m 51 and will be single for the rest of my life. It’s not worth the risk. No man has ever given me anything but problems. Just garden, talk to nature, learn herbalism. There’s literally so much to do
2025-07-13 12:35:36
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peace60 :
I don’t get why people say I don’t want to die alone as if you must have a partner to avoid that fate. I have a daughter and brothers and friends who will be there for me. And I don’t have to do their laundry!
2025-07-13 17:10:44
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celeste pasq :
I agree 100%. I have never had a safe man either. You said it perfectly.
2025-07-12 23:46:56
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Patricia Haughton :
The whole world is unsafe.
2025-07-13 19:51:41
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metiches :
exactly!! never marry ever again and no longer dating
2025-07-13 19:36:50
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Noreen Cassidy Hypnotherapist :
I trust myself to recognise the red flags now and that's why I don't go on dates 🤣
2025-07-14 06:13:48
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KristinH :
I will not give up my peace again either!
2025-07-13 03:36:52
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Deborah Casey745 :
ME TOO! I STOPPED ALL DATING 11 YRS AGO DUE TO LIVING WITH A ROYAL NARCISSISTIC JERK. I HAVE NEVER HAD A SAFE MAN IN MY LIFE EITHER! DONE!
I THANK GOD I AM ABLE TO HAVE MY OWN EVERYTHING!
2025-07-13 15:20:13
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Helen :
Me too never had a protective man
2025-07-13 16:46:38
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pumpkin6!! :
I dont trust myself let alone men.
2025-07-12 22:36:29
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The Belonging Stage :
You’re absolutely right 🙏
2025-07-13 04:40:27
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ola :
Yes!! Master of disguise!!!
2025-07-13 05:00:18
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Beyond Words :
I had the safest most amazing husband the earth could provide lost him in October I am devastated 💔 😢 😔
will never marry again
2025-07-13 23:56:07
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Friesen April🇨🇦 ❌ :
Same here, my last long term relationship he was a full blown narcissist. I had to go for counseling to recover from that one. All my relationships have been bad, controlling, abusive mentally and physically. I am beyond done and so much happier being single.
2025-07-13 23:31:07
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jpaula324💙 :
I don’t trust my choices
2025-07-13 12:36:58
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Jody :
Never had a safe one either !
2025-07-13 04:42:18
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sandy :
I had a great man, he's been gone for 7 years, but I'm afraid I wouldn't get that blessed again
2025-07-12 21:38:19
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Jade :
I relate. I will never ever marry again.
2025-07-14 09:52:57
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