Dr. Nicole LePera
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Sunday 13 July 2025 03:16:19 GMT
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Xavier :
Yes!! I feel like defensiveness can be unlearned but if there’s major issues you should look at that at the beginning!!
2025-07-14 02:40:31
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Jorn Slegers :
My mother is hoping for this. She thinks it will do away with my autism. While my brain just can’t compute her lies and she can’t stand me asking questions about everything that is not right.
2025-07-13 07:02:18
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Sebim70 :
Such a thought-provoking question! It really makes you reflect on what we’re willing to accept or change in our lives.
2025-07-13 03:18:15
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Devi Maisha :
Yep. I had to ask myself that question. And I wasn’t okay with how things were and I couldn’t live that way. We ended up getting divorced.
2025-07-13 04:37:58
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DanD Chiggens :
Two people go to couples therapy to improve the effectiveness of their communication as a couple. but they also go there to improve the communication interpersonally. here's what I mean, if we're not a couple two individuals don't need to give a shit about therapy together. if we were coupled and had an intent to do what's best for the team and ourselves as individuals, now I don't see how therapy even enters in :-)
2025-10-30 00:29:06
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Shanimal81 :
I want to go cause I don’t know how to change my issues. And I know if I try and he will too. We just need the tools. Two neurodivergent kids has changed everything and we are lost. We used to have a fantastic and healthy marriage
2025-07-13 16:19:33
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donnamariabradley :
People will only change if they respect, value you, are emotionally intelligent to understand and explore their own & the other persons perspective to try and work through any issues. If it is all one sided & they blame your for the issues, your possibly in an abusive relationship
2025-07-19 10:19:46
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Frank :
then what's the point of therapy lol. You go hoping for change in both... obviously people are in therapy because they don't like where the relationship is at.
2025-08-02 05:52:11
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Michelle Hirsch :
I asked myself if they don’t change at all after not hearing me for years, whats the point of going to therapy lol
2025-07-14 22:50:02
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Chelsea Meditates :
I would have loved the therapist to tell me that I was the one that was wrong because that would have given me control to fix things
2025-07-27 17:45:00
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benflynn1 :
I am just trying my best for my family and my 2 young girls. I also didn't get married to give up. I wish she could see that..
2025-07-13 07:12:14
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Kai :
True. Mine would never even agree to go, as "they were all useless & there's nothing wrong with him. He wouldn't go for himself or for us AS there's nothing wrong with him. "And it's a waste of time"🤪
2025-07-14 21:07:11
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Brandi Jade :
Even with addiction & codependency?
2025-07-19 01:52:57
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Zahra Heydari Therapist :
This is such great point. Hopefully one day people learn sometimes some people will never change .
2025-07-13 19:49:40
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Susan :
Thank you.
2025-07-13 10:39:34
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Lily 💞 :
Dammmm this hit home 😳😳😳
2025-07-13 03:26:59
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Gerlinde🧶LavAngel :
That bracelet is so nice!
2025-07-13 10:11:51
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Michelle Roche Tertel :
Ty for this
2025-07-16 13:30:24
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leofriend4 :
Well…he WAS who I was looking for until we got married. I was HOPING he’d be told his narcissistic traits are abusive for the sake of the children…but of course, he denies it
2025-07-13 09:57:06
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Violet 🏳️🌈 :
I like this shirt
2025-07-13 04:09:29
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Amy :
He says he wouldnt want his daughter to marry someone who treats her like he treats me but he doesnt change. Left a month ago and tying to figure it all out. Therapists have mentioned co dependent, avoidant and personality disorder when discussing him and hebis ADHD but since he sees nothing wrong with his behavior even though his wife and daughter left frightened of his anger he still says I am the majority of the problem as i keep harping and pushing him. Things never are resolved so they keep coming up as i can only ignore so much and he is the one who kept pushing and pushed us to leave as he chose to respond in anger. But it is all my fault. Plus he has blamed his child for his behaviors as well but I do not know how to get her to see that is what he is doing. What a mess. 😩 i hope he finds the happiness he needs.
2025-07-14 03:48:33
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fitfuntam :
NO
2026-02-06 02:52:13
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chimaiera :
I think most people (unless they are very aware) work with automated reactions to different matters which might even have nothing to do with you. It requires insight to recognize these patterns. And vulnerability, the will to communicate and bravery.
2025-09-24 10:00:13
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DanD Chiggens :
I don't know if I answered your question or not. what I do know though is when people are incomplete and not clear anything done or said has that stink on it. individual or team. clearing is always necessary so that presence - a necessary ingredient for genius and accomplishment.
2025-10-30 00:33:09
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angie78341 :
wow...
2025-07-13 03:25:05
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