Jimmy Knowles
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Monday 14 July 2025 17:14:18 GMT
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Mrjch :
It's always the anxious ones that want to fix and want to learn... we are not anxious around safe people in the first place.
2025-07-14 21:33:52
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Anhellah :
its exhausting to be with an anxious attached person
2025-07-20 20:08:12
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9 0 :
avoidant attachment video comments: these people don't deserve love !!!!.....!!... anxious attachment video comments: oh this makes so much sense!
2025-07-16 01:14:56
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JasmineRoy :
that sounds correct. but what if my partner can't talk about feelings, gets all defensive and attacks... so I choose not to talk at all 😒
2025-07-14 17:42:34
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Rima Shastri :
When I communicate my needs, I am told that I’m causing problems. I’m told that I’m making it all up.
2025-07-15 02:45:48
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here is the question my therapist asked me and that probably saved my relationship: is she giving too little, or are you giving too much?
2025-07-14 17:25:29
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OccultGoddess :
Every time I expressed my needs or how their words or actions were hurtful I got gaslit
2025-07-14 17:52:20
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♡ྀིredridinghoodtx♡ྀི :
He’s an avoidant, I WAS anxious. He’s not slowly turning me avoidant. I stopped reaching out.
2025-07-14 20:04:30
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brittany.fleishauer :
What happens when the anxiously attached person finally speaks out and the other person in the relationship immediately feels attacked? Then as things go on they make the serious conversation you just had into small jokes instead of helping you repair and make change.
2025-07-14 22:16:12
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JimmiePierce51 :
You are helping me. And in big ways.
2025-07-25 19:55:06
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User88888888 :
How do you find safety within yourself? What does that look like?
2025-07-15 03:24:55
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tonyabiery :
If we vulnerable they throw it in your face
2025-07-15 09:52:07
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DaringHare :
I've been targeted in the kindest way.
2025-07-14 17:55:33
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vivian :
The best thing to do is tell them what's on your mind, what u feel. Be open to your partner
2025-07-15 20:55:23
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Jay :
it's hard you look for validation when you never got it in the past but when you get it your still afraid of it
2025-07-18 11:56:01
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liebchentherottweiler :
You can give a normal amount and have someone absolutely not be willing to step up. AT ALL. HOW MUCH YOU TOLERATE THAT IS ABOUT you. The fact that they do less than bare minimum is them. (Caploc sorrry)
2025-07-15 21:15:03
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Jason :
Dude, nailed me and my girl .. I am the worst ..I honestly hate myself... I'm so broken . I try so hard the wrong way.. Insecure , Full of FEAR..
2025-07-15 04:42:54
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Kristi Heather 🧚 :
The part about always looking for safety externally…. 😳
2025-07-15 13:34:16
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Morán :
as an anxious I can tell you that we also feel that we're going to be betrayed at any moment that's a core and we feel anxiety for that reason
2025-08-07 01:00:29
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RcknPP7 :
How does one fix this
2025-07-14 17:34:56
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WAM06489 :
What isn’t mentioned here is that attachment styles/methods form in our youth/developmental years (mostly from dysfunctional mom and/or dad)… the CHALLENGE (not problem) for those who learned/adopted this method of attachment is that they MAY face/broach this challenge that Jimmy is speaking about (among other possible internal or external challenges). The STRENGTH is the willingness to give… the CHALLENGE is knowing the volume and duration of the giving and then understanding the ‘why?’ and the ‘to what end?’. The answer to ‘why?’ shouldn’t be ‘fear/afraid’. The answer to ‘to what end?’ shouldn’t be ‘my detriment/my end’.
2025-07-15 07:50:38
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Michael🚑Best🚑EMS🚑Dispatcher :
it's not going to matter
2025-10-12 19:46:11
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happi2beme :
i had to learn that other people are not responsible for my emotional regulation.
2025-08-17 13:49:26
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lamp_post_are_cool :
Often times the disconnection comes from anticipation and assumption.
2025-12-21 20:41:08
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Greg :
HELP 🚨🚨🚨 okay so ive been talking to this guy and the first date went really well along with texting! at the end of the first date he asked about second date. but over text we have not brought up said second date. so a week later i asked if he was still interested in meeting up and it took him longer to respond than usual like it was just the next day. so then he says yes hes still interested now i feel him pulling back but hes also busy bc hes in school. BUT MY QUESTION IS AM I CHASING like next time im not bringing up anything bc now i feel like i ruined it
2025-09-29 21:16:12
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