Jimmy Knowles
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Monday 14 July 2025 17:14:18 GMT
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Anhellah :
its exhausting to be with an anxious attached person
2025-07-20 20:08:12
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Mrjch :
It's always the anxious ones that want to fix and want to learn... we are not anxious around safe people in the first place.
2025-07-14 21:33:52
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JasmineRoy :
that sounds correct. but what if my partner can't talk about feelings, gets all defensive and attacks... so I choose not to talk at all 😒
2025-07-14 17:42:34
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here is the question my therapist asked me and that probably saved my relationship: is she giving too little, or are you giving too much?
2025-07-14 17:25:29
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Rima Shastri :
When I communicate my needs, I am told that I’m causing problems. I’m told that I’m making it all up.
2025-07-15 02:45:48
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OccultGoddess :
Every time I expressed my needs or how their words or actions were hurtful I got gaslit
2025-07-14 17:52:20
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9 0 :
avoidant attachment video comments: these people don't deserve love !!!!.....!!... anxious attachment video comments: oh this makes so much sense!
2025-07-16 01:14:56
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brittany.fleishauer :
What happens when the anxiously attached person finally speaks out and the other person in the relationship immediately feels attacked? Then as things go on they make the serious conversation you just had into small jokes instead of helping you repair and make change.
2025-07-14 22:16:12
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♡ྀིredridinghoodtx♡ྀི :
He’s an avoidant, I WAS anxious. He’s not slowly turning me avoidant. I stopped reaching out.
2025-07-14 20:04:30
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JimmiePierce51 :
You are helping me. And in big ways.
2025-07-25 19:55:06
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Kristi Heather 🧚 :
The part about always looking for safety externally…. 😳
2025-07-15 13:34:16
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RcknPP7 :
How does one fix this
2025-07-14 17:34:56
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Jay :
it's hard you look for validation when you never got it in the past but when you get it your still afraid of it
2025-07-18 11:56:01
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DaringHare :
I've been targeted in the kindest way.
2025-07-14 17:55:33
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User88888888 :
How do you find safety within yourself? What does that look like?
2025-07-15 03:24:55
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vivian :
The best thing to do is tell them what's on your mind, what u feel. Be open to your partner
2025-07-15 20:55:23
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Tonya :
If we vulnerable they throw it in your face
2025-07-15 09:52:07
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liebchentherottweiler :
You can give a normal amount and have someone absolutely not be willing to step up. AT ALL. HOW MUCH YOU TOLERATE THAT IS ABOUT you. The fact that they do less than bare minimum is them. (Caploc sorrry)
2025-07-15 21:15:03
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Jason :
Dude, nailed me and my girl .. I am the worst ..I honestly hate myself... I'm so broken . I try so hard the wrong way.. Insecure , Full of FEAR..
2025-07-15 04:42:54
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Morán :
as an anxious I can tell you that we also feel that we're going to be betrayed at any moment that's a core and we feel anxiety for that reason
2025-08-07 01:00:29
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WAM06489 :
What isn’t mentioned here is that attachment styles/methods form in our youth/developmental years (mostly from dysfunctional mom and/or dad)… the CHALLENGE (not problem) for those who learned/adopted this method of attachment is that they MAY face/broach this challenge that Jimmy is speaking about (among other possible internal or external challenges). The STRENGTH is the willingness to give… the CHALLENGE is knowing the volume and duration of the giving and then understanding the ‘why?’ and the ‘to what end?’. The answer to ‘why?’ shouldn’t be ‘fear/afraid’. The answer to ‘to what end?’ shouldn’t be ‘my detriment/my end’.
2025-07-15 07:50:38
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lamp_post_are_cool :
Often times the disconnection comes from anticipation and assumption.
2025-12-21 20:41:08
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Michael🚑Best🚑EMS🚑Dispatcher :
it's not going to matter
2025-10-12 19:46:11
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happi2beme :
i had to learn that other people are not responsible for my emotional regulation.
2025-08-17 13:49:26
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Jeskhy :
How can you trust the closeness when they’ve lied about it in the past and now refuse to talk about it and continue to lie about stuff? Now that I’m in love with him how do I just walk away? This is so dam painful!!
2025-09-21 04:31:40
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