Dr. Connie, the small talk doc
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Tuesday 15 July 2025 00:02:42 GMT
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SweetSallyO'Mally :
She’s 100% right. Free association does make you a lot quicker and funnier. Think of comedians when they talk with each other. Almost all the funny parts are free association
2025-07-28 11:09:28
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I promise you witty people are not sitting at home on a computer and practising how to be funny
2025-07-18 17:16:15
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dynamiccharlie :
The only problem with this is you WILL eventually say something that offends someone/is inappropriate. It's not a matter of if, but when. Own it.
2025-07-15 21:47:51
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kannan90 :
As a conversationally “witty” person, I swear it’s 50% callbacks. Relating the current topic to something that was said earlier in the conversation makes even the mildest joke infinitely funnier. It’s a custom one off inside joke, and everyone loves it.
2025-07-16 00:09:27
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Kelp XL :
Y’all can’t do this naturally???
2025-07-16 07:22:36
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mandy xcx :
talk to yourself all the time. and become very observant. make it a point every day to notice things. it makes you more tuned in and gives you lots of matierap
2025-07-15 18:57:25
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enhatrify :
You need to be ept in media and entertainment, it’s not about pulling random words. It’s about knowing the culture and moments, shows, music, funny things
2025-07-15 21:57:02
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Hesh_Ghost :
my one liners are an innate gift
2025-07-15 08:17:07
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Yo Momma :
Keke Palmer immediately came to mind. Her charisma and banter is OUT OF THIS WORLD. 😩
2025-07-18 05:36:15
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🌼 PauPau 🌼 :
I have ADHD this happens naturally
2025-07-15 17:50:21
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Goldeneye007 :
Those with ADHD are born with this and if you sprinkle in our impulsivity, it gets us in trouble. 😅
2025-07-15 18:52:39
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Inscony :
I need this. Corporate life has drained me of my creativity
2025-07-15 11:56:39
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JustCallMeMagic :
conversations ARE a game and im WINNING
2025-07-15 17:05:49
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amazingsup0r :
I'd also suggest -- avoid low hanging fruit. "That's what she said" type 'jokes', or "passer, hardly know her" will get an 'acknowledgement of comedic intent' which is very different from a laugh.
2025-07-15 14:44:20
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Daved // Design + Motion :
Take improve classes! It teaches the importance of being an attentive listener and building off of others. It’s also a good way to make friends
2025-07-15 19:40:21
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K :
I used to be so witty. idk how I lost it.
2025-07-15 22:17:17
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MyaPayme1000💕 :
Your eyes are so beautiful
2026-02-03 05:19:27
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Kit :
This is where my ADHD is an asset
2025-07-16 18:29:48
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Elle Kyng :
pop culture references do it too. Stuff that everyone would know.
2025-07-15 15:23:18
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Misty :
ppl in the comments don't seem to understand what she's saying. it won't be 'trying hard' if funny comments naturally come to you, it'll be you in your natural state. that's the point of these exercises, to sharpen your mind.
2025-07-17 07:33:34
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moonbeam :
my problem is that my brain will immediately make the associations and i’ll have a whole convo with myself in my head but i get too shy to actually say what im thinking 😭
2025-07-16 03:18:56
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iwantcandy44 :
Just watch Gilmore girls
2025-07-15 07:59:24
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WhiskeyGeek :
I started just insulting people while free associating and now people love me. Make it stop.
2025-07-15 19:07:21
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queen goblin ᓚᘏᗢ :
the concept of having to practice pattern recognition is crazy to me omg
2025-07-16 18:58:13
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user7230316638270 :
When you’re watching tv or listening to podcasts, try to come up with good responses to their conversations (Sitcoms are easy bc they kinda set it up for you) Then unpause and see what the person says. —- listen to interviews and practice answering questions —- talk to yourself and your pets CONSTANTLY about everything
2025-07-15 23:15:11
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